U-Emily Skye uthi uyawuxabisa umzimba wakhe ngoku kunanini na emva kokuzalwa kwakhe eKhaya "ngokungalindelekanga"

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Ukuzala akusoloko kuhamba njengoko bekucwangcisiwe, yingakho abanye abantu bekhetha igama elithi "uluhlu lomnqweno wokuzalwa" "kwisicwangciso sokuzalwa." U-Emily Skye unokubalisa ngokuqinisekileyo-umqeqeshi uveze ukuba ubeleke umntwana wakhe wesibini u-Izaac, kodwa kuyabonakala ukuba khange yehle ngendlela ebelindele ngayo.

USkye wabelana ngothotho lweefoto ezithathiweyo emva kokuba ezele ekhaya. "Ewe LONTO ibingalindelekanga!! 😱😲🥴 ⁣⁣⁣ U-Izaac omncinci khange akwazi ukulinda ukuba angene emhlabeni!!⁣⁣" ubhale kwi-caption yakhe, esongeza ukuba uza kwabelana ngebali elipheleleyo lokuzalwa kungekudala. "Yiba ulungile, yinto yasendle!" Ubhale.

Ngokusekwe kuhlaziyo lwayo lweendaba ezentlalo lonke ixesha lokukhulelwa kwakhe, uSkye wayeneminyaka engaphezulu kwe-37 ekhulelwe xa wayebeleka. (Idibeneyo: Lo Mama wazala umntwana oziipesenti ezili-11 ekhaya ngaphandle kwe-Epidural)

USkye wabelane ngesinye sezithombe zakhe zokuzalwa kwiNdaba yakhe ye-Instagram ngokunjalo, ngesinye isibonakaliso sokuba ukuzalwa ekhaya bekungeyonxalenye yesicwangciso: "Ulapha !!! Luluphi 'icebo' lokuzalwa?!" Ubhale.

Ngosuku olungaphambi koko, uSkye wathumela i-bump selfie kwi-Instagram, ekwabelana ngeenkcukacha zesicwangciso sakhe somdlalo. "Umama wam uza kufika ngomso ukuze akwazi ukumkhumbula uMia [intombi kaSkye eneminyaka emibini ubudala] ukuze uDec [iqabane likaSkye] abekho ekuzalweni," ubhale watsho kwi-caption yakhe. "Ndenza utyando lokuya kubeleka kwaye ke NDIZAKULUNGELE umntwana oyinkwenkwe ... NDICINGA .." (Edibeneyo: Yintoni uEmily Skye afuna ukuyithetha kubantu "abothukileyo" ngoKukhulelwa kwakhe)

Ukulungele okanye akunjalo, u-Izaac ungene kwihlabathi kwiiyure ezingama-24 ezizayo. Kwesinye isithuba se-Instagram, uSkye wabelane ngezinye iinkcukacha emva kokuba kwenzeke njani. "Wazalwa nge-18 kaJuni nge-4: 45 ekuseni ndingaqondanga ekhaya emva kweyure enye kunye nemizuzu engama-45," ubhale watsho kwi-caption yakhe. "Wazalwa ngaphezulu nje kweeveki ezi-2 kwangoko enesisindo se-7lb 5oz."

USkye uxele ukuba yena noIzaac baqhuba kakuhle kwiveki enye emva kokuzalwa kwakhe. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa amava amnike imbonakalo entsha ngomzimba wakhe, wabelana ngawo. "Ndiyayithanda kakhulu kwaye ndiyayixabisa umzimba wam ngoku kunanini ngaphambili!" Ubhale.

Isihlandlo sesibini sikaSkye ebeleka ngokuqinisekileyo kubonakala ngathi kwahlukile kweyakhe yokuqala. Xa uSkye wamkela intombi yakhe, uMia kwi2017, wathumela ifoto yabo bobabini esibhedlele, bencuma iimpahla ezifanayo. Kwiifoto zakhe ezintsha zokuzalwa ekhaya, uSkye usesemgangathweni (apho wazalelwa khona), encancisa uIzaac ngelixa ejikelezwe ngabezonyango kunye nezinto zokudlala zabantwana.

Kuba ukuzala akunakulindeleka, abanye abantu basetyhini baphela bezala ekhaya bengalindelanga, njengoko wenzayo uSkye. Thatha Isidanga I-alum uJade Roper Tolbert, owathi "ngempazamo" wazala kwigunjana lakhe emva kokuba amanzi akhe aqhekeka ngokungalindelekanga kwaye ngequbuliso waya kubeleka.

Ewe kunjalo, abanye abantu basetyhini bakhetha kwaye baceba ukuzalwa ekhaya. Ngo-2018, ipesenti enye yokuzalwa e-US yenzeke ekhaya, ngokwezibalo ezivela kwiZiko leSizwe leZibalo zezeMpilo. Ngelixa uninzi lwabasetyhini lukhetha ukuzalwa esibhedlele, uninzi olukhetha ukuhambisa ekhaya luziva ukuba luyakonwaba ngakumbi kwaye lulawule kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo (ngakumbi kwezi ntsuku, zinikwe ubhubhane we-COVID-19). Umzekelo, u-Ashley Graham utyhile ukuba uthathe isigqibo ngokuzalwa ekhaya kuba ecinga ukuba "ixhala ngelekudlulile eluphahleni" ingaba uza kubeleka esibhedlele.

Ngokubhekisele kuSkye, ngethemba, uyakwazi ukuphumla ngaphambi kokuba abelane ngeenkcukacha ezithe kratya emva kwebali lakhe lokuzalwa elingalindelekanga. Okwangoku, sivuyisana nonina omtsha wabantwana ababini.

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