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Ithuba lokukhuthaza kunye nokufundisa abantu ukuba baphile ngokonwaba kwaye babesempilweni, kunye nokukwazi ukwenza imali ngokwenza into oyithandayo ngelixa usenza umahluko zizizathu ezibini eziqhelekileyo zokuba abantu baphishekele umsebenzi wokuqina. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ubuphantsi kwengcinga yokuba ubomi njengomqeqeshi buthetha ukuba kufuneka usebenze imini yonke-kwaye uhlawulwe ukwenza njalo-ungafuna ukucinga kwakhona.

Njengomntu obesebenza ngenkuthalo kumzi-mveliso wokulolonga kule minyaka ili-15 idlulileyo, enye yezona ngxelo zixhaphakileyo abantu abazenzayo xa befunda ubugcisa bam kukuba, "Kuyamangalisa ukuba ufumane ukuziphilisa." Ngelixa ndinokuqonda ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba le mbono inokuvela phi xa ndithetha ngempilo kunye nokomelela ngalo naliphi na ithuba ndidityaniswa nento yokuba ikhabethe yam yomsebenzi inebhulukhwe yeyoga, iintlanti zeembaleki, kunye neiteki zesitayile esincinci-inyani yantoni na. Ndenza usuku lokuphuma kunye nokuphuma kwemini kuyaphikisana nale nto iqhelekileyo yokungaqondi kakuhle. [Twitha le nyaniso!]

Njengabantu endisebenza nabo njengomqeqeshi wabucala kunye nomqeqeshi wezempilo besokola ukufumana ibhalansi phakathi koxanduva olubalulekileyo abanalo ebomini-kubandakanya ukwenza ixesha lokuzilolonga-ngokunjalo nabaqeqeshi babo. Umsebenzi wethu kukufundisa nokubakhuthaza abathengi bethu, kwaye sibekhona ukuze sibaxhase kwaye sibakhokele iipesenti ezili-110 kulo lonke uhambo lwabo lwempilo nobungqabavu.

Ngelixa ukwenza ukuzilolonga ngokuqinisekileyo yinxalenye yento eyenziwa ngabaqeqeshi, sisiqwenga esinye kuphela. Njengomqeqeshi nomqeqeshi, ukuze ndibonelele ngeyona mpembelelo intle kubomi babathengi bam, kufuneka ndithathe ixesha lokuba ndibazi kwaye ndikhulise imvakalelo yokuthembana nokuqondana. Ndikwenza oko ngokumamela ngokuzimisela imiceli mngeni yabo, iinjongo zabo, izinto abangazithandiyo, abangazithandiyo, iimfuno zomntu ngamnye, nokunye okuninzi, ngakumbi, kwaye akukho ndlela ndinokwazi ukuyenza ngokokusemandleni am ukuba bendizama ukungena ukuzilolonga kwakho ngaxeshanye. Andizukuphinda ndikwazi ukuvavanya ukulungela kwabo ukwenza utshintsho lokuziphatha oluhlala luhleli, inqanaba lokomelela komzimba, kwaye yeyiphi intshukumo kunye nokuzilolonga efanelekileyo kubo, kwaye ke ndenze indlela elungiselelwe ukuzivocavoca elungiselela iimfuno zabo.

Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba ngumceli mngeni kunye nokubonelela ngempendulo efanelekileyo kwifom efanelekileyo yokuqinisekisa ukhuseleko nokusebenza komthambo ngamnye, ukunika inkuthazo kunye nenkuthazo kwiseshoni nganye, kwaye ndifundise umxhasi wam malunga nendlela kunye nokuba kutheni senza into ukuphucula ulwazi lwabo malunga nokuba sempilweni nokuba sempilweni nokubavumela ukuba babe lixesha lokuzilolonga ngokuzimeleyo, eyona njongo iphambili kuye nawuphi na umqeqeshi olungileyo.

Uyabona, ixesha endilichitha ndisebenza ndimnye nabaxhasi bam lixesha labo lokuba yinguqu engcono kubo, ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasengqondweni, kwaye ukuba yinxalenye yohambo lwabo kuko okwenza ukuba ndibengumntu ongcono kwaye ekugqibeleni ndibengcono ingcali.

Ukomeleza impilo yam kunye nokuba sempilweni kwam, ndisebenzisa iingcebiso kunye nezicwangciso ezifanayo endizinika abathengi bam ukubanceda benze ukuzibophelela ngokuzilolonga. Njengabantu abaninzi, ndisebenza iiyure ezinde, ngoko ke ndipakisha ibhegi yam yokuzivocavoca kunye nokutya kwam kubusuku obungaphambili kuba ndiyazi ukuba kuza i-alarm yam ye-4:30 am ndiya kuba nombulelo ngokuba ndiyenzile. Ndisebenzisa ikhalenda yam ukuvala ixesha ngexesha lemini leeseshoni zam zokuzilolonga, kwaye ndiye ndatshintsha ingqondo yam ukuze ndiphathe elo xesha licwangcisiweyo njengoko ndisenza nayiphi na enye intlanganiso ebalulekileyo okanye idinga.

Ndenza "nemihla" yokuthatha iiklasi zeyoga kunye nabahlobo, kwaye ndichitha ixesha elisemgangathweni nomyeni wam sisenza izinto ezimnandi nezisebenzayo ezinje nge-paddleboarding okanye intaba. Emini, ndenza izinto ezincinci njengokuthatha izinyuko, ndimise kude, ndize ndihambe ndisiya apho ndiya khona nanini na kunokwenzeka kuba yonke intshukumo iyadibanisa. Ndiyayamkela kwaye ndiyayamkela into yokuba ngamanye amaxesha izinto ezingalindelekanga ziya kuza, kwaye ndihlengahlengisa indlela yam yokwenza umthambo ngokusemandleni am ngezo ntsuku ziphambeneyo.

Ekupheleni kosuku, "umsebenzi" wam wokuba ngumqeqeshi awunakuthetha ukuba ndiyabhatalelwa ukuzilolonga, kodwa oko kuthetha ukuba ndiyakwazi ukuvuka yonke imihla-nokuba kungaphambi kokuphuma kwelanga-kwaye ndenze ndihlala ndisenza into endiyithandayo kwaye ndiyithanda into endiyenzayo.

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