Ngaphambi kokuba uzise umntwana ekhaya, nantsi indlela yokulungisa izilwanyana zakho

Umxholo

• Ukulungiselela isilwanyana sakho sokufika komntwana
• Yenza isicwangciso
• Yazisa isilwanyana sakho kwizandi zomntwana eziqhelekileyo kunye nevumba
• Iindlela zokutshintsha kunye noxanduva lokhathalelo lwezilwanyana
• Misela imigaqo emitsha
• Yizisa ekhaya ukufumana iingubo okanye i-onesies umntwana wakho ayinxibe ngaphambi kokukhutshwa
• Ukwazisa isilwanyana sakho usana lwakho
• Yazisa usana lwakho olusandula kuzalwa ngokuthe chu, ngokwemiqathango yezilwanyana zasekhaya
• Lawula lonke unxibelelwano

Ayikuko konke malunga nethamsanqa. Ukucwangciswa okuncinci kunokunceda iintsana zakho zoboya zihambelane nosana lwakho olutsha.

Xa intombi yam yazalwa ngehlobo lowama-2013, ndacinga ukuba zonke izinto ndizicingile. Ndiyathetha, bendingazi ukuba ndiyitshintsha njani i-diaper, ukufudumeza ibhotile, ukumpompa, okanye ukuncancisa, kodwa ikhaya lam belilungile.

Indawo yethu yokugcina abantwana yayigciniwe - kunye nezinto zokuthambisa, izithambiso, iikhrimu, ii balms kunye neesuli - kwaye sasiye kwiiklasi ezininzi zokuzalela nokuba ngumzali. Bendisazi konke malunga neeVeki eziMangalisayo kunye nokudideka kwengono. Kodwa ngexesha lethu le-8-kunye neenyanga zokulungiselela, khange siyiqwalasele into esiza kuyenza neekati zethu.

Asikaze sicinge ngendlela esimele (kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu) ukuba silwazise ngayo usana lwethu olutsha kubantwana bethu boboya kude kube kusasa ukuphuma kwethu. Side sayindlela egodukayo.

Iindaba ezimnandi kukuba sinethamsanqa. Zombini “iikati zoMama” kunye neekati zethu ezincinci, ezinekati ezilungisiweyo zilungelelaniswe ngokukhawuleza - kwaye kakuhle - kodwa uMbutho weZilwanyana (AHS) ucebisa ukuba kufundwe abahlobo bakho abanemilenze emine ngaphambi kokuzalwa kosana: “Ukuthatha ixesha lokulungiselela izilwanyana zasekhaya Ukufika komntwana nokubazisa ngokufanelekileyo xa sele ezelwe umntwana kuya kunceda ukwenza olu tshintsho lube seluxolweni kuye wonke umntu obandakanyekayo. ”

Ngethamsanqa, zininzi iindlela zokwenza oku, kwaye akukho ndlela ichanekileyo okanye iphosakeleyo. Inkqubo ixhomekeke kuhlobo lwesilo-qabane onaso, ubuntu, uhlobo, kunye nosapho lwangaphambili olusebenzayo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iingcebiso ezimbalwa kunye namaqhinga.

Ukulungiselela isilwanyana sakho sokufika komntwana

Sibe nethamsanqa, kodwa kungcono ukuphepha ukungena ngaphakathi ngaphandle kokulungiselela. Ngapha koko, okungakumbi okwenzayo ngaphambi kokufika komntwana wakho kokukhona unokulwenza lula utshintsho lomntu wonke.

Yenza isicwangciso

Nokuba umhlobo wakho onoboya uyinja, ikati, okanye esinye isilwanyana, into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile kukwenza isicwangciso. Ngokwe-American Kennel Club (AKC), “Izinja zingangabafundi abanomdla, kodwa zingabonisa umona kuba ayisengoyena ndoqo wokuqwalaselwa.” Kukwanjalo nakwiikati. Iifayile zinokuba nobushushu kwaye ezinye zilwe notshintsho.

