Iintsapho ezithandekayo ezinamandla: I-COVID-19 yakho yoyika yinto yam yoNyaka ejikelezayo

Umxholo

• Ndacinga ukuba ukuqondwa kungaziva ngcono
• Sonke sinoxanduva lokunciphisa ukusasazeka kwesi sifo
• Nale iza kudlula

Umzekeliso nguBrittany England

Konke ukuwa, kufuneka ndixelele abantu ukuba ndiyabathanda- kodwa hayi, andinako ukubanga.

Kuya kufuneka ndichaze ukulibaziseka kwembalelwano. Hayi, andinakuza kwinto yakho emnandi kakhulu. Ndisula imiphezulu endiza kuyisebenzisa esidlangalaleni ngokusula iintsholongwane. Ndiphethe iiglavu zenitrile ebhegini yam. Ndinxibe imaski yonyango. Ndinuka okokucoca izandla.

Ndiyazicutha iindlela zam zesiqhelo, zonyaka wonke zokuzikhusela nge. Andikuphephi ngokulula iisaladi, ndiyakuphepha ukutya kwiivenkile zokutyela kwaphela.

Ndihamba iintsuku-ngamanye amaxesha iiveki-ngaphandle kokunyathela ngaphandle kwekhaya lam. I-pantry yam igcwele, iyeza lam eligcwele ikhabhathi, abathandekayo behlisa izinto andinakukuthenga ngokulula ngokwam. Ndizifihla.

Njengomfazi okhubazekileyo nongaguliyo onezifo ezininzi ezisebenza ngokuzikhusela komzimba ezisebenzisa i-chemotherapy kunye namanye amayeza athintela amajoni omzimba ukulawula imisebenzi yezifo, ndiqhele ukoyikwa kosulelo. Ukudideka ekuhlaleni yinto eqhelekileyo kum ngamaxesha athile onyaka.

Kulo nyaka, kubonakala ngathi andindedwa. Njengokuba isifo secoronavirus esitsha, i-COVID-19, ihlasela uluntu lwethu, abantu abomeleleyo bafumana olu hlobo loloyiko lokuba izigidi zabantu abaphila nenkqubo yomzimba yokuzikhusela ebeka esichengeni ngalo lonke ixesha.

Ndacinga ukuba ukuqondwa kungaziva ngcono

Xa ukudideka ekuhlaleni kwaqala ukungena kulwimi lwasekhaya, ndacinga ukuba ndingaziva ndomelele. (Okokugqibela! Inkathalo yoluntu!)

Kodwa i-flip ekwazini iyamangalisa. Njengolwazi lokuba, kubonakala ngathi, akukho namnye umntu obehlamba izandla ngokufanelekileyo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Kubonisa uloyiko lwam olusemthethweni lokushiya indlu rhoqo, ngaphandle kosuku lwesifo.

Ukuphila njengomfazi okhubazekileyo nonobunzima kwezonyango kundinyanzelisile ukuba ndibe luhlobo lweengcali kwicandelo ebendingafuni ukuba likhona. Abahlobo bebenditsalela umnxeba hayi nje ukunika uncedo, okanye ngengcebiso yezempilo engacelwanga, kodwa ukuba babuze: Bamele benze ntoni? Ndenza ntoni?

Njengokuba ubuchule bam bufunwa kulo bhubhane, buyacinywa ngaxeshanye xa umntu ephinda, "Yintoni enkulu le nto? Ngaba ukhathazekile malunga nomkhuhlane? Kuyingozi kubantu abadala. ”

Oko kubonakala ngathi abakuhoyi kukuba mna, kunye nabanye abaphila neemeko zempilo ezingapheliyo, siwela kweli qela linye lisemngciphekweni omkhulu. Ewe, umkhuhlane luloyiko lobomi kwizonyango.

Kuya kufuneka ndifumane intuthuzelo kukuzithemba kwam ukuba ndenza konke ekufuneka ndikwenzile- kwaye kuko konke oko kunokwenziwa. Ngaphandle koko, ukuxhalaba kwezempilo kunokundigubungela. (Ukuba woyisiwe luxinzelelo olunxulumene ne-coronavirus, nceda ufikelele kumboneleli wakho wezempilo yengqondo okanye kwiCrisis Text Line.)

