Yiba ne-Orgasm emangalisayo: Yenza i-Solo Sex Bala

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Ukuzingca ebhedini kuhlala kucingelwa ukuba kuyinto embi. Kodwa ukuze ube ne-orgasm enkulu ngokwenene, kuya kufuneka ukhululeke kwaye ukhululeke nomzimba wakho. Kwaye ekuphela kwendlela yokwenza oko kukuthatha lo mfo kwi-equation kwaye uchithe ixesha elithile ucinga ngokwakho. Ewe-sithetha ngokuphulula amalungu esini.

Esinye sezibonelelo eziphambili zokuphulula amalungu esini (ngaphandle kolonwabo, ewe!) Kukuba abantu basetyhini bafunde ngakumbi malunga nezinto ezibathandayo, utshilo ugqirha wezesondo uEmily Morse, umphathi we-Sex With Emily podcast. "Okukhona usazi loo nto, kokukhona uya kwabelana neqabane lakho, kwaye kokukhona unokulawula ukoneliseka kwakho kunye nolonwabo." (Ungalibali ukujonga ezinye iingcebiso zokunyusa i-O yakho, ukuqala nge # 1: Yeka ukuyenza!)

Amathuba, sele uyenza, ngoko ke asizukukunika iJudy Blume-esque 101. Oko kuthethiweyo, kukho ii-tweaks ezincinci onokuthi uzenze kwindlela yakho yesiqhelo engathatha iiseshoni zakho zomntu omnye. ukuya kwinqanaba elilandelayo, kwaye uncede ukuphucula ii-orgasms onazo xa uthatha isigqibo sokuzisa umntu kumxube. Nanku apho uqala khona.

Yithothe phantsi

Ngamanye amaxesha, unqwenela i-orgasm ekhawulezayo, elula. Kwaye ezo zinokumangalisa. Kodwa ukuba injongo yakho sisiphelo esivuthayo, kuyahlawula ukuqala kancinci. ULauren Streicher, MD, umbhali we Isondo RX, ucebisa ukwenza ezinye zezinto ezifanayo onokuzenza ngaphambi kokuba uxakeke ngumfana omtsha: Vula umculo oshushu, tyibilika kwimpahla yangaphantsi uyazi ukuba ubonakala ushushu ngaphakathi, funda i-erotica okanye ubukele iphonografi… Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokuziva unyanzelekile ekuqaleni, kodwa umbono kukwenza nje izinto ezenza uzive ngokwenene, zivuliwe ngokwenene ngaphambi kokuba uqale uzichukumise. Ukuphulula amalungu esini kuyenye into nje kuluhlu lwezinto oza kuzenza (yenza iibhedi, hlamba impahla, zichukumise…), ngcono, utshilo uStreicher.

Indlela, Ezantsi

Kulungile, ngoku ungabamba eso vibrator (okanye isandla, umqamelo, okanye nantoni na okhetha ukuyisebenzisa ukuze uzikhulule). Kodwa kwakhona, hamba kancinci, kwaye udibanise izinto kancinci. "Vary uxinzelelo kunye nendlela ochukumisa ngayo iklitorisi yakho," ucebisa uMorse. "Ukuba uhlala ushukuma ngokujikeleza, zama ukubuyela emva naphambili, okanye ucofe kancinci." Ungafumana amabala amatsha-kuwe okanye ushukume ukuya kusebenza kwirepertoire yakho yesiqhelo. (Funda Oko Kuthethwa YiSimbo Sakho Sokuphulula Amaphambili Ngawe.) Ukuba usondela kuvuthondaba, rhoxa kancinane de kuphele iimvakalelo, uze uqale kwakhona. Obu buchule bubizwa ngokuba kukuhlela, kwaye xa uthe ekugqibeleni wavumela ukuba udlule, i-orgasm yakho iya kuba namandla, yomelele.

Mnike umboniso

Ukuba uziva ukhululekile, cinga ngokuphulula amaphambili phambi kweqabane lakho. Oku kukuphumelela, utsho uStreicher: Amadoda amaninzi acinga ukuba kushushu ukubukela, kwaye ngelixa uzinyamekela, uya kukwazi ukubona eyona nto uyithandayo-kwaye unokuthatha ezinye izikhombisi-ndlela. Sebenzisa kamva, xa usabelana ngesondo nge-P-in-V. (Emva koko zama ezi ezinye ezintandathu zeKinky zoPhuculo kuBomi bakho bezesondo.)

Jonga i-shape.com ngomso ngengcebiso yethu yesixhenxe yokomeleza i-orgasm!

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