Kutheni Impikiswano malunga neQela leBhola yeBhola eKhatywayo yaBasetyhini eU.S

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Andinguye umlandeli omkhulu webhola ekhatywayo. Ndihloniphe kakhulu isixa esiphambeneyo soqeqesho olufunwa ngumdlalo, kodwa ukubukela umdlalo awundenzeli. Ukanti, ndathi ndakuva ngempikiswano ejikeleze imibhiyozo yeqela labadlali bebhola ekhatywayo laseMelika ngexesha lomdlalo wabo wokuqala weNdebe yeHlabathi yeBhola eKhatywayo yabaseTyhini nxamnye neThailand, umdla wam wenyuka.

I-ICYMI, iqela lenze amaza ngokuphumelela kwe-13-0. Ibiliqela lokuqala elakhe (lamadoda okanye labasetyhini) ukukora amanqaku ali-13 kumdlalo weNdebe yeHlabathi, lenza imbali ngomda omkhulu, ngokutsho INew York Times. Kodwa ibingengamanqaku kuphela athe iintsiba zangqubana-yayiyindlela abaphumelele ngayo, nabo. Abadlali babenemincili ngazo zonke iinjongo, bebhiyozela kunye yakuba ibhola ibethe umnatha ibangela abagxeki abaninzi (i-ahem, intiyo) ukuba bangcikive indlela abaziphethe ngayo, beyibiza ngokuba ayinamdlalo.

"Kum, kukungabi nantlonelo," utshilo owayesakuba ngumdlali webhola ekhatywayo waseCanada kunye nomhlaziyi weNdebe yeHlabathi ye-TSN, uKaylyn Kyle emva komdlalo. U-Kyle ukwathe ngelixa iNdebe yeHlabathi iyindawo yokubambelela kukhuphiswano, iqela lase-US bekufanele ukuba liyekile kwimibhiyozo yabo yangokufika kwi-8-0. (Idibeneyo: UAlex Morgan Uthanda Ukudlala Njengentombazana)

Akufuneki nditsho, oku kucola iigiya zam.

Okokuqala, njengomdlali wangaphambili, uKyle wabo bonke abantu uyazi ngomsebenzi onzima kunye nokuzincama okufunekayo kwimbaleki yobungcali ukufikelela kwinqanaba eliphezulu lokhuphiswano. Le yodwa ilufanele uzuko kunye nokuvunywa nokuba awukhe udlule kumjikelo wokuqala. Okwesibini, uninzi lweqela labaseTyhini laseMelika libandakanyeka kwityala loluntu ngokuchasene ne-US Soccer Federation ngesityholo socalucalulo ngokwesini, egxile ikakhulu kukwahluka okubonakalayo kwintlawulo yamaqela amadoda nabasetyhini.

Injongo nganye yayiyenye indawana yexabiso kunye nokuxabiseka kwabo kumbutho othe wanyelisa izakhono zabo, ngaphandle komgangatho ophezulu kunye neembasa zeOlimpiki. Kwaye mhlawumbi, yintoni eyongeza isithuko ekonzakaleni, iqela lesizwe labasetyhini beliziintloko kunye namagxa ngaphezulu koogxa babo abangamadoda. Ngokuka-Vox, amalungu eqela labasetyhini angenza malunga neepesenti ezingama-40 zale nto ifunyanwa ngabadlali abangamadoda- bahlala betsalela kwi-3,600 yeedola kumdlalo ngamnye xa kuthelekiswa nabadlali abangamadoda abafumana malunga ne- $ 5,000. Ngo-2015, ingxelo yeVox, iqela labaseTyhini laseMelika lanikwa i-1.7 yezigidi zeedola ngokuphumelela iNdebe yeHlabathi yabaseTyhini- Iqela lamadoda laseMelika lafumana ibhonasi yezigidi ezi- $ 5.4- emva kokuphulukana kumjikelo we-16 weNdebe yeHlabathi ka-2014.

Kodwa, yintoni eyona nto indicaphukisayo: Luhlobo luni lomyalezo oluthi lugwetywe le mibhiyozo kunye nentlawulo edidayo yoMbutho webhola ekhatywayo yaseMelika kwisizukulwana esilandelayo seembaleki zabasetyhini? Okanye ngenene, amantombazana anomdla ngayo nantoni na, nokuba yeyokupeyinta, ifiziksi, okanye ishishini?

