Lo Mama usancancisayo ngelixa esenza imithambo kwaye luhlobo olumangalisayo

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Ukuba ngumama kunendlela yokukhupha amandla akho endalo kwimisebenzi emininzi, kodwa eli linqanaba elilandelayo. Umama ofanelekileyo uMonica Bencomo wayezimisele ukuqhubeka nokusebenza kwakhe ngaphandle kokuncama umnqweno wakhe wokuncancisa umntwana wakhe. Ngelixa kungekhe kube lula ukujongana nokuzikhathalela kunye neemfuno zokuba ngumama, uMonica wafumana indlela yokwenza konke kusebenze-kwaye ngokwenza njalo, wenza into eyenziwa ngabanye oomama abaninzi: Ubonakalise ukuba oomama banokuncancisa nje. malunga nayiphi na imeko.

U-Bencomo, obhlohla ii-Moms Wear Heels, ebesoloko ebonisa ukuzilolonga ekusebenzeni kwakhe, kwaye uninzi lwazo lubonisa ii-cameos ezivela kubantwana bakhe abathandekayo. Elona candelo lililo? Umama uyakwazi ukuba ngumongikazi ngelixa egcina inkqubo yakhe yokuzilolonga.

Umama ofanelekileyo ukholelwa ekwenzeni nantoni na anokuyenza ukugcina imikhwa yakhe esempilweni, kodwa uyayiqonda indlela ekunzima ngayo ukuzilolonga xa usebenza njengomama oncelisayo. Ukulungela kwakhe ukumkhokelela ekubeni azilolonge kunye nomongikazi ngaxeshanye, kodwa iimpendulo kwiifoto zakhe kunye neevidiyo zibonisa ukuba uBencomo akenzi nje into emsebenzelayo-uyabakhuthaza oomama kuyo yonke indawo.

“Ndithathe isigqibo sokuthumela uhambo lwam lokuncancisa olungaphekwanga nolwenyani kuba kubalulekile kum ukukhuthaza oomama ukuba babandakanye usapho kubomi babo bokuqina,” utshilo uBencomo. Ukukhulelwa okufanelekileyo. "Oomama abaninzi abaziingcali zokomelela komzimba bayayilahla imbono yokwandisa ukuncancisa ngenxa yomnqweno wabo wokuqwengulwa, ukuthatha izitshisi ezinamanqatha, kunye nezinye izongezo ezingenampilo kumntwana oncancisayo. Ukuncancisa kubangela ukuba imizimba yethu ngokwemvelo igcine amanqatha amaninzi, ekwayinto enkulu hayi-hayi kwabo bakhuphisana nomzimba ofana nam. "

Kodwa amava kaBencomo amfundise ukuba ukuncancisa kunye nokuma okumangalisayo akufuneki ukuba kungangqinelani.

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