USia Cooper Ukwabelane ngesikhumbuzi esibalulekileyo malunga nokuTshintsha kweXabiso

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Emva kokufumana ishumi leminyaka engabonakaliyo, iimpawu ezifana nesifo somzimba, i-fitness influencer u-Sia Cooper wayenokufakelwa kwesifuba sakhe kwi-2018. (Funda okungakumbi malunga namava akhe apha: Ngaba i-Breast Implant Illness Real?)

Kwiinyanga ezakhokelela kuqhaqho olwenziwa kukuqhushumba kwakhe, impilo ka-Cooper yaba mandundu kakhulu. Ngokudibana nokudinwa okugqithisileyo, ukulahleka kweenwele, kunye noxinzelelo, naye wafumana ubunzima, obamshiya waziva "eneentloni," esandula ukwabelana nge-Instagram.

Ukuba seso esidlangalaleni akuzange kuyenze lula lento kuba bendinezimvo ezininzi ezibonisa ukutyeba kwam okucacileyo, utshilo uCooper. “Abanye bade bandixelela ukuba ndifanele nditshintshe isiphatho sam sibe ‘yi-diaryofafatmommy.’ Abantu babecinga ukuba ndizishiyile kwaye ndaphathwa ngokuba ndingumqeqeshi wam, bekungafanelekanga ukuba ndivunyelwe ukwenza njalo.

Uninzi lwabantu lwalungazi ukuba uCooper "wayegula kakhulu ngelo xesha" kwifoto "yangaphambili", wachaza. "... kwakamsinya emva kokuba kuthathwe ifoto 'phambi' (ICYMI, kukho ubungqina obunzima bokuba ukufakelwa kwebele kuhambelana ngokuthe ngqo nohlobo olunqabileyo lomhlaza wegazi.)

Ngaphandle kokuziva ungathandabuzekiyo kukungaziphathi kakuhle, u-Cooper wabelane ngebali lakhe nabalandeli bakhe ukubazisa ukuba ukutyeba kuyindalo kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo, nokuba uphi kuhambo lwakho lomzimba. "Kunzima kwaye akunangqondo ukuhlala kubunzima obungama-24/7," ubhale watsho. "Ubomi buyenzeka, bafo."

U-Cooper ufuna ukuba abalandeli bakhe "bayeke kwaye bathathe umzuzwana bacinge ukuba kutheni umntu enokuthi alahle okanye atyebe" ngaphambi kokuba aphawule ngomzimba womntu. Kuloo mntu uthi 'ubhityile!' ukuze, usenokuba ulwa nomhlaza okanye esinye isifo... okanye mhlawumbi basentlungwini yokufelwa ngumntu omthandayo.Ubhalele umntu onokuthi umbone ukuba 'bayaziyeka,' mhlawumbi bayaqhawula umtshato okanye banengxaki yempilo yamadlala abangenakulawula, "ubhale watsho. Ingxaki kunye nento onokuyenza ukuyiyeka)

Namhlanje, u-Cooper uziva "engcono kunangaphambili." Konke ngenxa yokuba wayemamele kwaye wajongana neemfuno zomzimba wakhe. "Izinto ezininzi zitshintshile: Ndayeka utywala, ndasusa izifakelo zam endandiziva zindigulisa (zonke iimpawu zam zanyamalala), ndaqalisa i-yoga, ndatshintsha i-anti-depressant yam, kwaye ndafumana inkuthazo yam kwakhona, " wachaza.

Kodwa eyona nto iphambili kuCooper kukuba ukuguquguquka kobunzima yinxalenye ye wonke umntu uhambo, okuthetha ukuba akukho ntloni kulo. "Kuba nje ndingumqeqeshi oqinisekisiweyo ayithethi ukuba ndikhuselekile ekuguqulweni kobunzima," ubhale watsho. "Ndingumntu. Umzimba wam awufezekanga kwaye uyakuhlala uyindlela, umsebenzi uyaqhubeka. Ndilungile naloo nto."

Ekupheleni kosuku, akukho ndlela yokwazi ukuba umntu uhlangabezana nantoni, kwaye ukuphawula ngomzimba womntu akunakulunga. "Sibeka ixabiso elikhulu kakhulu kwaye sigxininisa kubunzima nokubonakala xa ixabiso lokwenyani lisempilweni yakho kunye nendlela oziva ngayo," ubhale watsho uCooper. "Amagama athatha ubunzima obukhulu ke lumka kwaye ukhethe amagama akho ngobulumko."

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