Izabelo zikaWhitney Port ezinye zeengcinga ezinokuphindaphindeka malunga nokuncancisa

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Inye into ethi ngamanye amaxesha ikhunjulwe kukonwaba kokukhulelwa nokuba nomntwana? Inyaniso yokuba ayikokukhanya kwelanga konke kunye nemvula. Kodwa iWhitney Port ithatha indlela eyahlukileyo-kwaye iyinyani kakhulu kumama omtsha.

Ngalo lonke ixesha lokukhulelwa kukaPort nasemva kokuzalwa komntwana wakhe, ebesenza uthotho lwevidiyo olubizwa ngokuba "Ndiyaluthanda usana lwam, kodwa ..." elunge kakhulu into evakala ngathi-uthotho oluzinikele ekunyanisekeni malunga namava akhe ngokukhulelwa nokuzalwa. . (FYI, nantsi ingqondo yakho ekukhulelweni, iveki neveki.)

Ngokubanzi, uthotho alubethisi ngaphandle kobunzima bokukhulelwa nokuba ngumama. Kanye ngaphambi kokuba abeleke, wathetha ngengxaki yekota yakhe yesithathu kwaye wachaza iimpawu awayejongene nazo, ezifana neetoni zokuqunjelwa kunye nezandla ezithambileyo neenyawo.

Ngoku, izibuko lithatha ukuncancisa. Kwintetho ye-Instagram ekhuthaza ividiyo yakhe yamva nje, ufumana inyani: "Andikhathalelanga ukuncancisa. Apho. Nditshilo. Ungandivi kakubi, NDIYAYITHANDA into yokuba usana lwam lufumana zonke izakha mzimba ukusuka elubisini lwam kwaye ndimnika ubomi ngokoqobo, kodwa ibingumceli mngeni.Umceli mngeni endandingaziva ulungele kwaphela. "

Uhlabela mgama esithi abasetyhini basoloko bexelelwa ukuba ukuncancisa yeyona ndlela ilungileyo kumama kunye nosana, kunceda ukuphelisa izifo, ukukhuthaza impilo entle, kunye nokutshisa iikhalori ezinokunceda ukunciphisa ubunzima obufunyenwe ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Kuyinyani ukuba ukuncancisa kunika itoni yezibonelelo zempilo, kodwa akukho lula kuwo wonke umntu. Ngapha koko, kwividiyo, wabelana ngayo wangena kuyo ecinga ukuba uya kuncancisa, kodwa emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa ukuyenza, kwavakala ngathi kukho umntu osika iingono zakhe ngeglasi. Yhu. (Eyeleleneyo: Ngaba uNcedo lokuncancisa lugqithiselwe ngaphezulu?)

Ukuthathela ingqalelo ukuba ezona zinto ziphambili sizivayo malunga nokuncancisa kule mihla kukuba zikhulu kangakanani kwaye kufuneka zenziwe njengesiqhelo ASAP (zombini ziyinyani!), Kulula ukubona ukuba kutheni iPort yaziva ingcinezelo enkulu yokwenza umsebenzi wokuncancisa. Kodwa inyani yile, njengayo nayiphi na enye into enxulumene nempilo, izinto ezahlukeneyo zisebenzela abantu abohlukeneyo. Ayinguye wonke umntu oya kuba namava amnandi ekuncanciseni, kwaye iividiyo ezinyanisekileyo zePort zisisikhumbuzo esihle sokuba ziipesenti ezili-100 zilungile.

Ukubona ngakumbi into ayithethayo ngesihloko, jonga ividiyo epheleleyo engezantsi.

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