Izinto ezingama-27 ekufuneka uyazi ngaphambi kokuba "Ulahlekelwe" bubunyulu bakho

Umxholo

• 1. Ubuntombi buthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kubantu abohlukeneyo
• 2. Nokuba umba wakho wobuntombi ubandakanya ukungena, kukho okungaphezulu kune-P ku-V
• 3. Ukuba unehymen, ayizukuya "pop" ngexesha lokungena kwilungu lobufazi
• 4. iculo lakho alinanto yakwenza nobuntombi bakho
• 5. Umzimba wakho awuzukutshintsha
• 6. Akukho "sex" emva kwesondo
• 7. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe ifane nemiboniso yesini oyibona kumabonwakude (okanye kwi-porn)
• 8. Ixesha lakho lokuqala lisenokungonwabi, kodwa alifanele lenzakalise
• 9. Kulapho ukuthambisa khona (kwaye mhlawumbi nokubekwa phambili!) Kungena
• 10. Amaphepha akho mhlawumbi ngekhe abe ligazi
• 11. Izifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo zingasasazeka nangoluphi na uhlobo lwesini
• 12. Ukuba une-P kwi-V ngesondo, ukukhulelwa kunokwenzeka okokuqala
• 13. Ukuba unelungu lobufazi, awungekhe wenze i-orgasm okokuqala
• 14. Ukuba unayo incanca, unokuthambisa ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ubulindele
• 15. Okanye ungafumanisa ukuba incanca yakho ayisebenzisani
• 16. Okukhona ukonwaba ngakumbi, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba uye kwi-orgasm
• 17. Ii-Orgasms ayisoloko iyinqaku, nangona kunjalo
• 18. Ukuba ufuna into, yitsho
• 19. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze nantoni na ongonelisekanga yiyo
• 20. Ungayitshintsha ingqondo yakho nanini na
• 21. Elona "xesha lilungileyo" kuxa uziva ulungile kuwe
• 22. Nokuba "wonke umntu uyayenza" okanye hayi "kuyaphikiswa."
• 23. Ukwabelana ngesondo akuhambelani nokusondelana okanye uthando
• 24. Umphefumlo wakho awukho semngciphekweni, kwaye awuyi kubotshelelwa kuloo mntu ngonaphakade
• 25. Ukuba ubelana ngesondo nomntu onxibelelana naye rhoqo, amandla anokutshintsha
• 26. Ixesha lakho lokuqala aliseti ithoni kwisini onokuthi ungabi naso
• 27. Ukuba amava akho okuqala ayisiyiyo le uyifunayo, ungahlala uzama kwakhona

1. Ubuntombi buthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kubantu abohlukeneyo

Akukho Nye Inkcazo yobuntombi. Kweminye, ukuba yintombi-ntombi kuthetha ukuba awuzange ube nalo naluphi na uhlobo lwesini esigqobayo-nokuba kungabufazi, ezimpundu, okanye nokuba kungomlomo. Abanye banokuthi buchaze ubuntombi njengongaze ubandakanyeke ekungeneni kwilungu lobudoda, ngaphandle kokuba ube nolunye uhlobo lwesini, kubandakanya ukuvuselela ngomlomo kunye nokungena ngaphakathi.

Nangona uyichaza, eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyikhumbule yile wena uthathe isigqibo sokuba ukulungele ukulala ngesondo kwaye ukhululekile kukhetho olo. Xa lifikile elo xesha, zama ukungacingi ngalo “njengokulahleka” okanye “ukunika” into. Ngokwenene ufumana amava amatsha ngokupheleleyo.

2. Nokuba umba wakho wobuntombi ubandakanya ukungena, kukho okungaphezulu kune-P ku-V

Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ekuphela kwendlela "yokulahla" ubunyulu bakho kukungena ngokungena kwilungu lobufazi lobudoda, kodwa akunjalo.

