UJennifer Lopez Uthetha Ngemiba Yokuzihlonela
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Uninzi lwethu, UJennifer Lopez (umntu) ngokusisiseko uyafana noJenny osuka kwiBloko (umntu): intombazana ethembekileyo, ethetha kakuhle ephuma eBronx. Kodwa njengoko imvumi kunye nomlingisi etyhila kwincwadi entsha, Uthando lwenyaniso, ebengasoloko enayo yonke into kunye.
Imemo enzulu yobuqu, ekhoyo ngomso, iphonononga ixesha elijikeleze uqhawulo-mtshato wakhe kwi-ex UMarc Anthony. Ngeli xesha kwi-2011, uLopez ubhala athi, "wajongana nemiceli mngeni yakhe mikhulu, wachonga uloyiko lwakhe olukhulu, kwaye ekugqibeleni wavela eyindoda enamandla kunangaphambili."
Kuyakhwankqisa ngandlel’ ithile ukuva uJ. Lo-ibhinqa elibonakala lizithembile, linomtsalane, yaye lizithembile—livuma ukuba lingazithembi, lisoyika ukuba lilolo, kwaneemvakalelo zokungafaneleki. Kudliwano-ndlebe olukhethekileyo kwi NAMHLANJE, U-Lopez uxelele uMaria Shriver ukuba uyaziqonda ukuba wayenemicimbi yokuzithemba kwiminyaka eyadlulayo, xa iarhente yeva ukuba uyaphikisana kwaye uyamcenga-umfana wakhe. "Ndandinengqiqo eninzi kunye ne-smart yesitrato. Ndandinentembelo kwinto endinokuyenza, "utshela uShriver. "Andizange ndithembele kakhulu ukuba ndingubani kwaye yintoni endimele ndinikele ngayo njengentombazana."
Kunokuba nzima ukukholelwa, kodwa le dichotomy yobuntu ixhaphakile kubantu abenza imali, njengoLopez, utshilo uSari Cooper, isibini esiqinisekisiweyo kunye nengcali yezesondo. Aba bantu babonakala bephuma eqongeni, kodwa "oko kuhlala kugquma iimvakalelo zokungoneliseki kunye neentloni abanazo kubomi babo," utshilo. Ewe, ngelixa uLopez wayenokuba nesibindi esiteji, wayenengxaki yokungabikho kobomi bakhe bothando, etsiba ukusuka kubudlelwane ukuya kubudlelwane ngenxa yokoyika ukuba yedwa. Kwiintsuku nje emva kokuba wohlukene naye Ben Affleck, umzekelo, unxibelelane kwakhona no-Anthony, umyeni wakhe oza kubakho.
Kodwa namhlanje, okwesihlandlo sokuqala ebomini bakhe, uLopez akatshatanga. Kwaye ukuba wedwa yeyona nto ilungileyo kwimiba yakhe yokuncamathela, utshilo uCooper. Ukuba wena, njengoJ. Lo, uzifumane uqalisa ubudlelwane obutsha ngaphandle kwexesha lokuphumla emva kokugqibela, elona nyathelo lokuqala libalulekileyo lokuthatha ixesha lokuzazi, u-Cooper ucebisa. "Chitha ixesha ufuna ngaphakathi-hayi ngaphandle, kwaye ufunde indlela yokucamngca ukuze ufunde indlela yokujongana nolo xinzelelo."
Ngethamsanqa, inkcazo yothando lukaLopez iyatshintsha. Wayehlala esondla kwi-fairytale esiyivayo xa singabantwana: "Uya kundithanda ngonaphakade, kwaye ndiya kumthanda ngonaphakade, kwaye kuya kuba lula nyani, utshilo. "Kwaye yahluke kakhulu kunaleyo." Kwaye isihloko sencwadi yakhe silungele umbono wakhe omtsha. UCooper uthi: “Uthando lokwenene kukufunda ukuzithanda, ukuchitha ixesha nawe, nokwenza izinto wedwa. "Kulula ukuthanda iqabane lakho, kodwa kufuneka ube nothando olufanayo kuwe." Kwaye kuyasivuyisa ukubona uJo ethatha ixesha elifanelwe yedwa ukwenza loo nto!