Ngubani uMyinge woMntu woMlingani wamaSondo?

Umxholo

• Lo mndilili wahluka njani ngokwamazwe?
• Ngaba i-avareji yaseMelika ithelekiswa njani namanye amazwe?
• Kukangaphi abantu bexoka ngenani labo?
• Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ube 'ngogcinayo' okanye 'oziphethe kakubi'?
• Ke, yintoni 'efanelekileyo'?
• Khumbula
  
• Ngawaphi amanqaku ekufuneka uxoxe ngembali yakho yesondo kunye neqabane lakho?
• Ungakufumana njani ukosuleleka sisondo kwiqabane elitsha?
• Ukwenza ngokwesondo okukhuselekileyo
• Umgca wezantsi

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Iyahluka

I-avareji yenani lamaqabane ezesondo kumadoda nabafazi eUnited States yi-7.2, inika ingxelo yophando lwakutshanje lweSuperdug.

Umthengisi wezempilo kunye nobuhle osekwe e-UK ubuze ngaphezulu kwamadoda nabasetyhini abangama-2 000 eUnited States naseYurophu ukuba bachaze iingcinga zabo namava abo kwiimbali zesini.

Ngelixa umndilili ohluka ngokusekwe kwisini kunye nendawo, uphando lubonisa ukuba - xa kufikwa kwinto ephakathi - "eqhelekileyo" ayikho ngokwenene.

Imbali yezesondo iyahluka, kwaye yinto eqhelekileyo leyo. Yintoni ebalulekileyo kukuba ukhuselekile kwaye uthatha amanyathelo okuthintela ukusasazeka kwezifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo.

Lo mndilili wahluka njani ngokwamazwe?

Njengoko kuvela, inani eliqhelekileyo lamaqabane ezesondo lahluka kakhulu ukusuka kurhulumente ukuya kurhulumente.

Abahlali baseLouisiana baxele umndilili wamaqabane ezesondo ali-15.7, ngelixa i-Utah ivalwe nge-2.6- kodwa umahluko uyavakala. Ngaphezulu kweepesenti ezingama-62 zabahlali base-Utah ngamalungu eCawa likaYesu Kristu we-Saints-Day Saints, ekhuthaza ukunganxibi kude kutshate.

Ngaba i-avareji yaseMelika ithelekiswa njani namanye amazwe?

Ngenxa yomahluko ngaphakathi eUnited States, ayothusi into yokuba umndilili ohlukile kuyo yonke iYurophu. Abaphenduli e-United Kingdom balinganisa amaqabane asixhenxe, ngelixa i-Italiya yafumana i-5.4.

Ngelishwa, idatha kwiindawo ezingaphandle kwe-United States kunye neNtshona Yurophu ayifumaneki ngokulula, ke kunzima ukwandisa ukuthelekisa ngakumbi.

Kukangaphi abantu bexoka ngenani labo?

Ngokophando, iipesenti ezingama-41.3 zamadoda kunye neepesenti ezingama-32.6 zabasetyhini bavumile ukuba bayaxoka ngembali yabo yezesondo. Ngokubanzi, amadoda kunokwenzeka ukuba anyuse inani labo abelana nabo ngesondo, ngelixa abasetyhini kunokwenzeka ukuba banciphise.

Okwangoku, iipesenti ezi-5.8 zabasetyhini kunye neepesenti ezili-10.1 zamadoda zamkelwe kuzo zombini kwaye ukunciphisa inani, kuxhomekeke kwimeko.

Ukunyaniseka, kulula ukuqonda ukuba kutheni abantu bengaxoka ngenani labo.

Ukulindelwa lixesha kwezentlalo kungakhokelela ekubeni amadoda akholelwe ukuba kufuneka andise inani lawo ukuze libonakale "linomtsalane". Kwi-flipside, abasetyhini banokuziva ukuba kufuneka banciphise inani labo ukuze bangabonwa "njengabaziphethe kakubi."

Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule imbali yakho yesondo lishishini lakho. Akukho mntu ufanele azive enyanzelekile ukuba abambelele kuluntu- okanye nakowuphi na umntu - imigangatho.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ube 'ngogcinayo' okanye 'oziphethe kakubi'?

Iipesenti ezisibhozo zabaphenduli bathi "kunokwenzeka" okanye "kunokwenzeka" ukuba baphelise ubudlelwane ukuba amaqabane abo abambalwa kakhulu abalingani bezesondo. Kodwa yintoni “imbalwa kakhulu”?

Ngokophando, abasetyhini bathi amaqabane e-1.9 ayelondoloze kakhulu, ngelixa amadoda esithi 2.3.

Kwi-flipside, iipesenti ezingama-30 zabantu bathe "kunokwenzeka" okanye "kunokwenzeka" ukuba baphelise ubudlelwane ukuba amaqabane abo nawo ezininzi amaqabane ezesondo.

Abasetyhini ngokubanzi banobhetyebhetye kunamadoda xa kufikwa kwimbali yamaqabane abo, bejonga amaqabane angama-15.2 "njengabanyanisekileyo." Amadoda athi akhetha amaqabane kunye ne-14 okanye ngaphantsi.

