Ngaba Ukuqaqanjelwa Yintlungu? Yintoni ekufuneka uyazi okokuqala

Umxholo

• Iintlungu ze-FAQ
• Kutheni ngamanye amaxesha kubuhlungu?
• Ngaba iintlungu ziya kumka kwangoko emva?
• Ngaba kuya kuhlala kusenzakalisa?
• Ngaba izithambiso zokuthamba ziya kunceda?
• Ndizaopha?
• Indlela yokulungiselela
• Yiya kwindlu yangasese
• Khetha i-lube yakho ngobulumko
• Thethani ngezinto
• Zama ukuphumla
• Qala kancinci
• Yintoni omele uyenze ngexesha lomsitho ophambili
• Sebenzisa i-lube eninzi
• Yiya kancinci
• Yiba nelizwi
• Lungisa indawo yakho
• Sukuba nexhala, awuzukukhetha ukungcolisa
• Ukusonga phezulu
• Coca
• Yiba nolandelelwano olulandelayo
• Iingcebiso zokhuselo
• Sebenzisa indlela yokuthintela ukhuseleko
• Yenza isikhonkwane
• Musa ukudipha kabini
• Gcina iliso ngaphandle kwayo nayiphi na into engaqhelekanga
• Umgca wezantsi

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Makhe siye ngqo kuyo. Ukwabelana ngesondo ezimpundu akufuneki kwenzakalise- kwaye akufuneki ukuba uyenza ngokufanelekileyo. Umsebenzi omncinci wokulungiselela kunye nokunyamezeleka kunokuthetha umahluko phakathi kokonwaba kunye nentlungu xa kuziwa kulonwabo lwangasemva.

Ukuba umtsha kwi-anal, funda kuyo yonke into oyifunayo ukuze wenze ixesha lakho lokuqala libe lelikhulu.

Iintlungu ze-FAQ

Kukuqala kwakho ukudlala umdlalo, ke kunjalo unemibuzo.

Kutheni ngamanye amaxesha kubuhlungu?

Kubaqalayo, ukunqongophala kwendalo ukuthambisa ajikeleze.

Ngokungafaniyo nelungu lobufazi, eliba manzi ukulungiselela ukungena, i-anus ayenzi. Ngaphandle kokuthambisa ngokwaneleyo, ukungqubana okwenziwe kukungena okomileyo kubuhlungu kwaye kunokudala iinyembezi ezincinci kulusu oluthambileyo lwendlela.

Ukuba awukhululekanga, inokuba sesinye isizathu sentlungu. Zizo ezo iindawo ezixineneyo phaya kuba izihlunu ezikwindlwana yezinyo zangasese zenzelwe ukuvalwa ngokuqinileyo ukugcina izinto ngaphakathi. Ngaphandle kokuyekelela ezo zihlunu, ukufumana nantoni na ngaphakathi kunokubangela ukungonwabi.

Ngaba iintlungu ziya kumka kwangoko emva?

Intlungu kufuneka ihambe ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba iintlungu zinzima okanye zikhona emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa, yenza uhambo oluya kumboneleli wezempilo.

Ngaba kuya kuhlala kusenzakalisa?

Akufanelekanga. Kodwa i-anal ifana nolunye uhlobo lwesini kuba inokuba buhlungu xa ingenakwenziwa ngokuchanekileyo.

Akuqhelekanga ukuba ube nokuphazamiseka njengoko i-anus yakho isetyenziselwa ukungena. Oku kufuneka kuphuculwe kwiseshoni nganye ye-anal, ukuba nje ulumkile.

Ngaba izithambiso zokuthamba ziya kunceda?

Basenokuba, kodwa akukhuthazwa ngokubanzi.

Intlungu yindlela yomzimba wakho yokwazisa into engalunganga ncam. Ukubala ezo zivamvo kunokukuthintela ekubeni wazi ukuba kukho ingxaki. Kwaye ukuba into ethile icinyiwe, njenge-engile yakho okanye isikhundla sakho, unokugqibela ngokwenza umonakalo.

Ndizaopha?

