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Xa ndandikwishumi elivisayo, ndandimde kakhulu kunamanye amantombazana am. Ndikhumbula ndinxibe isihlangu se-9 njengomntu ofikisayo kwaye nangona ndandingatyebanga kakhulu, ndaziva ndikhathazeka kakhulu ngobude bam nokwakha. Emva kwesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, ndaya kwisikolo sabongikazi. Ndandisoloko ndixakeke kakhulu, yaye ukutya kwam yayikukutya okusele kupakishwe nokutya okukhawulezayo. Ndaqhubeka ndinobunzima obuziikhilogram ezili-135 de ndatshata emva kweminyaka emibini ndigqibile esikolweni. Emva konyaka sitshatile, ndandineekhilogram ezili-15 ubunzima kuba ndandizityeshela. Ndandikucaphukela ukuzilolonga kunye nemidlalo, kwaye ndandipheka kwaye ndisitya ukutya okunamafutha amaninzi rhoqo. Emva koko ndakhulelwa unyana wam wokuqala. Ndifumene iipounds ezingama-35 ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwaye ndaphulukana nazo zonke iikhilogram ezi-5 zobunzima emva kokubeleka. Kwiminyaka emibini enesiqingatha kamva, ndandilinganisile i-183 emva kokubeleka unyana wam wesibini.

Kunyaka kamva, ndandineepawundi ezili-190. Akazange andigxeke umyeni wam nangona ndimodlula, kodwa ngenye imini wathi ufuna ukundibona ndinxibe ijean endaweni yokuba ndinxibe ibhulukhwe ethe kratya endiye ndakhululeka ngayo. Ndangena evenkileni kwanyanzeleka ndithenge u size 16. ijini. Kulapho ndaye ndazi ukuba kufuneka ndenze into malunga nobunzima bam. Ndandizimisele ukubuyela kubukhulu be-10. Ndakhuthazeka ngokufunda incwadi ka-Oprah ethi Make the Connection. Ndiqale ukususa ukutya okunamafutha aphezulu kwindlela enditya ngayo kunye nokuhamba kwiindlela ezikufuphi nasekhaya. Emva kweenyanga ezimbini, xa imozulu yajika yaba likhephu, ndaqala ukwenza ividiyo yenyathelo ekhaya iintsuku ezintlanu ngeveki. Emva kweenyanga ezimbini, iimpahla zam zandifanela, kodwa ndandingancipha ngokuphawulekayo.

Kamva, ndangena kwindawo yokwenza umthambo yamabhinqa ndaza ndongezelela uqeqesho lomzimba. Ndonwabile ukubona utshintsho kwimilinganiselo yam, kodwa ndisafuna ukuphulukana neeponti ezongezelelweyo. Ndijoyine abaLindi besisindo njengenxalenye yesisombululo soNyaka oMtsha kwaye ndalahleka iiponti ezingama-40 kwiinyanga ezintandathu ngokubukela endikutyileyo nokuqinisekisa ukuba ndifumana izondlo ezoneleyo kwiqela ngalinye lokutya. Ngoku ndinxiba i-jean yesayizi eyi-8 kwaye ndiyakonwabela ukunconywa kusapho nakubahlobo-ngakumbi kumyeni wam. Ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba ekuphela kwendlela yokunciphisa umzimba uze ungawuvali kukwenza umthambo ube yinxalenye yosuku ngalunye, njengokuxukuxa amazinyo. Andisoze ndiyithande, kodwa ndiyayithanda into eyenziweyo emzimbeni wam.

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