Ngokucacileyo, inani "elifanelekileyo" liyahluka kubantu ngabantu. Kwaye nangona abanye benokuba nenani elikhethiweyo engqondweni, abanye banokungafuni ukwazi ngembali yezesondo yamaqabane abo. Kulungile, nayo.

Ke, yintoni 'efanelekileyo'?

Khumbula

• Akukho avareji yokwenyani. Iyahluka ngokuxhomekeka kwisini, indawo kunye nemvelaphi.
• Inani lakho lamaqabane ezesondo elidlulileyo alichazi ixabiso lakho.
• Ukwabelana "ngenani" lakho akubalulekanga kunokunyaniseka malunga nesimo sakho se-STI kunye nokuthatha amanyathelo okuzikhusela - kunye neqabane lakho - nikhuselekile.

Amadoda nabasetyhini baseMelika bahlala bevuma, becaphula ama-7.6 kunye nama-7.5 amaqabane abo "alungile."

Kodwa uphononongo lufumanise ukuba into ebonwa njengefanelekileyo iyahluka ngokusekwe kwindawo. Abantu baseYurophu babenethuba lokunika inani eliphezulu "elifanelekileyo". Inani elifanelekileyo lamaqabane ezesondo eFrance, umzekelo, yi-10.

Ngawaphi amanqaku ekufuneka uxoxe ngembali yakho yesondo kunye neqabane lakho?

Ngaphezulu kweepesenti ze-30 zabaphenduli bacinga ukuba kufanelekile ukuthetha ngembali yakho yesondo kwinyanga yokuqala yobudlelwane bakho, evakalayo. Kubalulekile ukuba wabelane ngembali yakho yesondo- nokuba unazo naziphi na ii-STIs - kwasekuqaleni kulwalamano lwakho.

Ngokubanzi, iipesenti ezingama-81 bacinga ukuba yinto ekufuneka uthethe ngayo kwiinyanga ezisibhozo zokuqala.

Ngelixa kunokuba yinto eyoyikisayo ukuthetha ngembali yakho yesondo kwangethuba kubudlelwane, ngokukhawuleza ukuba uthethe ngayo, ngcono.

Xoxa ngembali yakho yesondo- kwaye kuvavanywe- ngaphambili ukuzibandakanya kwisondo kunye neqabane elitsha. Oku kuqinisekisa ukuba nobabini niyakwazi ukuthatha amanyathelo afanelekileyo ukuze nihlale nikhuselekile.

Ungakufumana njani ukosuleleka sisondo kwiqabane elitsha?

Wonke umntu kufuneka avavanywe ekuqaleni kobudlelwane obutsha, ngaphandle kwembali yabo yezesondo. Kuthatha kuphela ukudibana okungakhuselekanga ngokwesondo ukufumana i-STI okanye ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo.

Akukho datha yokucebisa ukuba ukuba nenani eliphezulu lamaqabane ezesondo kwandisa umngcipheko we-STIs. Ekupheleni kosuku, kuyehla kukhuseleko.

Umbutho wehlabathi wezeMpilo uxela ii-STIs ezifumaneka rhoqo ngosuku. Uninzi alubangeli zimpawu.

Ukwenza ngokwesondo okukhuselekileyo

Ukuziqhelanisa nokwabelana ngesondo okukhuselekileyo, kuya kufuneka:

• Vavanywa ngaphambi nasemva kweqabane ngalinye owabelana nalo ngesondo.
• Sebenzisa ikhondom nawo onke amaqabane, ngalo lonke ixesha.
• Sebenzisa idama lamazinyo okanye ikhondom ngaphandle ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo.
• Sebenzisa ikhondom yangaphakathi okanye ngaphandle ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ezimpundwini.
• Sebenzisa iikhondom ngokuchanekileyo kwaye uzilahle ngokufanelekileyo.
• Sebenzisa i-lubricant ekhuselekileyo yamanzi-okanye i-silicone esekwe kwikhondom ukunciphisa umngcipheko wokuqhekeka kwekhondom.
• Gonyelwa i-human papillomavirus (HPV) kunye nehepatitis B (HBV).
• Khumbula ukuba iikhondom kuphela kwendlela yolawulo lokuzalwa ekhusela kwizifo ezingumvuka wokwabelana ngesondo.

Thenga iikhondom, iikhondom zangaphandle, amadama amazinyo, kunye nezinto zokuthambisa ezisekwe emanzini kwi-intanethi.

Umgca wezantsi

Ngokwenyani, ixabiso elibekwe kwimbali yakho yezesondo lixhomekeke kuwe. Wonke umntu wahlukile. Into ebalulekileyo komnye umntu isenokungakhathali komnye.

Nokuba ungaliphi inani, kubalulekile ukuba ube nengxoxo evulekileyo nethembekileyo neqabane lakho malunga nembali yakho yesondo. Soloko unyanisekile nokuba unayo nayiphi na i-STIs kwaye uthathe amanyathelo okuzikhusela - kunye neqabane lakho - likhuselekile.