Kutheni iqabane lam lingazukulala nam?

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Iqabane lakho elithi "hayi" kwisondo linokuba yinto ekhathazayo kakhulu. Ingakuthumela kumoya ongezantsi wokucinga ngokungazithembi: Yintoni engalunganga ngam? Yintoni engalunganga ngobudlelwane bethu? Kuthekani ukuba andinqweneleki ngokwaneleyo?

Phambi kokuba uzibeke ityala (musa!), Shape sexpert uGqr. Logan Levkoff ulapha ukunceda; inokuba yinto yenyama okanye yonyango (cinga: ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile) okanye into yeemvakalelo, yezopolitiko, okanye yokomoya (mhlawumbi akakakulungeli okanye ufuna ukulinda de atshate). Kodwa eyona nto kukuba, awuyi kusazi ukuba yintoni isizathu de uthethe ngayo. Ukuthetha ngesondo kunokoyikisa (nokuba kunye neqabane othembela kulo kwaye ulikhathalele), ngakumbi xa malunga nento oyifunayo ebhedini, imikhwa ye-porn yeqabane lakho, okanye into yokuba abafuni ngesondo. Kodwa njengoko uGqirha uLevkoff esitsho, ekuphela kwendlela onokuvuna ngayo ezona mvakalelo zinzulu, zomzimba, kunye nezokwabelana ngesondo kubudlelwane kukuzivumela ube sesichengeni ngokwaneleyo ukuba uzise izinto ezinzima ngexesha lomlomo womlomo. Sibheja uya kuvuya ukuba uyenzile.

Kwaye, eneneni, sukuxinezeleka ukuba iqabane lakho lifuna ukuthatha ixesha lazo zonke iindlela. Inani eliqhelekileyo lamaqabane amadoda amadala phakathi kwama-25 ukuya kuma-44 lithandathu, kwaye zine kuphela kubafazi. Ke ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho niyalondoloza xa kufikwa kwisini, phumla. AWUKHO wedwa.

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