Ndijamelana Njani noMntu oliXoki lePathological?

Umxholo

• Ukuchaza ixoki lesifo
• Ubuxoki babo bubonakala bungekho sibonelelo sicacileyo
• Amabali abalisa ngawo ahlala emangalisa, enzima, kwaye eneenkcukacha
• Bahlala bezibonakalisa njengegorha okanye ixhoba
• Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi bayabukholelwa ubuxoki abuthethayo
• Ubuxoki bendalo ngokuchasene nobuxoki obumhlophe
• Ubuxoki obumhlophe
• Ubuxoki bendalo
• Ukuchonga ixoki lesifo ebomini bakho
• Indlela yokujamelana nexoki lesifo
• Kutheni le nto amaxoki e-pathological anomdla ebantwini?
• Ukuchonga ixoki lesifo
• Ukunyanga ukuxoka kwezifo
• Yise kude

Ubuxoki bendalo

Ukuxoka ngokwasemzimbeni, okwaziwa njenge-mythomania kunye ne-pseudologia fantastica, kukuziphatha okunganyanzelekanga kokuxoka okanye okuqhelekileyo.

Ngokungafaniyo nokuxoka maxa wambi okumhlophe ukuphepha ukwenzakalisa iimvakalelo zomntu okanye ukungena engxakini, ixoki lesifo libonakala lixoka ngaphandle kwesizathu. Oku kunokwenza kube nzima okanye kube nzima ukwazi ukuba wenzeni ukuba uyakholelwa ukuba udibene nenye.

Nangona ukuxoka kwentsholongwane kuye kwaqatshelwa ngaphezu kwekhulu leminyaka, akukabikho nkcazo ecacileyo yendalo yonke.

Olunye uxinzelelo lwe-pathological lunokubangelwa yimeko yengqondo, enje ngengxaki yokungabinabuntu (ngamanye amaxesha ebizwa ngokuba yintlalontle), ngelixa abanye babonakala ngathi abanasizathu sonyango sokuziphatha.

Ukuchaza ixoki lesifo

Ixoki le-pathological ngumntu oxoka ngokunyanzelwa. Ngelixa kubonakala ngathi zininzi izizathu ezinokubangela ukuxoka kwe-pathological, akukaqondwa ngokupheleleyo ukuba kutheni umntu enokuxoka ngale ndlela.

Obunye ubuxoki kubonakala ngathi buxelwe ngenjongo yokwenza ixoki le-pathological libonakale njengeqhawe, okanye ukufumana ukwamkelwa okanye uvelwano, ngelixa kubonakala ngathi akukho nto inokufunyanwa kobunye ubuxoki.

Abanye bacebisa ukuba imiba echaphazela inkqubo ye-nervous system inokumisela umntu ekubeni axoke.

Ukuxoka okunyanzelekileyo kukwayinto eyaziwayo yokuphazamiseka kubuntu, njengokuphazamiseka kubuntu. Ukulimala okanye ukonzakala entloko kunokudlala indima ekuxokeni kwe-pathological, kunye nokungaqhelekanga kwi-hormone-cortisol ratio.

Into eyenzekayo kwingqondo xa uxokayo ifumanise ukuba okukhona umntu exoka, kuya kuba lula ukuxoka. Iziphumo zikwabonisa ukuba ukuzingca kubonakala ngathi kubangela ukunganyaniseki.

Nangona isifundo singakhange sijonge ngokuthe ngqo ukuxoka kwe-pathological, kunokunika ukuqonda malunga nokuba kutheni amaxoki e-pathological alala kakhulu kwaye kulula njengoko esenza.

Oku kulandelayo zezinye zeempawu zesayensi kunye neempawu zamaxoki e-pathological.

Ubuxoki babo bubonakala bungekho sibonelelo sicacileyo

Ngelixa umntu enokuxoka ukuphepha imeko engonwabisiyo, enje ngokuba neentloni okanye ukungena engxakini, ixoki le-pathological lithetha ubuxoki okanye amabali angenanjongo.

Abahlobo kunye nosapho banokukufumanisa kunzima ngakumbi oku kuba umntu oxokayo akemi ukuze afumane nantoni na kubuxoki babo.

Amabali abalisa ngawo ahlala emangalisa, enzima, kwaye eneenkcukacha

Amaxoki asemngciphekweni ababalisi ababalaseleyo. Ubuxoki babo buhlala buchanekile kwaye bunemibala.

Nangona ngokucacileyo ingaphezulu-kwaphezulu, ixoki le-pathological linokukholisa kakhulu.