Sonke sinoxanduva lokunciphisa ukusasazeka kwesi sifo

Lo bhubhani yeyona meko imbi kakhulu yento endihlala nayo kwaye ndiyithathela ingqalelo unyaka nonyaka. Ndichitha ixesha elininzi lonyaka, ngakumbi ngoku, ndisazi ukuba umngcipheko wokufa uphezulu.

Zonke iimpawu zesifo sam zinokuba luphawu losulelo. Lonke usulelo lunokuba "lulo", kwaye ndinethemba nje lokuba ugqirha wam okhathalelayo uyafumaneka, ukuba uxinzelelo olungxamisekileyo kunye namagumbi angxamisekileyo aya kundithatha ngexesha elifanelekileyo, kwaye ndiza kubona ugqirha okholelwa ukuba ndinguye ndiyagula, nokuba andijongi.

Inyani yile, inkqubo yethu yokhathalelo lwempilo ineziphene- ukutsho nje okuncinci.

Oogqirha abasoloko bemamela kwizigulana zabo, kwaye uninzi lwabasetyhini luyasokola ukuba iintlungu zabo zithathwe ngokungathí sina.

I-United States ichitha imali ephindwe kabini kunonophelo lwempilo njengamanye amazwe anengeniso ephezulu, neziphumo ezibi zokuyibonisa. Kwaye amagumbi kaxakeka abenomthamo wokuthwala ngaphambili besijongene nobhubhane.

Inyaniso yokuba inkqubo yethu yokhathalelo lwempilo ayilungiselelwanga kabuhlungu ukuqhambuka kwe-COVID-19 ngoku kubonakala kucacile hayi kuphela kubantu abachitha ixesha elininzi bekhathazekile yinkqubo yezonyango- kodwa kuluntu ngokubanzi.

Nangona ndikufumanisa kuyinto ekhubekisayo ukuba indawo yokuhlala bendisilwela ubomi bam bonke (njengokufunda nokusebenza ekhaya kunye nokuvota ngeposi) zinikezelwa ngokukhululekileyo ngoku ngoku ukuba abantu abanamandla babona olu hlengahlengiso lusengqiqweni, Ndiyavuma ngentliziyo yam yonke ngawo onke amanyathelo okhuseleko.

E-Italiya, oogqirha abagqithisileyo bekhathalela abantu abane-COVID-19 baxele ukuba kufuneka benze isigqibo sokuba ngubani oza kufa. Abo kuthi basemngciphekweni omkhulu weengxaki ezinzulu banokuthemba kuphela ukuba abanye baya kwenza konke okusemandleni abo ukunceda ukucoca igophe, ke oogqirha baseMelika abajongananga nolu khetho.

Nale iza kudlula

Ngaphandle kwento yokuzahlula uninzi lwethu lukhona ngoku, zikho ezinye iindlela ezizezona zichanekileyo ezibuhlungu kubantu abafana nam.

Kude kube sicacile kwelinye icala lale nto, andinakho ukuthatha amayeza acinezela umsebenzi wesifo, kuba ezi zonyango ziwacinezela amajoni am omzimba. Oko kuthetha ukuba ukugula kwam kuya kuhlasela amalungu am, izihlunu, amalungu, ulusu, nokunye, de kube kukhuselekile kum ukuba ndiqhubeke nonyango.

Kude kube lelo xesha, ndiya kuba sentlungwini, imeko yam enoburhalarhume ingaphazanyiswa.

Kodwa sinokuqinisekisa ukuba ixesha sonke esivaleleke ngaphakathi lifutshane kangangoko kunokwenzeka ebantwini. Nokuba azikhuselekanga okanye hayi, iinjongo zomntu wonke kufuneka zikukuphepha ukuba sisixhobo sesifo kwabanye abantu.

Singakwenza oku, iqela, ukuba nje siyaqonda ukuba sonke sikule nto kunye.

U-Alyssa MacKenzie ngumbhali, umhleli, utitshala, kunye nommeli osekwe ngaphandle nje kweManhattan onomdla wobuqu kunye nobuntatheli kuyo yonke imiba yamava oluntu adibana nokukhubazeka kunye nesifo esinganyangekiyo (inqaku: yiyo yonke into). Ufuna nje ukuba wonke umntu azive elungile kangangoko. Ungamfumana kwiwebhusayithi yakhe, kwi-Instagram, kuFacebook, okanye kuTwitter.