U-Taylor Swift udiniwe kukubona iMigangatho yeSexist kabini ibambe abasetyhini
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I-ICYMI, enye yeengoma zikaTaylor Swift ezintsha, "Indoda", iphonononga imigangatho emibini yesini kwishishini lokuzonwabisa. Kwiingoma, uSwift uthathela ingqalelo ukuba ingaba "uyinkokeli engenaloyiko" okanye "uhlobo lwe-alpha" ukuba ebeyindoda endaweni yomfazi. Ngoku, kudliwanondlebe olutsha noZane Lowe kumdlalo kanomathotholo we-Apple Music Beats 1, uSwift wavula malunga nokuziphatha ngokwesini awayekunyamezele kwasekuqaleni komsebenzi wakhe owaphefumlela la mazwi: “Xa ndandineminyaka engama-23, abantu babesenza imiboniso yesilayidi ngobomi bam bokuthandana kwaye. ukubeka abantu apho bendikhe ndahlala ecaleni kwabo ethekweni kube kanye kwaye ndathatha isigqibo sokuba ukubhala kwam ingoma kuliqhinga kunokuba bubuchule kunye nobuchule, ”uxelele uLowe.
Nje ukuba abantu bathathe u-Swift njenge "serial dater," wathi waziva ngathikonke Ukufezekisa kwakhe kuncitshisiwe kwileyibhile. Ngeli xesha, amadoda awayethandana nawo (nditsho adumileyo) asinda kweso sigwebo-ebonisa umgangatho ophindwe kabini amanina amaninzi angaphandle kwishishini lomculo anokuqonda nawo. (Inxulumene: UTaylor Swift ufunga ngale Ncedisi yoXinzelelo kunye noXinzelelo
Thatha umthambo weOlimpiki uGabby Douglas, umzekelo: Emva kokuphumelela iimbasa zegolide ezimbini kwii-Olimpiki zika-2012, abantu kwimithombo yeendaba zentlalo bagxeka iinwele zikaDouglas ngokujonga "ukungcola" xa kuthelekiswa nabanye abenza umthambo. Kwiminyaka emine kamva ngexesha le-Olimpiki ka-2016 eRio, abantu babe nangoku i-tweeting malunga neenwele zikaDouglas, kunembasa yakhe yesithathu yegolide, ngelixa usasazo lwemithombo yeendaba malunga neegymnast zamadoda zeQela lase-USA ngokuqinisekileyo aluzange lubandakanye naziphi na iinkcukacha malunga nembonakalo yobuhle yabadlali.
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Kwaye njengoko uSwift watshoyo kudliwanondlebe wakhe Beats 1, xa ababhinqileyo yenza balwele into ebafaneleyo okanye babize into engenamsebenzi, bethoba isidima ngokubonakala kwabo (amagqabantshintshi angenakuze enziwe ngendoda), abantu bahlala begweba ukuba bathethe phandle kwaphela. "Andiqondi ukuba abantu bayayiqonda indlela ekulula ngayo ukuthathela ingqalelo into yokuba umntu oligcisa labasetyhini okanye owasetyhini kwishishini lethu wenza into engalunganga ngokufuna uthando, ukufuna imali, ukufuna impumelelo," uxelele uLowe. "Abafazi abavumelekanga ukuba bafune ezo zinto ngendlela amadoda avunyelwe ukuba azifune ngayo." (Idibeneyo: Xa ubundlobongela buxutywe nguNcoma)
Imiba ecwangcisiweyo yocalucalulo ngokwesini kwishishini lezolonwabo, ezemidlalo, kumagumbi okudlala, nangaphaya azinakusonjululwa ngobusuku obunye. Kodwa njengoko uSwift exelele uLowe, apho zi abantu abasebenzela ukuphelisa ukungaziphathi kakuhle ngaphakathi yonke imihla-njengoJameela Jamil, umzekelo. "Sijonge indlela esigxeka ngayo imizimba yabasetyhini," utshilo uSwift kuLowe. "Sinabafazi abamangalisayo phaya njengoJameela Jamil esithi," Andizami ukusasaza ubume bomzimba. Ndizama ukusasaza ukungathathi cala komzimba apho ndihlala apha kwaye ndingacingi ukuba ujongeka njani umzimba wam. " Related: Lo Mfazi wawuchaza ngokugqibeleleyo umahluko phakathi kokuZithanda kunye nePositivity yoMzimba)
Ngokuphathelele ubulili kumashishini omculo, u-Swift wabelane ngeengcebiso zakhe kubaculi ababhinqileyo abazayo-ingcebiso leyo wonke umntu unokufunda koku: Ungaze uyeke ukudala, nokuba ujongene nokuziphatha kakubi. "Ungavumeli nantoni na ikuthintele ekwenzeni ubugcisa," uxelele uLowe. "Ungazibambisi kule nto ikuthintelayo ekwenzeni ubugcisa, nokuba ufuna ukwenza ubugcisa malunga noku. Kodwa ungaze uyeke ukwenza izinto."