Bahlala bezibonakalisa njengegorha okanye ixhoba

Kunye nokwenziwa kweqhawe okanye ixhoba kumabali abo, amaxoki e-pathological athetha ukuthetha ubuxoki obubonakala ngathi bujolise ekufumaneni ukunconywa, uvelwano, okanye ukwamkelwa ngabanye.

Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi bayabukholelwa ubuxoki abuthethayo

Ixoki le-pathological lithetha ubuxoki kunye namabali awela ndaweni ithile phakathi kokuxoka okungalunganga kunye nenkohliso. Ngamanye amaxesha bakholelwa kubuxoki babo.

Kunzima ukwazi ukuba ungajongana njani nexoki le-pathological elinokuthi lingasoloko likuqonda ukuxoka kwabo. Abanye bakwenza rhoqo oko kangangokuba iingcali zikholelwa ukuba banokungawazi umahluko phakathi kwenyani kunye nobuxoki emva kwexesha elithile.

Ubuxoki besifo nabo bathande ukuba ngabenzi bemvelo. Bathetha kwaye bayazi ukuba bangadibana njani nabanye xa bethetha. Bayile kwaye bayintsusa, kwaye bacinga ngokukhawuleza abangasoloko bebonisa iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zokuxoka, ezinje ngokuma kancinci okanye ukunqanda ukudibana kwamehlo.

Xa bebuzwa imibuzo, banokuthetha kakhulu ngaphandle kokuchaza okanye ukuphendula umbuzo.

Ubuxoki bendalo ngokuchasene nobuxoki obumhlophe

Uninzi lwabantu luxoka ngamanye amaxesha. Uphando lwangaphambili lucebise ukuba sixelele i-1.65 yokulala yonke imihla. Uninzi lobu buxoki koko kuthathwa ngokuba "bubuxoki obumhlophe."

Ubuxoki be-pathological, kwelinye icala, buxelelwa ngokungaguquguqukiyo nakwisiqhelo. Zidla ngokubonakala zingenantsingiselo kwaye zihlala ziqhubeka.

Ubuxoki obumhlophe

Ubuxoki obumhlophe buye ngamanye amaxesha kwaye buqwalaselwe:

• iifayibha ezincinci
• engenabungozi
• ngaphandle kweenjongo ezimbi
• uxelelwe ukuba agcine iimvakalelo zomnye okanye uphephe ukungena engxakini

Eminye imizekelo yobuxoki obumhlophe ibandakanya:

• esithi unentloko yokuphuma uye kwintlanganiso
• esithi uyihlawule ityala lemali xa ulibale ukuyihlawula
• ukuxoka malunga nokuba kutheni ungalibazisi emsebenzini

Ubuxoki bendalo

Ubuxoki bendalo zezi:

• uxelelwa rhoqo nangokunyanzelwa
• uxelelwe ngaphandle kwesizathu okanye inzuzo
• gqolo
• uxelelwe ukuba enze uxeliweyo avele njengegorha okanye ixhoba
• ungathintelwa lityala okanye umngcipheko wokufunyanwa

Imizekelo yokuxoka kwezifo:

• ukudala imbali engeyonyani, njengokutsho ukuba bazuze okanye bafumane into abangakhange bayenze
• bebanga ukuba banesifo esisongela ubomi abangenabo
• ukuxoka ukuxelisa abanye, njengokutsho ukuba bahlobene nomntu odumileyo

Ukuchonga ixoki lesifo ebomini bakho

Ukuchonga ixoki lesifo akusoloko kulula. Ngelixa inokuba yimvelo yomntu ukukrokrela nantoni na ebonakala “intle kakhulu ukuba ingeyinyani,” ayingabo bonke ubuxoki obuthethwa ngamaxoki e-pathological.

Baxoka "rhoqo" ubuxoki obunokuthethwa ngumntu onganyanzelekanga ukuba axoke.

Ezi zilandelayo zimpawu ezinokukunceda uchonge umntu oxokayo:

• bahlala bethetha ngamava kunye nezinto abazenzileyo apho babonakala ngathi bangamagorha
• bakwalixhoba kumabali abo amaninzi, bahlala befuna uvelwano
• amabali abo athambekele ekubeni banzi kwaye aneenkcukacha kakhulu
• baphendula ngokucacileyo nangokukhawuleza kwimibuzo, kodwa iimpendulo zihlala zingacacanga kwaye aziboneleli mpendulo kumbuzo
• banokuba neenguqulelo ezahlukeneyo zebali elifanayo, elibangelwa kukulibala iinkcukacha zangaphambili

Indlela yokujamelana nexoki lesifo

Ukwazi umntu oxokayo kusenokukhathaza kakhulu kuba ukuxoka kubonakala kungenantsingiselo.

Inokuvavanya ukuthembana kubo nabuphi na ubudlelwane kwaye yenze kube nzima nokuba nencoko elula naloo mntu.