Unga. Intwana encinci yegazi ayisoloko iyinto enkulu okokuqala kwaye inokubangelwa kukucaphuka. Ukuba ubona ngaphezulu nje kweethontsi ezimbalwa zegazi elipinki okanye ukuba likhona nasemva kweentsuku ezimbalwa, landela umboneleli wakho wezempilo.

Ukopha kungabangelwa kukungqubana nokuba rhabaxa kakhulu, okanye imeko engaphantsi, enjengeehemorrhoids.

Indlela yokulungiselela

Ukwabelana ngesondo ngesondo kufuna kwangaphambili kwangaphambili, ngakumbi okokuqala. Nazi ezinye izinto zokukulungiselela ukuba uxakeke.

Yiya kwindlu yangasese

Ukuya kwindlu yokuhlambela ngaphambi kokuba i-anal ibe ngumbono olungileyo, kodwa kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba ukhathazekile ngokwenza ubundlobongela.

Ukwazi ukuba awunanto emva phaya kunokukunceda ujolise kulonwabo.

Khetha i-lube yakho ngobulumko

Abicah lube ihlala iyindlela elungileyo yokuya ezimpundu kuba iyatyeba kwaye ihlala ixesha elide kunezinye iintlobo ze-lube.

Ukuba uza kusebenzisa izinto zokudlala zokwabelana ngesondo ezenziwe nge-silicone, nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka usebenzise i-lube esekwe emanzini kuba i-silicone lube luhlisa iithoyi ze-silicone. Ungakujikeleza oku ngokusebenzisa ikhondom ngaphezulu kwento yokudlala.

Ukuthetha ngeekhondom, ioyile esekwe kwioyile kunye nezinye iimveliso zeoyile kufuneka zithintelwe ngenxa yokuba zidiliza i-latex.

I-lube esekwe emanzini ihlala ibheja ekhuselekileyo njengoko inobuhlobo kwiikhondom kunye nezinto zokudlala.

Fumana i-silicone kunye ne-lubes esekwe emanzini kwi-intanethi.

Thethani ngezinto

I-convo evulekileyo nethembekileyo phakathi kwamaqabane ibalulekile ngaphambi kokuzama ukuba neentlobano zesini ezimpundu okokuqala ukuze nibe nobabini kwiphepha elinye.

I-anal - okanye naluphi na uhlobo lokunxibelelana ngokwesondo - akufuneki kwenzeke ngaphandle kwemvume ecacileyo kuwo onke amaqela kuqala.

Ixesha lokuqala le-anal ayilulo uhlobo lwento oyenzayo kubhabho. Sithembe. Ukwenza umsebenzi omncinci wokulungiselela ngundoqo ekubeni namava akhuselekileyo, amnandi.

Eli ikwalixesha lokuxoxa ngazo naziphi na iinkxalabo onazo kwaye ubeke imida ecacileyo. Ngaba ujike ngokuthe ngqo? Qiniseka ukuba uthetha ngezo, nazo. Isitshixo kukuba wonwabe kwaye uzilungiselele kangangoko xa umema umntu ongaphandle kwendlu ukuba adlale.

Zama ukuphumla

Ukukhululeka ngaphambi kokuba uqale kuya kwenza i-anal Okuninzi kumnandi kuwe nakwiqabane lakho.

Zama:

• ukuntywila emanzini ashushu
• ukuphulula amaphambili
• ukuba neqabane lakho likunike umyalezo wenyama
• ukonwabela ukudlala kwangaphambili, njengokuncamisa, ukudlala ngokungathandabuzekiyo, okanye ukwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo

Qala kancinci

Ipenisi okanye i-dildo akufuneki ibe yinto yokuqala oyifaka kwi-butt yakho. Qala encinci usebenzisa iminwe okanye iithoyi ezincinci kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe usebenze ngendlela yakho.

Ukuba usebenzisa iminwe, qalisa nge-pinky edibeneyo. Ukuba ukhetha iithoyi, qala ngeplagi encinci kakhulu. Ixesha elingaphezulu, unokukwazi ukuqala kancinci kancinci.