Kananjalo, uya kufuna ukusebenzisa ixesha lokukhulelwa ukulungiselela ikati yakho okanye inja ekufikeni komntwana.I-ASPCA icebisa ukubhalisa inja yakho kwiiklasi ezisisiseko zokuthobela kunye nokuhambisa ibhokisi yenkunkuma yekati yakho kwindawo yabucala ngakumbi. Kuya kufuneka usete ifanitshala yezilwanyana ngokukhawuleza, njengoko oku kuya kunika ikati yakho iiveki ezininzi ukuphanda umphezulu ngamnye ngaphambi kokuba uwubhengeze umda.

Yazisa isilwanyana sakho kwizandi zomntwana eziqhelekileyo kunye nevumba

Iintsana zinengxolo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ekuphela kwendlela abanokubonisa ngayo ukungonwabi, indlala, usizi, okanye ukudinwa kukukhala. Kodwa isiphithiphithi esongeziweyo sinokubothusa izilwanyana ezincinci. Izinja kunye neekati zinokubandezeleka, zikhathazeke kwaye ziphazamiseke. Ukuthintela oku, i-ASPCA icebisa ukwazisa izandi eziqhelekileyo kunye namavumba kwisilwanyana sakho sasekhaya ngaphambi kokufika kosana.

Ngapha koko, bacebisa ukusebenzisa ukurekhodwa kwezandi zabantwana ngokudibeneyo nokunyanga ukunceda izilwanyana zakho zenze imibutho. Ngoba? Kuba endaweni yokuba woyike okanye ucaphuke yingxolo, inja okanye ikati yakho iya kuyamkela. "Uya kufunda ukujonga phambili kubo ngenxa yokuba baqikelela ukuhoywa nokunyanga," kuchaza i-ASPCA.

Iindlela zokutshintsha kunye noxanduva lokhathalelo lwezilwanyana

Yonke into iya kutshintsha xa kufika umntwana wakho omncinci, wena nezilwanyana zasekhaya. Ixesha lokuhamba kwemihla ngemihla linokuncitshiswa, ixesha ngokuqinisekileyo liya kutshintsha, kwaye zombini ukondla kunye nexesha lokudlala liya kuba nefuthe.

Kananjalo, ukuba uya kuba ngumondli ophambili womntwana wakho, unokufuna ukunikezela le misebenzi kulowo umthandayo okanye iqabane okanye uqalise ukutshintsha indlela yesiqhelo yemihla ngemihla.

I-AKC icebisa ukuba kwenziwe utshintsho oluthe chu kwiishedyuli okanye kubanonopheli ngaphambi komntwana omtsha ukuze isilwanyana sakho singadibanisi notshintsho kunye nosana olutsha. Ewe kunjalo, kukho okungaphaya kokutshintsha nje kweshedyuli endleleni.

Ungazama ngokuzisa umhambi ongenanto ekuhambeni ukuze inja yakho iqhelane nenkqubo entsha ngaphambi kwexesha. Oku kuyakuvumela ukuba usebenze kwimiceli mngeni ngaphandle koxinzelelo losana olusanda kuzalwa kumxube. Unokufuna ukuqesha i-dog sitter okanye i-walker ukunciphisa umthwalo wakho kuwe.

Misela imigaqo emitsha

Ukubeka imida endaweni ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana kubalulekile. Ukuba akukhange kubenjalo, isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya sinokuyicaphukela umqulu wakho omtsha wovuyo. Kwakhona kulula ukunyanzelisa le mithetho kwangaphambili, xa ungahlali kwimvakalelo, ubuthongo obunqabileyo bokulala.

"Ukuba awuyifuni inja yakho [okanye ikati] kwifenitshala okanye ebhedini emva kokuba umntwana efikile, yazisa lo mqobo ngoku," utshilo i-ASPCA. "Ukuba awufuni ukuba inja yakho ikutsibe xa uphethe umntwana wakho omtsha okanye umbambe ethangeni, qala ukumfundisa ukugcina zonke iinyawo zakhe phantsi."