Abanye abantu basenokungaphinde bazibize ngokuba bayintombi enyulu emva kokuzibandakanya nokungena ezimpundu okanye ukungena ngomnwe okanye ngento yokudlala ngesondo. Abanye banokuphinda baqwalasele ubuntombi babo emva kokufumana okanye ukuvuselela ngomlomo. Xa kuziwa kubuntombi kunye nokwabelana ngesondo, kuninzi kakhulu kunokuba u-P ku-V.

3. Ukuba unehymen, ayizukuya "pop" ngexesha lokungena kwilungu lobufazi

Owu, hymen - izinto zentsomi. Mhlawumbi uye wayiva intsomi yokuba ukuba une-hymen, iya kuqhekeka ngexesha lokungena kwilungu lobufazi. Kodwa kuko konke oko: intsomi.

Umndilili ophakathi ayikho isiqwenga seethishu esicaba esigubungela ukuvulwa kwelungu lobufazi, njengebango leentsomi. Endaweni yoko, ihlala ikhululekile - kwaye Unotshe isiqwenga somzimba esifanelekileyo esixhonywe kwilungu lobufazi.

Kuxhomekeke kubukhulu bayo, i-hymen inokuqhekeka ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, ukwenza umthambo, okanye ukwenza eminye imisebenzi yomzimba. Kodwa ayiyi "pop," kuba ayinakukwazi.

4. iculo lakho alinanto yakwenza nobuntombi bakho

I-hymen yakho-njengomnwe wakho okanye indlebe-lilungu lomzimba nje. Ayichazi ukuba uyintombi nto okanye hayi njengeenzwane zakho. Kwaye ayinguye wonke umntu ozelwe ene-hymen, kwaye ukuba injalo, isenokuba sisiqwengana esincinci sezicubu. Wena-kwaye wedwa-nigqibe kwelokuba ubuntombi bakho.

5. Umzimba wakho awuzukutshintsha

Umzimba wakho awuguquki emva kokuba ubelane ngesondo okokuqala-okanye okwesibini, okanye okwesithathu, okanye amashumi amahlanu.

Nangona kunjalo, uya kufumana amava athile omzimba ahambelana nokuvuka ngokwesondo. Oku kunokubandakanya:

• ukudumba kwelungu lobufazi
• ime nkqo
• ukuphefumla ngokukhawuleza
• ukubila
• ulusu olucekeceke

Ezi mpendulo zinxulumene nokuvuseleleka zezokwexeshana. Umzimba wakho awutshintshi - uphendula nje kukhuthazo.

6. Akukho "sex" emva kwesondo

Emva kokuba ugqibile ukwabelana ngesondo, umzimba wakho uya kubuyela kancinci kwimeko yawo yesiqhelo. Kodwa eli xesha lokuphola lihlala kuphela imizuzwana embalwa.

Ngamanye amagama, akukho ndlela omnye umntu anokukwazi ngayo ukuba awuseyontombi. Ekuphela kwendlela abanokwazi ngayo ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokubaxelela.

7. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe ifane nemiboniso yesini oyibona kumabonwakude (okanye kwi-porn)

Wonke umntu ufumana isondo ngokwahlukileyo. Kodwa akufuneki ulindele ukuba ixesha lakho lokuqala lifane nezinto ozibonayo kwiimuvi.

Imiboniso yesondo kwifilimu nakumabonwakude ayenzeki ngexesha elinye - abadlali badla ngokubeka kwakhona, kwaye abalawuli banokuphinda benze iinxalenye ezithile ukuze imeko ibonakale intle kwikhamera.

Oku kuthetha ukuba into oyibonayo kwiscreen sesilivere ngokwesiqhelo ayisiyomifanekiso yokwenyani yokuba isini sinjani kubantu abaninzi.

8. Ixesha lakho lokuqala lisenokungonwabi, kodwa alifanele lenzakalise

Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ungaziva ungonwabanga okokuqala xa usabelana ngesondo. Uxinzelelo lunokwenzeka ngokungena, kwaye oko kunokubangela ukungonwabi. Kodwa ixesha lakho lokuqala akufuneki lonakalise.