Nazi izikhombisi ezimbalwa zokukunceda ukuphatha incoko kunye nexoki le-pathological:

Musa ukuphelelwa ngumsindo

Njengokuba kunxunguphalisa, kubalulekile ukuba ungavumeli umsindo wakho ukuba ukongamele xa ujongene nexoki lesifo. Xhasa kwaye unobubele, kodwa uqine.

Lindela ukukhanyela

Umntu oxoka ngokwasemphefumlweni unokuba notyekelo lokuphendula kuqala ngobuxoki. Ukuba ujongana nabo malunga nokuxoka kwabo, amathuba okuba bayakuphika.

Banokuba nomsindo kwaye bavakalise ukothuka kwesi sityholo.

Khumbula ukuba akukho ngawe

Kunzima ukuba ungathathi uxokiswa buqu, kodwa ukuxoka kwe-pathological akukho ngawe. Umntu unokuqhutywa kukuphazamiseka kubuntu, ixhala, okanye ukuzithemba okuphantsi.

Xhasa

Xa uthetha nomntu ngobuxoki babo, mkhumbuze ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba azame ukukuchukumisa. Bazise ukuba ubaxabisile ngenxa yeyona nto bayiyo.

Musa ukuzibandakanya

Xa uqaphela umntu oxokayo, musa ukubabandakanya. Ungabuza into abayithethayo, enokubakhuthaza ukuba bayeke ubuxoki ngelo xesha.

Unokubazisa kwakhona ukuba awufuni ukuqhubeka nencoko xa benganyanisekanga.

Cebisa ngoncedo lwezonyango

Ngaphandle kokugweba okanye ukuhlazisa, cebisa ukuba baqwalasele uncedo lobuchwephesha kwaye babazise ukuba ingcebiso yakho ivela kwinkxalabo yokwenyani ngentlalontle yabo.

Zilungiselele ngolwazi malunga nokuxoka kwesifo, njengokushicilelwa kwenqaku okanye incwadana abanokuyifunda xa sele belungile. Ukuchaza ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba indlela abaziphethe ngayo inokubangelwa yimeko yezonyango engaphantsi nayo inokunceda.

Kutheni le nto amaxoki e-pathological anomdla ebantwini?

Ixoki le-pathological ngumbali obalaseleyo kunye nomdlali obalaseleyo. Bayayazi indlela yokuthimba abaphulaphuli babo ngokubabalisela amabali abanzi kwaye amnandi ngelixa bezonwabisa kakhulu.

Kunye nokwazi ukuluka kunye nokuchaza ibali elinenkcukacha, abantu banomdla kwinto eqhubela umntu ukuba axoke.

Kungokwemvelo ukufuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni bexoka, ngakumbi xa kungabonakali sizathu sobuxoki babo.

Ukuchonga ixoki lesifo

Ukuchonga ixoki lesifo kunokuba nzima ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi ezinokubangela isimilo. Ukuthetha nomntu kunye nokuqhuba imbali yezonyango kunye nodliwanondlebe akuqhelekanga ngokwaneleyo ukwenza ukuxilongwa ngenxa yotyekelo lomntu lokuxoka.

Inxalenye ebalulekileyo yokufumanisa ixoki le-pathological kukuchonga ukuba bayaqonda ukuba bayaxoka okanye bayabukholelwa obo buxoki.

Ezinye iingcali zisebenzisa i-polygraph, ekwabizwa ngokuba luvavanyo lobuxoki. Uvavanyo asikokubambelela kubuxoki, kodwa kukubona ukuba kaninzi kangakanani okanye kaninzi "babetha" i-polygraph njengoko oku kuphakamisa ukuba bayabukholelwa ubuxoki babo okanye baye balunga ekusebenziseni amanye amanyathelo ukukholisa abanye ngobuxoki babo.

Ezinye iingcali zikwanodliwanondlebe namalungu osapho kunye nabahlobo xa kufunyaniswa ixoki lesifo.

Ukunyanga ukuxoka kwezifo

Unyango luya kuxhomekeka ekubeni uxoka lwe-pathological aluphawu lweemeko zesifo sengqondo.

Unyango luya kubandakanya unyango lwengqondo kwaye lunokubandakanya amayeza eminye imiba enokubangela isimilo, njengamachiza asetyenziselwa ukunyanga uxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo.

Yise kude

Indlela yokuvelana kunye nokujamelana nexoki le-pathological iyeza ekuqondeni ukuba yintoni enokubangela ukuba umntu axoke ngelixa exhasa.

Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukuxoka luphawu lomnye umba onokunyangwa. Bakhuthaze ukuba bafumane uncedo abaludingayo.