Indlela yokwenza umntwana wakho atye iziqhamo kunye nemifuno

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• Iingcebiso ngesidlo ukuba zingabi lixesha elinzima

Ukwenza umntwana wakho atye iziqhamo kunye nemifuno kunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima kubazali, kodwa kukho ezinye iindlela ezinokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba atye iziqhamo kunye nemifuno, enje:

1. Balisa amabali kunye nokudlala imidlalo ngeziqhamo kunye nemifuno ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba ayitye;
2. Ukwahluka ngokulungiselela kwaye xa uveza imifuno, umzekelo, ukuba umntwana akayityi iminqathe ephekiweyo, zama ukuyifaka kwilayisi;
3. Ukwenza izitya zokuyila, kumnandi kwaye kumibalabala ngeziqhamo;
4. Musa ukohlwaya umntwana ukuba uyala imifuno ethile, okanye isiqhamo, okanye umnyanzele ukuba azitye, kuba uya kukudibanisa oko kutya kunye namava amabi;
5. Misela umzekelo, ukutya isitya esinye nemifuno okanye iziqhamo ofuna zityiwe ngumntwana;
6. Vumela umntwana ancede ekulungiseleleni ukutya, uchaza ukuba yeyiphi imifuno oyisebenzisayo, kutheni kwaye ungayilungisa njani;
7. Yenza amagama ahlekisayo imifuno kunye neziqhamo;
8. Ukusa umntwana emarikeni ukukhetha nokuthenga iziqhamo nemifuno;
9. Soloko unemifuno etafileni, nokuba umntwana akatyi kubalulekile ukuba aqhelane nenkangeleko, umbala kunye nevumba lemifuno angayithandiyo ngoku.

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Incasa yomntwana iyatshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha, ke nokuba bayasala isiqhamo okanye imifuno okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba abazali basinike iziqhamo okanye imifuno ubuncinci izihlandlo ezili-10. Ngumthambo wolwimi kunye nengqondo. Funda ngakumbi kwi:

• Ungamvuselela njani umnqweno wokutya umntwana wakho
• Ukwala ukutya akunakuba ngumsindo nje womntwana

Bona ezinye iingcebiso zokunceda umntwana wakho atye ngcono ngokubukela ividiyo engezantsi.

Ukuphucula ukutya komntwana wakho, kubalulekile ukuba ususe isoda ekutyeni, ke nazi izizathu ezi-5 zokungamniki umntwana wakho isoda.

Iingcebiso ngesidlo ukuba zingabi lixesha elinzima

Ukuze ixesha lokutya libe lixesha elifanelekileyo losapho, kubandakanya nabo banabantwana abancinci etafileni, kufuneka wenze ixesha lokutya:

• Ungagqithi kwimizuzu engama-30;
• Akukho ziphazamiso kunye nemisindo enje ngonomathotholo okanye umabonwakude (umculo ojikelezayo yenye indlela elungileyo);
• Incoko zihlala zizihloko ezimnandi kwaye azilixesha lokukhumbula nantoni na embi eyenzekileyo ngexesha lasemini;
• Sukunyanzelisa ukuba umntwana, ongafuni kutya, atye, nje ukuba angaphakami etafileni ngelixa usapho lusetafileni;
• Yiba nemigaqo yokuziphatha kakuhle kwitafile enje: sebenzisa i-napkin okanye ungatyi ngezandla zakho.

Kumakhaya apho kukho abantwana abangatyi kakuhle okanye ngokulula, kubaluleke kakhulu ukungalenzi ixesha lesidlo ukuba libeshushu kwaye libi, kufuneka ibe lixesha apho wonke umntu elangazelela ukuba kunye kwaye ingabi kukutya kuphela.

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