ULwimi lweZandla loNtsana: Iingcebiso kuNxibelelwano

Umxholo

• Ushwankathelo
• Ulwimi lwezandla ebantwaneni
• Izibonelelo ezinokubakho zolwimi lwezandla kubantwana abancinci
• Uthini uphando
• Uzifundisa njani intetho yezandla kwiintsana nakwimveku
• Yise kude

Ushwankathelo

Uninzi lwabantwana luqala ukuthetha malunga neenyanga ezili-12 ubudala, kodwa abantwana bazama ukunxibelelana nabazali babo kwangethuba.

Enye indlela yokufundisa usana okanye umntwana omncinci ukuba aveze iimvakalelo zakhe, iimfuno zakhe, kunye neemfuno zakhe ngaphandle kokukhala nokukhala kukusebenzisa intetho yezandla elula.

Ulwimi lwezandla ebantwaneni

Ulwimi lwezandla olufundiswa ukuba abantwana beva ngesiqhelo iimveku zahlukile kulwimi lwezandla lwaseMelika (ASL) olusetyenziselwa abo bangeva kakuhle.

Sisigama esilinganiselweyo seempawu ezilula, ezinye zazo ziyinxalenye yemiqondiso ye-ASL eyenzelwe ukubonisa iimfuno eziqhelekileyo zeli qela leminyaka, kunye nezinto abadibana nazo rhoqo.

Eyona nto iqhelekileyo, ezo mpawu ziya kubonisa amagama afana no “more,” “all gone,” “thank you,” yaye “where is it?”

Izibonelelo ezinokubakho zolwimi lwezandla kubantwana abancinci

Izibonelelo ezinokubakho zokusebenzisa ulwimi lwezandla kubantwana bakho zibandakanya:

• ubuchule bangaphambili bokuqonda amagama athethiweyo, ngakumbi ukusuka kubudala be-1 ukuya kwi-2
• ukusetyenziswa kwangoko kwezakhono zolwimi oluthethwayo, ngakumbi ukusuka kwi-1 ukuya kwi-2 yeminyaka ubudala
• usetyenziso lwangaphambili lwezivakalisi kulwimi oluthethwayo
• ukuncipha kokulila nokukhalela kwiintsana
• ukudibana okungcono phakathi komzali nomntwana
• Ukwanda kweQ

Ukusuka kwinto esiyaziyo, uninzi lweenzuzo ezinokubakho ezifumaneka ebantwaneni zibonakala zisezingeni emva kweminyaka yobudala emi-3. Abantwana abaneminyaka emi-3 nangaphezulu abafundiswe intetho yezandla ababonakali ngathi banamakhono amakhulu kakhulu kunabantwana abangakhange basayine.

Kodwa kusenokubaluleka ukutyikitya nomntwana wakho ngezizathu ezininzi.

Uninzi lwabazali abasebenzisa intetho yezandla baxele ukuba iintsana zabo kunye nabantwana abancinci banakho ukunxibelelana kakhulu nabo kuloo minyaka inzima, kubandakanya neemvakalelo.

Njengokuba nawuphina umzali womntwana oselula esazi, kusoloko kunzima ukwazi ukuba kutheni umntwana wakho eziphatha ngale ndlela. Kodwa ngentetho yezandla, umntwana unenye indlela yokuthetha.

Ngelixa olu hlobo lwentetho yezandla lunokunceda umntwana wakho akwazi ukunxibelelana ngokulula, kufuneka uphando olongezelelekileyo ukufumanisa ukuba lunganceda ukuqhubela phambili ulwimi, ukufunda nokubhala okanye ukuqonda.

Uthini uphando

Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba akukho zingxaki zokwenyani ekusebenziseni imiqondiso nabantwana bakho abancinci. Uninzi lwabazali bavakalisa inkxalabo yokuba ukusayina kuya kulibazisa intetho yonxibelelwano ngomlomo.

Akukho zifundo ziye zafumanisa ukuba ziyinyani, kwaye kukho ezinye ezibonisa umphumo ochaseneyo.

Kukho izifundo ezibonisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kolwimi lwezandla akuncedi iintsana kunye nabantwana abancinci ukuba bafumane ulwimi lomlomo kwangaphambi kwesiqhelo, kodwa nezi zifundo azibonisi ukuba ukutyikitywa kulibazisa ukukwazi ukuthetha.

Uzifundisa njani intetho yezandla kwiintsana nakwimveku

Ke abazali babafundisa njani le miqondiso abantwana babo, kwaye yeyiphi imiqondiso abayifundisayo? Zininzi iindlela zokufundisa abantwana ukuba basayine.

Enye indlela echaziweyo kukulandela le mithetho:

• Qala usemncinci, njengeenyanga ezi-6. Ukuba umntwana wakho mdala, ungakhathazeki, njengoko nabuphi na ubudala kufanelekile ukuqala ukusayina.
• Zama ukugcina iiseshini zifundisa intetho yezandla imfutshane, malunga nemizuzu emi-5 inye.
• Okokuqala, yenza umqondiso kwaye uthethe igama. Umzekelo, yithi igama "ngaphezulu" kwaye wenze umqondiso.
• Ukuba umntwana wakho wenza lo mqondiso, ngoko ke mabavuze ngohlobo oluthile lokuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo, njengokudlala. Okanye ukuba iseshoni yenzeka ngexesha lesidlo, ukulunywa kokutya.
• Ukuba abalwenzi uphawu phakathi kwemizuzwana emi-5, emva koko khokhela izandla zabo ngobunono ukwenza uphawu.
• Ngalo lonke ixesha besenza umqondiso, nika umvuzo. Phinda umqondiso ngokwakho ukuwomeleza.
• Ukuphinda le nkqubo yeeseshoni ezintathu suku ngalunye kuya kukhokelela ekukhuleni komntwana wakho kwiimpawu ezisisiseko.

Ngolwazi oluthe kratya, zikhona iiwebhusayithi ezineencwadi kunye nevidiyo ezifundisa abazali, kodwa kuhlala kukho umrhumo.

Enye iwebhusayithi, Iimpawu zaBantwana eziNtsundu, yaqalwa ngabaphandi abapapasha izifundo ezisisiseko kulwimi lwentsana nolwimi lomntwana. Enye iwebhusayithi efanayo uLwimi lweZandla loMntwana.

Nganye kwezi webhusayithi (kunye nabanye abafana nazo) ine "izichazi-magama" zemiqondiso yamagama kunye namabinzana aza kuwasebenzisela iintsana kunye nabantwana abasabhadazayo. Ezinye zeempawu ezisisiseko zifumaneka ngezantsi:

Yise kude

Ngaphambi kokuba bafunde ukuthetha, kunokuba nzima ukunxibelelana nomntwana wakho omncinci. Ukufundisa ulwimi olusisiseko lwezandla kunokunika indlela yokubanceda baveze iimvakalelo kunye neemfuno.

Inokukhuthaza ukudibana kunye nophuhliso kwangoko.