Yintoni omele uyenze ngexesha lomsitho ophambili

Lifikile ixesha kwaye ukulungele ukunika impundu. Betha izandla phezulu!

Sebenzisa i-lube eninzi

Apha sihamba nentetho ye-lube kwakhona! Ungabi ngu-nag, kodwa umva wakho awuzukuzithambisa kunye nokwabelana ngesondo ezimpundu ngaphandle kwe-lube kubuhlungu kwaye kunokuba yingozi.

Akukho nto ifana ne-lube eninzi xa kuziwa kulo naluphi na uhlobo lokudlala kwe-butt, ke musa ukuba ngongqongqo. Yisebenzise ngokukhululekileyo ujikeleze umva kunye nokungena ngaphakathi usebenzisa iminwe yakho. Uyakufuna kwakhona ukuyifaka kwilungu lobudoda okanye kwinto yokudlala eza kwenza ukungena.

Yiya kancinci

Khohlwa nayiphi na i-hardcore banging oyibonileyo kwi-porn. Ayiloxesha lokuqala lomntu (nokuba isihloko sithi ngenye indlela). Ukuhamba ngesantya esipheleleyo ngaphambili kunokwenza owona monakalo mkhulu. Zikhulu kangakanani? I-fissure ye-anal okanye i-rectal perforation yimizekelo nje embalwa.

Yiba nelizwi

Ukwabelana ngesondo ayiloxesha lokuthula. Kwaye ukunxibelelana kuphela kwenza kube ngcono.

Qiniseka ukuba uxelela iqabane lakho ukuba yintoni evakalayo kwaye yintoni engavumiyo, kwaye uthethe xa ungonwabanga okanye ufuna ukuyeka. Oku kuninceda nobabini nibe ngabathandi abangcono kwaye kuqinisekisa ukuba nobabini nisangena kuyo yonke indlela.

Lungisa indawo yakho

Ngamanye amaxesha, ukulungisa nje i-engile yakho kancinci kunokwenza wonke umahluko xa kufikwa kwisini sangasese.

Ukuba awuyiva okanye awukhathazeki, zama uhlengahlengiso oluncinci kwindawo yakho, njengokugubungela umqolo wakho okanye ukuba iqabane lakho lijike kancinane kwelinye icala okanye kwelinye.

Sukuba nexhala, awuzukukhetha ukungcolisa

Ukungena kwe-anal kunokukwenza uzive ngathi ufuna ukungcolisa nokuba awenzi njalo. Kungenxa yokuba uninzi lwezihlunu ezifanayo ziyabandakanyeka. Hlaziya kwaye uqiniseke ukuba awuzukundlala. Siyathembisa.

Ukusonga phezulu

Ndiyakuvuyela! Uzivulile ngokwakho-kunye nezantsi lakho-ukuya kwihlabathi elitsha elitsha lokonwaba! Ngoku lixesha lokucoca kunye nomqamelo wokuthetha.

Coca

Ukucocwa lixabiso elincinci lokuhlawulela ixesha elifanelekileyo le-orgasmic.

Ishawa okanye ubuncinci bokuhlamba ngobunono kummandla welungu lomzimba nobuni kubalulekile ukuthintela ukusasazeka kweentsholongwane. Uyakufuna kwakhona ukuhlamba izandla kunye neethoyi zesini ukuba ubusebenzisa njalo.

ILube inokuba yinto emdaka, ke kuyakufuneka ukuba uhlambe amashiti akho xa ugqibile. I-lube esekwe emanzini ayifuni nkathalo ikhethekileyo, kodwa amabala avela kwi-silicone lube kufuneka yenziwe ngaphambi kokuba isuswe ibala ngaphambi kokuba ihlanjwe.

Yiba nolandelelwano olulandelayo

Yonwabela i-cuddle kunye nengxoxo xa ugqibile ukukhangela kunye neqabane lakho kwaye ufumane iimvakalelo zabo malunga namava. Thetha malunga nendlela izinto ezihambe ngayo kunye nento ongathanda ukuyenza ngokwahlukileyo kwixesha elizayo, nokuba ingaba impundu yinto ofuna ukuyizama kwakhona.

