Ngaba unokukhulelwa ukuba ungabi naFingered?

Umxholo

• Kuthekani ukuba iqabane lam liyandibamba emva kokuphinga?
• Kuthekani ukuba ndiyabamba ngomnwe emva kokunika iqabane lam umsebenzi wesandla?
• Kuthekani ukuba iqabane lam lichama kum ngaphambi kokuba licofwe?
• Ndingazi nini ukuba ndikhulelwe?
• Iinketho zokuthintela ukukhulelwa okungxamisekileyo
• Nini ukuthatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa
• Umgca wezantsi

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe?

Iminwe yodwa ayinakukhokelela ekukhulelweni. Isidoda kufuneka sidibane nelungu lakho lobufazi ukuze ukhulelwe kube yinto enokwenzeka. Iminwe eqhelekileyo ayizukungenisa isidoda kwilungu lakho lobufazi.

Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe ngenxa yomnwe kwiindawo ezithile. Umzekelo, unokukhulelwa ukuba iminwe yakho okanye iqabane lakho linobuchwephesha bangaphambi kokuchama okanye lichaphazele kubo kwaye ucofe umnwe okanye uzicofe ngokwakho.

Nantsi into ekufuneka uyazi ukuthintela ukukhulelwa, ukhetho lokuthintela ukukhawulezisa, kunye nokunye.

Kuthekani ukuba iqabane lam liyandibamba emva kokuphinga?

Ukukhulelwa kwenzeka kuphela xa amadlozi engena kwilungu lobufazi bakho. Enye indlela enokuthi yenzeke ngayo kukuba iqabane lakho liphulula amalungu esini lize emva koko lisebenzise isandla okanye izandla ezifanayo ukukubetha ngomnwe.

Ukuba iqabane lakho lihlamba izandla phakathi kwezi zenzo zibini, umngcipheko wokukhulelwa uphantsi.

Umngcipheko wakho uphezulu kancinci ukuba abangahlambi okanye basule izandla zabo kwihempe okanye itawuli.

Nangona ukukhulelwa kungenakwenzeka ngokubanzi, akunakwenzeka.

Kuthekani ukuba ndiyabamba ngomnwe emva kokunika iqabane lam umsebenzi wesandla?

Ungasidlulisela isidoda kwilungu lakho lobufazi ngokuzifaka umnwe ngesandla esele siphume okanye siphume kuso.

Umgaqo ofanayo weqabane lakho usebenza apha, kananjalo: Ukuba uhlamba izandla zakho phakathi kwezi zenzo zibini, umngcipheko wakho uphantsi kunokuba ungakhange uhlambe kwaphela okanye ukuba usule nje izandla kwilaphu.

Ukukhulelwa akunakulindeleka, kodwa akunakwenzeka, kule meko.

Kuthekani ukuba iqabane lam lichama kum ngaphambi kokuba licofwe?

Ngethuba nje i-ejaculate yayingekho ngaphakathi komzimba wakho okanye kwisini sakho, awukwazi ukukhulelwa. Ukukhupha ngaphandle komzimba wakho akuyiyo ingozi yokukhulelwa.

Kodwa ukuba iqabane lakho lichamela ecaleni kwilungu lobufazi bakho kwaye emva koko likubambe ngeminwe, banokutyhala amanye amadlozi kwilungu lakho lobufazi. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, ukukhulelwa kunokwenzeka.

Ndingazi nini ukuba ndikhulelwe?

Iimpawu kunye neempawu zokukhulelwa aziveli ngobusuku. Ngapha koko, awunakuqala ukufumana naziphi na iimpawu zokuqala okanye iimpawu zokukhulelwa iiveki ezimbalwa emva kokuba ukhulelwe.

Iimpawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa zibandakanya:

• ukuthamba kwebele
• ukudinwa
• intloko ebuhlungu
• ukuhamba kweemvakalelo
• ukopha
• ukuxinana
• isicaphucaphu
• ukuthintela ukutya okanye ukunqwenela

Ezi zininzi zeempawu ezifanayo kunye neempawu zesifo sokuqala okanye sexesheni. Kunokuba nzima ukwazi ukuba uhlangabezana nantoni kude kufike ixesha lakho- okanye kude kube kungenzeki.

Iinketho zokuthintela ukukhulelwa okungxamisekileyo

Amathuba okuba ukhulelwe ngenxa yokuba unamazinyo amancinci, kodwa kunokwenzeka. Ukuba ukhathazekile unokukhulelwa, unokukhetha.

Ukuthintela inzala kaxakeka (EC) kunokuthathwa ukuya kuthi ga kwiintsuku ezintlanu emva kokwabelana ngesondo ukuthintela ukukhulelwa.

Ipilisi yehomoni ye-EC isebenza kakhulu kwiiyure zokuqala ezingama-72. Ungayithenga phezu kwekhawuntari okanye ubuze ugqirha wakho ukuba abhale amayeza. Kuxhomekeka kwisicwangciso sakho seinshurensi, amayeza anokukunceda ukuba ufumane amayeza ngaphandle kweendleko.

Isixhobo sobhedu se-intrauterine (IUD) sinokusetyenziswa njenge-EC. Ingaphezulu kweepesenti ezingama-99 esebenzayo ukuba ibekwa endaweni yazo kwiintsuku ezintlanu zesini okanye ukubonakaliswa kwamadlozi.

Ugqirha wakho kufuneka abeke esi sixhobo, ngoko ke idinga ixesha elifanelekileyo. Nje ukuba ibekho, i-IUD iya kukhusela ekukhulelweni ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka eli-10.

Ukuba u-inshurensi, unokukwazi ukufumana i-IUD efakiweyo ngaphandle kweendleko. Iofisi kagqirha wakho iyakuqinisekisa iindleko zakho ezilindelekileyo zokuphuma epokothweni kunye nomnikezeli wakho weinshurensi ngaphambi kokuqeshwa kwakho.

Nini ukuthatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa

Ukuba ucinga ukuba ukhulelwe, thatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ekhaya.

Kuya kufuneka ulinde ukuthatha olu vavanyo ude uphoswe ubuncinci usuku olunye lwexesha lakho. Uvavanyo lunokuchaneka ngeveki emva kwexesha olilahlekileyo.

Ukuba awunaxesha eliqhelekileyo, kuya kufuneka uthathe uvavanyo kwiiveki ezintathu emva kwexesha lokugqibela ulala ngesondo okanye ungene kwi-semen.

Kuya kufuneka ubone ugqirha wakho ukuqinisekisa iziphumo zovavanyo lwakho lokukhulelwa ekhaya. Banokusebenzisa uvavanyo lwegazi, uvavanyo lomchamo, okanye zombini ukuqinisekisa iziphumo zakho.

Nokuba siyintoni na isiphumo, ugqirha wakho angakucebisa ngamanyathelo alandelayo. Oku kunokubandakanya ukhetho locwangciso-ntsapho okanye ulawulo lokuzalwa.

Umgca wezantsi

Nangona umngcipheko wakho wokukhulelwa ukusuka ekubeni ngumnwe ophantsi, awunakwenzeka.

Ukuba ukhathazekile, unokufumanisa ukuba i-EC iyanceda ukubeka ingqondo yakho ngokukhululeka. I-EC isebenza kakhulu kwisithuba seentsuku ezintathu ukuya kwezintlanu zokuchumisa okunokwenzeka.

Ukuba awuqinisekanga ngento omawuyenze, thetha nogqirha wakho ngokukhawuleza. Banokuphendula nayiphi na imibuzo onayo kwaye bakucebise ngento oza kuyenza ngokulandelayo.