"Kumnandi ukuba yimbaleki eqeqeshiweyo kwaye uzive uzalisekisiwe, kodwa kwangaxeshanye, loluphi uhlobo lwefa ofuna ukulishiya?" utshilo u-Alex Morgan, enye yeenkwenkwezi zeqela lesizwe laseMelika labasetyhini INew York Times. UMorgan ufake amanqaku amahlanu kwali-13 ngokuchasene neThailand. "Bendinalo eli phupha lokuba ngumdlali webhola ekhatywayo oqeqeshiweyo, kwaye khange ndiyazi ukuba kubandakanya ukuba ngumzekelo, ukukhuthaza, ukumela izinto endikholelwa kuzo, ukumela ukulingana ngokwesini."

Kwezemidlalo, kwigumbi lebhodi, okanye kwigumbi lokufundela, amantombazana- kunye nabancinci- baxelelwe ukuba bazenze bancinci ukuze bavumele abanye (oko kukuthi, amakhwenkwe amhlophe namadoda) bazive benobuchule kwaye bekhulu. Ukunika abanye isithuba sophuhliso lobuqu kunye nokukhula, ngelixa bebambezela ababo kwinkqubo. Isimangalo kunye neqela elinomdla lokungaxoli lithumela umyalezo ophazamisa imeko apho amantombazana, abasetyhini, kunye nabancinci beqala khona-kwaye bahlala bedlala umdlalo uphela – ngokubi. Ukuba sizama ukuzisa ingqwalasela kuko nakuphi na koku kungalingani, silungiswa ngokuhlazeka, ukugxekwa, okanye nokuba nobundlobongela kwezona meko zimbi. Nkqu noKyle kuthiwa ufumene izoyikiso zokufa emva kwezimvo zakhe malunga nokuziphatha kweqela laseMelika. (Eyeleleneyo: Abaphembeleli bayasixhasa isigqibo sikaNike sokuFaka iMannequins yoBukhulu emva kokubuyela umva)

Njenge-Millennial "emdala", izifundo zesini zesini zaqiniswa esikolweni. Ndifunde ukuba ukuba yinenekazi kufuna ukuhlala uzolile, uthobekile, kwaye utyhafile: unqumle imilenze yakho, ungabizi, kwaye ubukele ezantsi izakhono zakho. Ngeli xesha, kwiimeko ezininzi, amantombazana alandela imigaqo kwaye aphakamisa izandla ngelixa elindele ukwabelana ngeempendulo zawo agqunywe ngamakhwenkwe anomsindo aphazamisa kwaye aphazamisa iklasi.

Ngethamsanqa, ekhaya, abazali bam bazincoma iitalente esasinazo nodadewethu (ubugcisa kuye, ukuqubha kum) kunye nokukhuthaza ukukhula kwiindawo ezazinomngeni omkhulu. Sahlala sixelelwa ukuba kulungile ukuba nobuchule obukhulu kwinto enye kwaye ungoyiki kwenye. Ukuba asichazwanga ngokwamandla ethu kuphela kodwa rhoqo kunoko, ubuthathaka bethu-nendlela esikusingatha ngayo ukusilela. Sakhuliswa ukuba sibe namaphupha amakhulu kwaye abazali bam bagoba ngasemva bezama ukwenza loo maphupha makhulu ukuba enzeka. (Enkosi ngokundigxotha kuyo yonke into yokuqubha, ngakumbi ngexesha lasebusika, bafana).

Eli ayilo lungelo onke amantombazana analo. Ngaphandle kwesikolo kunye namakhaya akhawulezileyo, uluntu ngokubanzi lisebenza njengomzali onesimilo esinzima ukusicofa phantsi, kodwa sikhona ndawo zonke. Sifundiswe ngamasiko ethu, ngakumbi ngamajelo eendaba, ngakumbi ngoku. Uninzi lulungiselela ukhuphiswano lobuntshatsheli kumdlalo abawuthandayo kuphela ukuva ukuba akufuneki ubhiyozele iinjongo zakho emva kokuba ubethe inani elithile. Uguqulo: Thulisa iminqweno yakho kunye nezakhono zakho ukuze ubambelele kumgangatho wosolusapho wento umfazi ekufuneka evunyelwe ukuyenza. Isilumkiso sasespoiler: Abasetyhini banetalente kwaye lixesha lokuba siyeke ukuxolisa ngayo. Nantoni na onokuyenza, ndingayenza ngelixa usopha.

NgokweNgxelo yeBleacher, uJill Ellis, umqeqeshi webhola ekhatywayo wabasetyhini, wayibeka ngokucacileyo, "Ukuba le ibiyi-10-0 kwiNdebe yeHlabathi yamadoda, ngaba sifumana imibuzo efanayo?"