Ukwabelana ngesondo ezimpundu kunokuba mnandi, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba wonke umntu uyayithanda. Ukuba uyazama kwaye ufumanisa ukuba ayisidadisi isikhephe sakho, akukho sidingo sokwenza kwakhona. Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu ngesondo nantoni na engaphantsi Ahh-mazing. Yenza into evakalayo ilungile endaweni yoko.

Iingcebiso zokhuselo

Ukwabelana ngesondo ezimpundu kuza neengozi ezimbalwa, kodwa ungaziphepha ezi kulungiselela kancinci.

Sebenzisa indlela yokuthintela ukhuseleko

Ngokuka, umngcipheko wokosulela kwe-HIV uphezulu nge-anal kunezinye iintlobo zesini. Unako kwakhona ukufumana ezinye ii-STIs ukusuka ezimpundu.

Kungenxa yokuba izicwili eziethe-ethe ezikumngxuma wokungunda zithanda ukurhala kunye neenyembezi, ezinokuvumela ukuba intsholongwane ingene. Kukwakho neebhaktiriya ezingakumbi kule ndawo ngenxa yobukho belindle, nokuba awukwazi ukuyibona.

Ukusebenzisa iikhondom kunokuwunciphisa umngcipheko wosulelo kunye nezinye izifo. Gwema iikhondom kunye ne-spermicide, enokucaphukisa i-rectum.

Yenza isikhonkwane

Ukuba iminwe iya naphi na kufutshane nommandla we-anal, qiniseka ukuba acocekile, achetyiwe, kwaye ngaphandle kwemiphetho edibeneyo.

Musa ukudipha kabini

Ukuba ucwangcisa ukuhambisa ubumnandi bomlomo okanye ubufundisi okanye ukungena emva kokudlala ezimpundu, sukuya apho ungazihlambanga kakuhle izitho zangasese, izandla kunye nezinto zokudlala zesini kuqala.

Iibhaktheriya ezivela kwi-rectum zingangena kwi-urethra kwaye zibangele ukusuleleka kwintsholongwane. Ukuba iintsholongwane zingena emlonyeni, inokubangela nosulelo lwesisu.

Xa utshintsha imisebenzi, qiniseka ukusebenzisa ikhondom entsha.

Gcina iliso ngaphandle kwayo nayiphi na into engaqhelekanga

Ezinye iintlungu ezipholileyo emva kwamaxesha akho okuqala aqhelekanga ayisosizathu sokukhathazeka. Ukuba ufumana iintlungu ezinzulu okanye iintlungu zesisu, iintlungu eziqatha, okanye iintlungu ezihlala ixesha elingaphezulu kosuku okanye ezimbini, jonga umboneleli wezempilo.

Kuya kufuneka ubone nomboneleli wakho wezempilo ukuba:

• qaphela ukopha, ngakumbi ukuba kunzima okanye kuhlala ngaphezulu kosuku okanye ezimbini
• baneempawu zosulelo, ezinje ngomkhuhlane, ukudinwa, okanye iintlungu zemisipha
• qaphela iimpawu zethumba, ezinjengobomvu, ukudumba, okanye iqhuma ngaphakathi okanye ngakuyo

Umgca wezantsi

Ukwabelana ngesondo ngesondo kunokubonakala kunzima, kodwa akunjalo. Ukuba unomdla wokuzama, kukho izinto ezimbalwa onokuzenza ukuze uqiniseke ukuba unamava amahle.

U-Adrienne Santos-Longhurst ngumbhali ozimeleyo kunye nombhali obhale ngokubanzi kuzo zonke izinto zempilo kunye nendlela yokuphila ngaphezulu kweshumi leminyaka. Xa engakhange ahlanganiswe kwindawo yakhe yokubhala ephanda inqaku okanye evale udliwanondlebe neengcali zempilo, unokufunyanwa edlala ejikeleze idolophu yaselunxwemeni kunye nomyeni kunye nezinja kwi-tow okanye ngokutshiza malunga nechibi elizama ukulawula ibhodi yokuma.