Tone It Up's Katrina Scott Shares "Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu" kuhambo lwakhe lokuncipha kobunzima emva kokubeleka

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UKatrina Scott uya kuba ngowokuqala ukukuxelela ukuba akanamdla wokubuyisela umzimba wakhe wangaphambi komntwana. Enyanisweni, ukhetha umzimba wakhe emva kokukhulelwa kwaye uvakalelwa kukuba ukuzala kuye kwatshintsha imbono yakhe ngamandla akhe.

Okwangoku, uninzi lwabantu luxelele uScott ukuba uza "kubuyela umva" emva kokufumana usana, ngakumbi xa enikwe inqanaba lokuqina. Kodwa ngoku, ngeposti yenguqu enamandla, umseki weTone It Up wabelana ngendlela ebekungenjalo ngayo.

"Ngokusemthethweni iinyanga ezilithoba emva kokubeleka," wabhala ku-Instagram kwiveki ephelileyo.

Ngokwesiqhelo, xa abaphembeleli bokuqina besabelana ngotshintsho lwabo lwasemva kokubeleka, ifoto yabo "phambi" ibabonisa kwiinyanga ezilithoba bekhulelwe. Kodwa ifoto kaScott "ngaphambili" yathathwa iinyanga ezimbalwa emva kokuba ezelwe. Thatha ujongo:

"Endaweni yokuthumela i-pic kwiinyanga ezisithoba ndikhulelwe, ndikhethe i-pic kwiinyanga ezintathu zasemva kokubeleka kuba kwiinyanga ezintathu kulapho wonke umntu ebendixelela ukuba ndizobuyela apho bendikhona," ubhale watsho. [Kodwa] yayingelohambo lwam olo. (BTW, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba usabonakala ukhulelwe emva kokuzala.)

Nangona amava kaScott engazange ahambelane nolindelo lwabanye abantu, waziva ewuxabisa kakhulu umzimba wakhe nokuba kunjalo. "Ngasekhohlo, andizange ndiphoxwe… kwaye ndandingonwabanga kuba ndingakhange ndilulindele ulindelo lwabantu abaninzi kum," ubhale watsho. "Ngapha koko, ndandichasene. Ndonwabile, ndinekratshi kwaye ndinomzimba oqinisekileyo." (Idibeneyo: Lo mama wee-IVF ezintathu zezahlulo zokuba kutheni emthanda umzimba wakhe wasemva kokubeleka)

Umama wokuqala wabelana ngendlela awayenokuziva ngayo ngokulula ngokuchaseneyo ukuba wayenokuzifaka uxinzelelo kuye ukuba ahambelane nolindelo olungekho ngqiqweni oluza nokuncipha kobunzima emva kokubeleka.

"Khawufane ucinge ukuba bendizibhokoxa, nditye iimvakalelo zam, ndicaphukele umzimba owandinika intombi entle, okanye ndizame ukuphila ngale nto ndicinga ukuba wonke umntu ulindele kum? Andiqondi ukuba ndiya kuba kule ndawo ndikuyo. namhlanje.Ingakhokelela ekubeni ndizive ngathi ndoyisakele mna nabo bonke abantu abandilandelayo.Ingakhokelela ekuzenzakaliseni kwaye mhlawumbi ndingabanjwa bc andizukucinga ukuba ndifanelwe kukuzithanda, utshilo. (Idibeneyo: UKatie Willcox Ufuna ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ukulahleka kwesisindo somntwana kuthatha ixesha)

Eqhubeka nesithuba sakhe, uScott uthe eyona nto ibalulekileyo kulo naluphi na uhambo lwasemva kokubeleka "yindlela esithetha ngayo nathi."

“Ndifuna wazi ukuba umzimba wakho wasemva kokubeleka uyamangalisa,” ubhale watsho. "Kwam, ndiyawaxabisa amanqaku am engwe, izibiliboco zam ezihleli ezidleleni zam eziphangiweyo, isisu sam esanda kakhulu kunakuqala xa ndisitya nolusu olutsha endikulo."

Uhambo lomntu wonke lubukeka lwahlukile kwaye wonke umama unendlela yakhe eyahlukileyo ~ ke masingathelekisi isahluko sethu 1 okanye 3 kwisahluko somnye umntu sama-30, utshilo uScott. "Ukuba uziva uphantsi okanye woyisiwe, ndifuna wazi ukuba kulungile. Qala ngale nto inye-ububele. Yonke into oyithethayo emzimbeni wakho ibalulekile kuba imamele." (Inxulumene: Umama we-CrossFit uRevie uJane Schulz ufuna ukuba uwuthande umzimba wakho wasemva kokubeleka kanye njengokuba unjalo)

Ukuphelisa isithuba sakhe, uScott wabelane ngendlela elula onokuthi uqalise ukuya kuyo ngokulula kwaye uziqhelanise nokuzithanda.

"Qala ngo '' ndimhle, ndiyakwazi, ndifanele iinjongo zam kunye namaphupha am, ndilapho kanye kufuneka namhlanje, ndingenza oku, ndiyathandwa, kwaye ndinombulelo kakhulu ngalo mzimba, ndibetha intliziyo kunye nengqondo yam entle, '' ubhale watsho. "Zonke izigqibo ozenzayo, zenze ngokuzithanda ... kuba kufanelekile."

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