Indlela yokujamelana nokulahleka kwesilwanyana othandekayo

Umxholo

• Intro
• Amandla obudlelwane bezilwanyana zasekhaya
• Kubuhlungu ukulahlekelwa sisilwanyana sasekhaya
• Ukuqhubela phambili emva kokulahleka
• Ukwazi njani xa ilixesha lokufumana isilwanyana esitsha
• Yise kude

Intro

Iibhondi esizenzayo nezilwanyana zasekhaya zinamandla. Uthando lwabo kuthi alupheli, kwaye banendlela yokusenza sizive ngcono nakwezona ntsuku zethu zimbi-ezenza ukuba ukulahleka kwesilwanyana kube nzima ngakumbi.

Funda ukuze ufunde ngakumbi ngamandla obudlelwane bezilwanyana zasekhaya kunye namanyathelo endlela onokujamelana ngayo nelahleko etshabalalisayo, ukuba iyenzeka kwaye yenzekile.

Amandla obudlelwane bezilwanyana zasekhaya

Ubudlelwane bethu bezilwanyana zezilwanyana zezona zinamandla ebomini bethu bonke. Banikela:

• inkxaso ebalulekileyo yeemvakalelo
• Izibonelelo zempilo yengqondo
• ubuqabane obungagungqiyo
• uthando ngabantwana bethu kunye namanye amalungu osapho

Kubuhlungu ukulahlekelwa sisilwanyana sasekhaya

Intlungu yokulahlekelwa sisilwanyana osithandayo inokuba nzima. Ikwayimeko eethe-ethe kakhulu kubo nabaphi na abantwana onokuba nabo kusapho lwakho. Cinga ngala manyathelo alandelayo emva kokuba isilwanyana sakho senze utshintsho lwaso:

• Chaza ukulahleka kwesilwanyana sakho kubantwana abancinci ngendlela abaya kuyiqonda ngayo. Ukufa ngelishwa kuyinxalenye yendalo yobomi, ke kubalulekile ukuba uthembeke emntwaneni wakho. Kungakulinga ukukhusela iimvakalelo zomntwana wakho ngokuzixelela ukuba isilwanyana sakhe simkile, kodwa oku kuyakwenza ukuba nentliziyo ebuhlungu, ityala, kunye nokudideka ekuhambeni kwexesha. Nyaniseka kodwa uthantamise ngeemvakalelo zomntwana wakho kwaye ubazise ukuba ukulahleka kwesilwanyana sakho kukukhathaza kangakanani ngoku, nawe.
• Vumela wena kunye nosapho lwakho ukuba nibe lusizi. Ukuphulukana nesilwanyana kunokuba lixesha elibuhlungu. Akukho sizathu sokuba wena nosapho lwakho nilindelwe ukuba "niqhubeke." Nika usapho lwakho ixesha elininzi njengoko badinga ukuba lusizi kwaye bafikelele kuncedo olongezelelekileyo xa kufuneka njalo.
• Yenza indawo yokubonisa iimvakalelo zakho. Alithandabuzeki elokuba ukulahlekelwa sisilwanyana sasekhaya kuya kukwenza ube lusizi. Ukuphelelwa lithemba, ukuziva unetyala, kunye nezinye iimvakalelo zisenokuvela njengoko inyani yobomi bakho ngaphandle kokuba isilwanyana sakho siqale ukutshona. Endaweni yokuzama ukomelela kwaye ukhuphe iimvakalelo zakho, vumela ukuba uziveze. Ukugcina iphepha ngeli xesha elinzima kunokunceda.
• Yenza inkonzo okanye omnye umsitho wokuhlonipha isilwanyana sakho. Nokuba kungumngcwabo okanye omnye umsitho, ukuhlonipha inkumbulo yesilwanyana sasekhaya kunokukunika kunye nosapho lwakho umbono wokuvalwa. Bandakanya abantwana bakho ukuba kunokwenzeka, ubavumele ukuba bathethe amagama ambalwa okanye benze isikhumbuzo.
• Gcina ezinye iishedyuli zezinye izilwanyana. Ukuba unazo naziphi na ezinye izilwanyana, banokuba lusizi ngenxa yokuphulukana neqabane labo, nabo. Unokubona ubuvila, ukunciphisa ukutya, okanye ukuphulukana nomdla kwimisebenzi yabo yesiqhelo. Kubalulekile ukugcina iishedyuli zokutyisa izilwanyana zasekhaya kwaye uzinike uthando olongezelelekileyo.
• Fikelela kwinkxaso. Ukunxibelelana nabahlobo kunye nezihlobo kunokwenza impembelelo ebalulekileyo kwimpilo yakho emva kokuphulukana nesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya. Musa ukoyika ukufikelela ngaphandle- ukubamamela kunokukwenza uzive ungcono njengoko usebenza ngeemvakalelo zakho.
• Cinga ngokufumana iqela lenkxaso yezilwanyana zasekhaya. Buza ugqirha wezilwanyana okanye indawo yokuhlala yendawo malunga namaqela enkxaso yezilwanyana kwindawo yakho. Ezi ndibano zinika ithuba lokuba phakathi kwabantu abanokuyiqonda kakuhle ilahleko yakho.
• Thetha nonyango. Ingcali yonyango okanye ingcali yezengqondo inokukunceda ukuba usebenze ngeemvakalelo zakho kwaye ufumane iindlela zokujongana nelahleko yesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya. Ukuba nolu hlobo lwenkxaso kuluncedo ngakumbi kwimeko zoxinzelelo. Ezinye iingcali zengqondo zikwasebenza ngokufikisayo nolutsha, ngelixa ukudlala iingcali kunokunceda abantwana abancinci basebenze ngeemvakalelo zabo.

