Lo mfazi wagxothwa echibini ngenxa yokuba umzimba wakhe 'wawungafanelekanga'

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Ngelixa senze umtsi kwicala elichanekileyo xa kuziwa kukuqina komzimba kunye nokuzamkela, amabali afana noTori Jenkins 'akwenza uqonde ukuba kusafuneka sihambe kangakanani. Ummi waseTennessee oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala waya kwidama lasekhaya ngempelaveki kwaye wadibana nabacebisi ababini abaqeshisa ngokunxiba “impahla yokuqubha engafanelekanga” yesiqwenga esinye. (Ifoto engezantsi.)

Uchukunyiswe ziziganeko eziza kulandela, isoka likaJenkins uTyler Newman uthathe u-Facebook ukuveza ukuba uJenkins wanikwa iindlela ezintathu: ukutshintsha, ukugquma, okanye ukushiya. "Namhlanje, umntu endiza kutshata naye wajongana nokuba angatshintsha isuti yakhe yokuhlamba, azigqume ngebhulukhwe emfutshane, okanye ashiye ichibi ebesibhatale imali eyi- $ 300 ukuyigcina," ubhale watsho. “UTori utyholwa ngokunxiba ‘isuti yokuhlamba ithong’ kwaye waxelelwa ukuba kukho izikhalazo ngendlela awayenxibe ngayo. (Eyeleleneyo: Emva kokuba Nomzimba Unentloni Ngokunxiba Ibhulukhwe yeYoga, uMama Ufunda Isifundo Sokuzithemba)

Ngelixa imithetho kwiqula lendlu yeflethi ithi "isinxibo esifanelekileyo kufuneka sinxitywe ngamaxesha onke," i-Jenkins' swimsuit (ngoko nawuphi na umgangatho) ibonakala ifanelekile. Thatha ujongo:

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"Uxelelwe ngumcebisi wokuqeshisa ukuba umzimba wakhe, kuba wakhiwe [i-curvier] kunabanye, 'awufanelekanga kakhulu' ukuba abantwana babekho," utshilo uNewman kwisithuba sakhe. Kwaye ayisiyiyo yonke loo nto: UJenkins uxelelwe ukuba uxanduva lwendlela amadoda asabela ngayo kuhlobo lomzimba wakhe. (Eyeleleneyo: Uphononongo lufumana ihlazo loMzimba luKhokelele kuMngcipheko wokuFa okuPhezulu)

"Baninzi abafana abakwishumi elivisayo kwesi sakhiwo, kwaye awudingi ukubavuyisa," utshilo umcebisi kuJenkins.

"Ndicinga ukuba ungoyena mfazi umhle emhlabeni, kodwa ndiyamhlonipha," utshilo uNewman kwisithuba sakhe. "Andinakuze ndimenze yena okanye naliphi na elinye ibhinqa lizive lingaphantsi kwento ayixabisileyo ngenxa yengubo yakhe okanye inkangeleko yakhe."

Kodwa mhlawumbi eyona nto ibalulekileyo eyenziwa nguNewman yayikukuba umlingane wakhe "uxelelwe ukuba akabalulekanga kunendlela amadoda aziva ngayo xa ekufutshane naye." Kwaye yeyona nto ibonisayo ngabantu be-33,000 abayithandayo iposti ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. "Nxiba. Yintoni. Wena. Uyathanda. Abafazi banexhala malunga nokuziphatha koonyana bakho endaweni yokuhlazisa abanye abantu basetyhini," kubhale umntu omnye. "Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngesuti yakho yokuhlamba. Ukhangeleka kakhulu," watsho omnye.

UJenkins uye wabulela wonke umntu ngenkxaso yakhe kwiposti yakhe kaFacebook, kodwa wathi uziva “ebuhlungu ngokwenene” ngaye ukusukela ngoko.

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"INqaku elipheleleyo lale post kukuba akukho ndoda okanye mfazi unelungelo lokundenza ndizive ndingonwabanga kulusu lwam," ubhale watsho. "Akukho lungelo lokuba ngamapolisa okanye nawuphi na omnye umntu." Shumayela.

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