Iimfihlo ezimele ukuba ziyaziwa kumaQela okuQeqeshela iiMbiza

Umxholo

• Iziseko
• Inketho 1: Impahla yangaphantsi yomqhaphu eqinileyo
• Inketho 2: Ingqele turkey
• Funa uncedo
• Phinda yonke into
• Ukhuphiswano
• Tsalela umnxeba kwiingcali

Ushwankathelo

Amawele am ayephantse abe neminyaka emithathu ubudala. Ndondliwe ngamanabukeni (nangona babengakhange babakhathaze).

Ngosuku lokuqala ndathabatha amanabukeni kumawele, ndabeka iiphothi ezimbini eziphathwayo ngasemva kwendlu. Umyeni wam wayengafuni nakuphi na ukungcola ngaphakathi endlwini. Olunye uhlobo oluqaqambileyo: Bayeke babaleke ze kwiyadi yethu yangasemva.

Kungekudala ndavala ucango lwangasemva ndibuye umva, unyana wam wabeka otyebileyo emhlabeni. Kanye ecaleni kwembiza eluhlaza ebengezelayo endandimbekele yona. Iwele lakhe lajonga lisoyika, lothuka kukubona ubunzima obukhulu obumdaka buvela emazantsi omntakwabo. Kwimizuzwana embalwa, yaqala ukuna imvula. Yayingumqondiso. Uqeqesho lweebhotile alunakukhawuleza kwaye lube lula njengoko bendicinga.

Iindaba ezimnandi? Ndiyazi ukuba akho amanye amaxesha obunzima, kodwa andikhumbuli namnye kuwo. Njengentlungu yokukhulelwa okanye yokubeleka, ndiyivimbile. Ngandlela thile, abantwana bam basinda. Bafunde ukuchama kunye nokungcungcutheka embizeni. Mhlawumbi enye imfihlo endinokwabelana ngayo ngamava yile: Ungakhathazeki ngayo. Nale iza kudlula.

Akukho “mfihlo” zokwenyani kuqeqesho lweebhotile. NjengoJamie Glowacki, umbhali we "Oh Crap! Uqeqesho lwePotty "undixelele:" Nabani na othi banendlela yoqeqesho lweebhotile ugcwele ubudenge. Ususa ilweyile emntwaneni. Yile nto uyenzayo. "

Abantwana bakho abayi kukhumbula uqeqesho lweembiza. Baza kugqitha kuyo. Ezi ngcebiso zintlanu ziluncedo, nangona kunjalo, zinokunceda ukugcina impilo yakho.

Iziseko

Zimbini iifilosofi ezahlukeneyo zoqeqesho lwe potty. Umyeni wam akakwazanga tu ukuyinyamezela ingcamango yokungcola kunye nokuchama kwimigangatho yethu. Kwaye singabazali ababini abasebenzayo nexesha elincinci namandla okusindisa. Ke sikhethe i-gentler-kunye nohlobo olude loqeqesho lwe potty.

Inketho 1: Impahla yangaphantsi yomqhaphu eqinileyo

Sibeka abantwana kwiibhulukhwe zoqeqesho, ngokusisiseko iimpahla zangaphantsi zomqhaphu. Baziva bemanzi xa bechama, kodwa kubanike ixesha elingakumbi lokubalekela kwigumbi lokuhlambela.

Inketho 2: Ingqele turkey

Le ndlela "yokufa ngesiquphe" intle ngokulula kwayo. Gxotha ii-diapers. Lindela ukungcola. Sukujonga emva. Khetha le ndlela ukuba unokuhlala ekhaya nabantwana bakho ubuncinci abathathu, ngokukhethekileyo ezine, iintsuku zilandelelana.

Zombini ezi ndlela zinokungakhathazi wonke umntu ukuba ulinde de abantwana bakho babonise iimpawu zokulungela, njengokufihla i-poop okanye i-pee, okanye ukuhamba ixesha elide phakathi kwe-diapers emanzi.

Funa uncedo

Awunakukwenza wedwa. Ukuba iqabane lakho alikho ebhodini, fumana umakhulu, umakhulu, okanye umhlobo ongumdlalo.

Nje ukuba i-diapers icinyiwe, uninzi lwabantwana luqala ukujonga phantsi. Isitshixo kukubafumana kwigumbi lokuhlambela ngokukhawuleza, ukuze badibanise nokunyanga.

Ukulula ngokulula kwesinye (okanye ngaphezulu), nangona kunjalo.

“Xa ufika kwenye imbiza, enye isekoneni ichama. Kuyinyani, kunzima ukuyenza ngokwakho de baqale ukwenza olo nxibelelwano, utshilo uGlowacki.

Uninzi lwabantwana (ukuba badala ngokwaneleyo kwaye bakulungele) baya kubona ukukhanya emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa.

Phinda yonke into

Ndithengele unyana wam imbiza eluhlaza, imbiza eblue for intombi yam. Leyo yayiyimibala yabo abayithandayo- okanye ndicinga njalo.

Badibanela ukuba babe ngabokuqala ukuhlala kwiimbiza eziluhlaza. Akukho mntu wayefuna ezantsi kwabo kuluhlaza. Isifundo esifundwayo. Fumana iimbiza ezifanayo. Thenga ngokwaneleyo ukuze ube neeseti ezimbini kwigumbi lokuhlambela ngalinye ekhayeni lakho. Abantwana batya ngexesha elinye. Baya kuphuma ngexesha elifanayo, nabo.

Ukhuphiswano

Yisebenzise kwinzuzo yakho! Ukuba elinye iwele libonisa umdla embizeni kodwa elinye alinakukhathalela, kulungile. Gxila kwiwele elibandakanyekayo.

Baza kusebenza njengomzekelo womnye. Njengabazali, sifuna ukuphatha abantwana bethu ngokulinganayo. Umgaqo olungileyo ngokubanzi, kodwa hayi kule meko. Bayeke bakhuphisane.

Tsalela umnxeba kwiingcali

Abantwana bakho baya kuba nesineke ngakumbi kunokuba uya kuba malunga nokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi. Yinike ubuncinci iveki, utshilo uGlowacki.

Ukuba awuboni olona phawu luphambili lwenkqubela phambili, emva koko thetha nengcali. I-Pee kulula ukujongana nayo. Uninzi lweengxaki lujolise kubuvuvu. Unokufuna iingcebiso zobungcali ekuhambeni xa usazi ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqunjelwa.

Kwangokunjalo, ukuba ujongene nomhla obekiweyo wangaphandle - ukuba isikolo sakho sabantwana abangaphangeliyo asiyi kubamkela abantwana bakho ngaphandle kokuba baqeqeshelwe iimbiza, umzekelo-ungafuna ukuzisa iingcali.

Kodwa nantoni na oyenzayo, ungathumeli kwimidiya yoluntu ukuba uqala ukuqeqesha abantwana bakho. Wonke umzali okhe watyhutyha le nkqubo uyazithanda njengengcali. Sinikezela ngokukhawuleza ngeengcebiso ezininzi ezingacelwanga, nezingqubanayo. Kodwa nguwe oyingcali kubantwana bakho.

Zithembe. Musa ukusimamela.

U-Emily Kopp ngumama wamawele kwaye uhlala kwindawo yaseWashington, DC. Uyintatheli engaphezu kweminyaka eli-13 yamava anika ingxelo kunye nokuhlela kokubini amaqonga osasazo kunye nedijithali kwinqanaba lasekhaya, likazwelonke nakwamanye amazwe. Fumana ngakumbi malunga nomsebenzi wakhe Apha.