Ukuqhubela phambili emva kokulahleka

Ukufumana kwakhona ilahleko yesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya kuxhomekeke kumanyathelo ongezelelweyo ahamba ngaphaya kwenkqubo yokuqala yosizi. Qwalasela la manyathelo alandelayo anokukunceda ukumelana nexesha elihamba lihamba:

• Yenza incwadi yememori yesilwanyana sasekhaya. Unokuba neefoto ezininzi zezilwanyana zasekhaya kwifowuni yakho, kumaphepha eendaba ezentlalo, okanye kwikhompyuter. Kodwa ukuba nencwadi yememori ebonakalayo okanye ialbham yefoto kungathuthuzela ngakumbi kunezinto ezi-digitized. Ngapha koko, esona senzo sokubeka incwadi kunye sinokukunceda ukwamkela iinkumbulo kunye nesilwanyana sakho osithandayo kwaye ube sisenzo sokuvalwa okunempilo.
• Nceda ezinye izilwanyana. Ukuvolontiya kwindawo yokuhlala okanye ukubuyisela kwisisa kwezilwanyana kunokukwenza uzive ulungile kwaye kubonelele ngenjongo, ngakumbi ukuba wenza njalo ngegama lesilwanyana sakho. Imibutho yezilwanyana ihlala ifuna uncedo, kubandakanya ukuhamba kwenja, ukukhathalela ikati, ukucoca ikreyiti, umsebenzi wolawulo, nokunye okuninzi.Nokuba awukwazi ukunikezela ngexesha lakho, unokuqokelela izinto endaweni yoko.
• Ziqhelanise nokuzikhathalela okuqhubekayo. Kubalulekile ukuqhubeka neendlela zokuzinakekela oziqhelisileyo emva kokulahleka kokuqala kwesilwanyana sakho kwixesha elide. Emva koko, uya konwaba kwaye ube sempilweni. Qiniseka ukuba uzilolonga kwaye utye ukutya okusempilweni. Beka bucala ixesha elincinci usuku ngalunye kwimisebenzi yokuthula yoxinzelelo, njengokucamngca okanye ukufunda incwadi.
• Musa ukoyika ukufuna uncedo lweengcali. Abacebisi ababuhlungu baqeqeshelwe ukukunceda ujongane nelahleko enkulu ebomini bakho kwaye izilwanyana zasekhaya azikho njalo. Khangela ugqirha wezengqondo onamava kwilahleko yezilwanyana- banokukunceda wenze isicwangciso sokwenza ngokujongana nexesha elide.

Ukwazi njani xa ilixesha lokufumana isilwanyana esitsha

Ekuqaleni, kunokubonakala ngathi licebo elilungileyo lokususa usizi kunye nezinye iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ngokufumana isilwanyana esitsha endaweni yalahlekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, akukhuthazwa ngokubanzi ukuba ufumane isilwanyana esitsha kwangoko emva kwelahleko etshabalalisayo kuba khange uzinike wena, usapho lwakho, kunye nazo naziphi na ezinye izilwanyana onalo ixesha kunye nendawo efanelekileyo yokuba buhlungu ngokupheleleyo.

Kweminye, oku kungathatha iinyanga. Abanye banokufuna iminyaka embalwa ukuze babe sentlungwini. Khumbula ukuba akukho xesha libekiweyo lokudlula ekufeni kwesilwanyana sakho - awusoze uphinde ulufumane kwaye yinto eqhelekileyo. Ekugqibeleni uza kwazi xa ixesha lilungile lokuzisa isilwanyana esitsha ekhayeni lakho. Sisigqibo esikhulu esingafanele ukuba singxanyiswe.

Yise kude

Ukulahlekelwa sisilwanyana kunokuba buhlungu njengokulahlekelwa ngumhlobo okanye ilungu losapho. Ubudlelane kunye nokunyaniseka kwesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya kukhethekile kwaye akunakuthelekiswa nanto, ke kuyaqondakala ukuba namava okumelana nelahleko yakho. Njengakwezinye ilahleko, ukuhlala ngaphandle kwesilwanyana sakho kuya kuba lula ngokuhamba kwexesha. Into ebalulekileyo kukuzikhathalela kwaye uvumele inkqubo yokulila iqhubeke ikhosi ngelixa uhlonipha uthando olukhethekileyo lwesilwanyana sakho.