Ngaba uNcedo lokuncancisa lugqithiselwe kakhulu?

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Izibonelelo zokuncancisa azinakuphikwa. Kodwa uphando olutsha luthandabuza iimpembelelo zokonga kubuchule bexesha elide lokuqonda komntwana

Olu phononongo, "Ukuncancisa, ukuqonda kunye nokukhula okungacacanga ebuntwaneni: Isifundo sabemi," esapapashwa kwiphepha lika-Epreli 2017 IPediatrics, kujongwe kwiintsapho ezingama-8,000 ezisuka kwiqela leentsana ezikhula ixesha elide eIreland. Abaphandi basebenzise iingxelo zabazali kunye notitshala kunye novavanyo olusemgangathweni ukuqonda ukuziphatha kweengxaki zabantwana, isigama esicacileyo, kunye nobuchule bokuqonda kwi-3 kunye ne-5 yeminyaka ubudala. Ulwazi lokuncancisa luchazwe ngoomama.

Izifundo zangaphambili zifumene ikhonkco phakathi kokuncancisa ubuncinci beenyanga ezintandathu kunye nokusombulula iingxaki ezingcono kwiminyaka eyi-3. Nangona kunjalo, kolu phononongo olutsha, abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba ngeminyaka emi-5 ubudala, akukho mahluko abalulekileyo ngokwezibalo kwizakhono zokuqonda phakathi kwabo bantwana. abo babencancisiwe kwaye abo babengekho.

Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba olu phononongo lunezithintelo-ezizezi, ukuba alunakuphendula ngezinye izinto ezininzi ezinegalelo kubuchule bokuqonda babantwana.

Ukuqhubela phambili, isifundo asitshintshi isincomo se-AAP sokuba oomama kufuneka bancancise kuphela iinyanga ezintandathu zokuqala kwaye baqhubeke nokuncancisa unyaka omnye nangaphaya njengoko ukutya kuziswa. Kwinkcazo ehamba nayo kolu phononongo, "Ukuncancisa: Yintoni esiyaziyo, kwaye sivela phi apha?" ULydia Furman, MD, ugxininisa izibonelelo ezininzi zokuncancisa, kubandakanya nokuba kuyangqinwa ukunciphisa "zonke izizathu kunye nokufa kwabantwana okunxulumene nosulelo, ukusweleka komntwana ngesiquphe okunxulumene nesifo, kunye nomhlaza wamabele kumanina kunye nobungozi bentliziyo."

Kodwa, uGqr. Furman ubhala, uphononongo kwakhona "ligalelo elicingayo kuncwadi lokuncancisa kwaye ngokusisiseko alufumananga siphumo sokuncancisa kwisakhono sokuqonda."

Umbhali wokufunda uLisa-Christine Girard, Ph.D., uMarie-Curie Research Fellow kwiUniversity College Dublin, uxelele iParents.com, “Inkolelo yokuba iintsana ezincanciswayo zineengenelo ekukhuleni kwazo kwengqondo, ngakumbi, ibe ngumxholo wokufunda. Ingxoxo-mpikiswano isithuba esingaphaya kwekhulu leminyaka ngoku.Into ekufuneka igxininiswe apha luluvo unobangela. Iintsana ezincancisayo zihlala zinamanqaku aphezulu kumanqanaba okukwazi kwazo ukuqonda ekuhambeni kwexesha, kodwa oku kunokuba sisiphumo sezinye izinto ezinxulunyaniswa nokukhethwa koomama ekuncanciseni.

Wongeze wathi, "Iziphumo zethu zinokucebisa ukuba ukuncancisa ngokwe-se, kunokuba kunjalo i into ebangela uxanduva 'lwabantwana abakrelekrele,' nangona inokunxulunyaniswa neempawu zoomama. "

Ukuthatha abazali? UGqr. Girard uthi, "Kuba oomama abakwaziyo, ukuncelisa kunika ubutyebi beenzuzo ezibhaliweyo kumama kunye neentsana, kwaye kubalulekile ukugxininisa ukuba iziphumo zethu, malunga nokuphuhliswa kwengqondo ngokukodwa, akukho ndlela isusa kuyo. Ngaphezu koko. , iziphumo zethu ngokwazo zibonakalisa iingenelo ezithe ngqo zokuncancisa ekunciphiseni ukusebenza ngokugqithisileyo ebuntwaneni, nangona umphumo umncinci kwaye ubonakala uphila ixesha elifutshane."

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