Ukubona owasetyhini ephumelele kwaye onwabele kuloo nto ayizuze nzima akuyonwabisi, kwabaninzi. Kuyinto emdaka kwaye iphazamisekile- ayihambelani nebhokisi esele imiselwe. Kuvakala ngathi luphawu lobudoda. Ndiyabulela kubafazi kunye nabaphuli bemiqobo abaye bavula indlela, sivakalelwa kukuba sinokuba nantoni na esiyifunayo, kodwa uluntu lubuyisela umva, lusixelela iinjongo zethu kufuneka zigcinwe ngaphakathi kwesizathu. Ungayiqhekeza isilingi yeglasi, kodwa awuyi kuyiqhekeza. Ewe kunjalo, kukho ukungafani komthetho, kwaye enkosi ngokulunga kubo. Ukongeza kuMorgan kunye neqela lakhe, uCardi B, uSerena Williams, uSimone Biles, kunye no-Amy Schumer phakathi kwabanye bangqine ukuba nge-gumption eyaneleyo kunye nokuqhuba, ungalifezekisa iphupha lakho- kwaye usebenze umlo woloyiso kanye xa usenzile.

Kodwa ngaphandle kwale mizekelo ikhuthazayo, kusekho inani elikhulu lezinto ezitsala abanye abafazi phantsi.

Kuninzi ukushukuma malunga nabasetyhini kunye nendima yabo kwezemidlalo mva nje. I-Olimpiki kunye nayo yonke indawo ejikeleze i-badass u-Alysia Montaño wabhala i-op-ed ye-New York Times, eqhumisa indlela ezinye iimveliso zezihlangu eziphatha ngayo (okanye ngenene, aziphathi) ikhefu lokuya kubeleka kwiimbaleki zabo ababhinqileyo, ezibangela ukuba bahlala bekhuphisana ukukhulelwa kwaye babuyele kuqeqesho kwangaphambi kokuba bacebise oogqirha babo.

Ngaphezu koko, i-International Association of Athletics Federation (i-IAAF eyaziwa ngokuba ngowona mbutho uphezulu wokubaleka) izamile ukumvala uCaster Semenya ekubeni akhuphisane ngaphandle kokuba athathe iihomoni zokwehlisa amanqanaba akhe endalo e-testosterone. Ngubani owabeka umgangatho wamanqanaba afanelekileyo e-testosterone kwimbaleki yabasetyhini? Ngaba loo nto ayinakubizwa ngokuba luncedo okanye "isipho" kwiimbaleki ezingamadoda? (Idibeneyo: U-Aly Raisman Ukwabelana ngeNcwadi awayengavumelekanga ukuba ayifunde kwityala likaLarry Nassar)

Oku kubuyela kwimibhiyozo yeqela labasetyhini lebhola ekhatywayo lase-U.S- kwaye ekugqibeleni, ngamazwi kaKyle. Akanatyala ngokupheleleyo, ewe, uKyle unelungelo loluvo lwakhe. Ukuba kukho nantoni na, sidinga ezinye iincoko ezijikeleze ezi zihloko ukuze sivavanye inyani yangoku kunye notshintsho.

Umbuzo wam ngulo: UKyle wafunda phi ukuba "isimilo esihle" kufuneka siwele kwibhakethi elithile? Yena, njengabafazi abaninzi, uye wafaka umyalezo ofanayo okhukulise ingqondo yabasetyhini yokuchonga abantu kwasekuqaleni ebomini. Ukuba ufundiswe ukukholelwa ukuba impumelelo yethu inokufikelela kude kube ngoku-kwaye imibhiyozo yakho ingabonakaliswa ngendlela enye kuphela-uya kuthi ekugqibeleni ufinyeze izakhono zakho, ulindelo, kwaye ujike izimvo zakho zabo bacela umngeni kuyo. IMO, amagqabantshintshi akhe anomoya wobomi bonke wokufundiswa ukuba kukho indlela enomngxuma wehobe ukuze uzive uzingca ngawe.

Izifundo ezisemva komdlalo olungileyo zibaluleke kakhulu. Ufunda indlela yokuphumelela kunye nokulahlekelwa ngobabalo kwaye umqhwabele izandla umchasi wakho ngaphandle kwesiphumo somdlalo. UMorgan wenza kanye loo nto. Emva kokudlala kakuhle, wathuthuzela umdlali waseThai ekugqityweni komdlalo. Amanye amalungu eqela lesizwe laseMelika avuyisene nabadlali baseThailand.

Lixesha elinomdla lokuba ngumfazi. Ekugqibeleni sigcina ingqalelo efanelekileyo efanelekileyo yegalelo lethu elikhulu eluntwini, kunye neenzame ezingabonakaliyo esizenzayo ngaphandle kokunconywa okanye ukwamkelwa. Nokuba ngaba iqela leSizwe leBhola ekhatywayo yabaseTyhini baseMelika lijonge ukuba ngumzekelo, lenza umsebenzi omhle omkhulu kwi-IMHO. Qhubekani manenekazi, ndizakunivuyisa!

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