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Umhlobo wam u-D kunye nomyeni wakhe uB bema ngakwistudiyo sam. B unomhlaza. Ndandiqala ukumbona okoko waqala ichemotherapy. Ihug yethu ngalamini yayingengombuliso nje, yayingumthendeleko.

Sonke salila. Kwaye emva koko sahlala phantsi, kulula kwaye kwangoko. Sithethile ngezigqibo ekufuneka zithathiwe. Ezinye iinyembezi. Kwaye njengesiqhelo, iyahleka. B uyahlekisa ngokungendawo. Kwaye ngokuhlekisayo mde kwaye mhle. Kwaye ngalamini wayetsala nzima nokophuka kwakhe. Uziva udiliziwe, ngathi ziingxilimbela kuphela ezinako.

Phakathi kokudinwa, kunye nolusu emathanjeni, kunye nobomi ngezigqibo zokufa, kunzima kakhulu ukubona ukuba uphumelela umlo okanye akunjalo.

Ithemba lihlala kunzima ukulibona kwindawo eyonakeleyo. Kodwa ihlala ikhona.

Phakathi kweengxelo zakhe zokugoba kwisithuba sokuzalwa komntwana kangangeentsuku, ndiziva ndithandana kakhulu nomfazi wakhe kunanini na ngaphambili, kwaye ndihamba esihogweni uqobo, ndafikelela kwinyani ethembisayo endinokuyifumana. Kwakunyanzelekile ukuba ibe nethemba kwaye ibinyanzelekile. Ndithe ...

"Ndicinga ukuba le yindlela ekubonakala ngayo ukuphilisa."

Sathula ixeshana. Akukho kukhawuleza. “Uyazi,” wanqwala, etsala iintliziyo zethu xa sisondela kuye, “Ndicinga ukuba lento ngu injani impiliso. ”

Ngaba akusoloko kunje? Nokuba ithumba lizama ukonakalisa imizimba yethu, okanye inzondo iyawutshisa umzimba kwezopolitiko. Okanye sitsalela i-psyche yethu ukuya kwincopho elandelayo yokucaca- {textend} ayiphilisi ihlala ilungile kumdaka? Ngaba asiba yinto engaziwayo xa siphinda sihlanganisa ubungqina bethu?

Ndidanise, ndaza ndavakalisa, ndathandaza, ndabhala, kwaye ndacaphuka, kwaye ndakholwa indlela yam yokuphuma kwiintlungu ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye kwakumangalisa ukuziva ndisiba ndim ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Kodwa phakathi-kwalawo mathuba ombane ibiyinto eyoyikisayo kunye nengqumbo. Amathambo kwisobho. Ukuthuthuzeleka kwisiphithiphithi. Ukuzibophelela ekuphelisweni.

Oku kukhangeleka njengokuphilisa.

Ukuphilisa kubi njengokuba "kuphilisiwe" kuyinto entle. Ukuba asigwebi ukungcola kwayo, kunokwenzeka ukuba sikhawuleze siye kwelinye icala - {textend} kwaye siphiliswe ngokunzulu kwaye somelele kunokuba besikhe sacinga. Amabala nazo zonke. Uphilisiwe.

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