Kuba ukuzamla kuyosulela

Umxholo

• Kwenzeka njani ukuzamla okusulelayo
• Yintoni enokubonisa ukunqongophala kokuzamla

Isenzo sokuzamla sisenzo esingazibandakanyi esivela xa umntu edinwe kakhulu okanye xa enesithukuthezi, ebonakala sele esesiswini, nkqu ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ekubeni, kwezi meko, kunxulumene nokukhula kwengqondo.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuzamla akusoloko kukuzibandakanya, kunokwenzeka ngenxa "yokuthambisa okusulelayo", into ebonakala ebantwini nasezilwanyaneni ezimbalwa, ezinje ngeetshimpanzi, izinja, iimfene neengcuka, ezenzeka nanini na usiva, ubona okanye ucinga ukuzamla.

Kwenzeka njani ukuzamla okusulelayo

Nangona esona sizathu sokuthethelela "ukuzamla okuchaphazelayo" singaziwa, uphononongo oluninzi lubonisa ukuba le meko inokuba inxulumene namandla omntu ngamnye wovelwano, oko kukuthi, amandla okuzibeka kwindawo yomnye umntu.

Ke, xa sibona umntu ezamla, ingqondo yethu icinga ukuba ikwindawo yaloo mntu kwaye, ke, ekugqibeleni, iphembelela ukuzamla, nokuba asidinwa okanye sikruqukile. Le yindlela efanayo eyenzekayo xa ubona umntu ecofa isando emnweni wakho kwaye izivumelwano zomzimba wakho zisabela kwintlungu ekufuneka eyifumene komnye umntu, umzekelo.

Ngesiqhelo, olunye uphononongo lubonise ukuba ukuzamla kuyosulela ngakumbi phakathi kosapho olunye, kwaye ke phakathi kwabahlobo, kwaye phakathi kwabahlobo kwaye, ekugqibeleni, abantu ongabaziyo, ekubonakala ngathi iyayixhasa ithiyori yovelwano, kuba kukho indawo enkulu yokuzibeka indawo yabantu esele siyazi.

Yintoni enokubonisa ukunqongophala kokuzamla

Ukosulelwa zizam zomnye umntu kuqhelekile kwaye phantse kuhlala kungaphepheki, nangona kunjalo, kukho abanye abantu ababonakala ngathi abachaphazeleki ngokulula. Ngokubanzi, abantu abachaphazeleka kancinci banoluhlobo oluthile lokuphazamiseka kwengqondo njengale:

• Autism;
• Ischizophrenia.

Kungenxa yokuba abantu abanezi ntlobo zotshintsho bahlala benobunzima obukhulu kunxibelelwano lwentlalo okanye kwizakhono zonxibelelwano kwaye, ke, abakwazi ukuzibeka endaweni yomnye umntu, ekugqibeleni bangachaphazeleka.

Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emi-4 ubudala abanako "ukuzamla okusulelayo", kuba uvelwano luqala ukukhula emva kwelo xesha.