Kuyafana nakulungiselelo lokulala - ukuba isilwanyana sakho siqhele ukulala ebhedini okanye kwigumbi lakho kwaye ufuna ukuba itshintshe, kubalulekile ukuqala ukubeka olo tshintsho endaweni ngokukhawuleza.

Yizisa ekhaya ukufumana iingubo okanye i-onesies umntwana wakho ayinxibe ngaphambi kokukhutshwa

Enye yeendlela ezaziwayo nezaziwayo zokwazisa usana lwakho olunoboya kusana lwakho olutsha kukuzisa ekhaya ingubo yakho yokufumana umntwana okanye isinxibo sokuqala. Ukwenza njalo kuya kunceda isilwanyana sakho ukuba siqhelane nevumba losana ngaphambi kokungeniswa kwalo okokuqala.

Ukwazisa isilwanyana sakho usana lwakho

Ke uwenzile umsebenzi wokulungiselela, uziva ngathi ukulungele, kodwa uthini xa uzisa umntwana wakho omtsha kraca ekhaya okokuqala?

Yazisa usana lwakho olusandula kuzalwa ngokuthe chu, ngokwemiqathango yezilwanyana zasekhaya

Nje ukuba wena nosana babuyele ekhaya, uyakufuna ukwazisa ngokusesikweni inja okanye ikati yakho kwilungu elitsha losapho kodwa i-ASPCA icebisa ukuba ulinde, ubuncinci imizuzu.

Xa ufika ekhaya uvela esibhedlele, bulisa ikati okanye inja yakho ngendlela oqhele ukwenza ngayo. Oku kuyakugcina izinja zingangxoli kwaye zipholise imithambo-luvo yazo. Nje ukuba ube nokuhlangana kwakho kuthulekile, ungamkela usapho kunye nabahlobo abanokubakho ukuba batyelele. Kungcono ukulinda de izinto zikhululeke ukuthatha ixesha lokuphuma ukuze isilwanyana sakho sidibane nosana lwakho.

Oko kwathethi, le ntlanganiso kusafuneka yenziwe kancinci, kwaye ngononophelo nangokhathalelo. Gcina umntwana osanda kuzalwa ezandleni zakho ngalo lonke ixesha. Unelinye ilungu losapho eliphatha inja (ekufuneka ihlawulwe) okanye ikati, kwaye uyihloniphe imida yesilwanyana sakho.

Ukuba isilwanyana sakho sibonakala sicaphukile okanye sikhathazekile, sinike indawo. Zama kwakhona emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa.

Lawula lonke unxibelelwano

Akufanele ushiye usana lwakho okanye umntwana omncinci engakhathalelwanga ngesilwanyana-ngaphandle kwesimo sabo-izinto ezininzi zinokungahambi kakuhle. Usana lwakho olutsha okanye uboya usana lwakho lunokwenzakala.

Lawula lonke unxibelelwano. Ngenelela xa kukho imfuneko, kwaye unike ikati okanye inja yakho indawo. Ukunyanzelwa kweentlanganiso kunokuba yingozi kwaye kunokubangela ukukrwela kunye nokulunywa. I-AKC ikwacebisa ukugcina inja yakho kwi-leash emfutshane, ubuncinci iintsuku ezimbalwa, xa uqala ukuqhelana nosana olutsha.

Ewe kunjalo, oku kunokubonakala ngathi kuninzi- kwaye kunjalo. Ukunyamekela usana lwakho olutsha kunye noboya bosana kunokuba nzima, ubuncinci kwiintsuku zokuqala. Kodwa ngokulungiselela kancinci kunye nomonde omkhulu, uyakufumanisa ukuba kukho indawo ekhayeni lakho (nentliziyo) yomhlobo wakho onemilenze emine kunye neqabane lakho elitsha, elinemilenze emincinci.

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