Ukuba ukulala ngesondo kuyenzakalisa, nangona kunjalo, oko kunokuba ngenxa yokungabikho kwe-lubrication, okanye mhlawumbi imeko yonyango, njenge-endometriosis. Kuya kufuneka ubonane nogqirha xa usiva iintlungu ngalo lonke ixesha usabelana ngesondo. Banokuvavanya iimpawu zakho kwaye bancede ukunyanga naziphi na iimeko ezingaphantsi.

9. Kulapho ukuthambisa khona (kwaye mhlawumbi nokubekwa phambili!) Kungena

Ukuba unesini, unokuvelisa ukuthambisa-okanye ube "manzi" -ndalo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, kunokubakho ukuthambeka okwaneleyo kwilungu lobufazi ukunciphisa ukungqubana ngexesha lokungena.

Sebenzisa i-lube kunokunceda ekwenzeni ubufazi bube lula ngakumbi ngokunciphisa ukucaphuka. Ukuba ubandakanyeka ekungeneni ezimpundu, i-lube inyanzelekile; i-anus ayivelisi ukuthambisa kwayo, kwaye ukungena ngaphandle kokuthambisa kunokubangela iinyembezi.

10. Amaphepha akho mhlawumbi ngekhe abe ligazi

Kunokubakho ukopha okukhanyayo okokuqala xa usabelana ngesondo, kodwa ungalindeli imeko evela "eKhanyayo."

Ukuba unesini, unokufumana ukopha okuncinci ukuba i-hymen yakho iyolula ngexesha lokungena. Kwaye ukuba iinyembezi zethambo le-canal zinyembezi ngexesha lokungena kwe-anal, ukuphuma kwegazi okuthe ngcembe kungenzeka. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuvelisi gazi laneleyo lokushiya ubumdaka kwiimakhishithi.

11. Izifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo zingasasazeka nangoluphi na uhlobo lwesini

Ukungena kwilungu lobufazi asikuphela kwendlela ezithi zisasazeke ngayo ii-STIs. Ii-STI zinokusasazeka ngokungena ezimpundu kunye nokukhuthaza ngomlomo, nokuba uyapha okanye uyamkela. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukusebenzisa iikhondom kunye nezinye iindlela zokhuselo ngalo lonke ixesha, ngalo lonke ixesha.

12. Ukuba une-P kwi-V ngesondo, ukukhulelwa kunokwenzeka okokuqala

Ukukhulelwa ngu kunokwenzeka ngalo naliphi na ixesha kukho ukungena kwilungu lobufazi lobudoda, nokuba lixesha lakho lokuqala. Inokwenzeka ukuba umntu onepeni ukhupha ngaphakathi kwilungu lobufazi okanye ngaphandle, kodwa kufutshane, ukuvulwa kwelungu lobufazi. Ukusebenzisa ikhondomu yeyona ndlela yakho ukunqanda ukukhulelwa.

13. Ukuba unelungu lobufazi, awungekhe wenze i-orgasm okokuqala

I-Orgasms ayisoloko isiqinisekiso, kwaye kukho ithuba lokuba ungagqibi xa uqala ukulala ngesondo. Oko kunokwenzeka ngezizathu ezininzi, kubandakanya amanqanaba entuthuzelo kunye neemeko zonyango. Ngapha koko, uphando lubonisa ukuba kubantu ababhinqileyo banobunzima bokufikelela kwi-orgasm kunye neqabane.

14. Ukuba unayo incanca, unokuthambisa ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ubulindele

Akuqhelekanga ukuba umntu onepenisi afike kwi-climax ngokukhawuleza kunokuba bekulindelwe - okanye befuna - ngexesha lesini. Izifundo zibonakalisa ukuba i-ejaculation ngaphambi kwexesha inokuchaphazela uninzi lwe-1 kubantu aba-3.

Ukuba wenza i-orgasm ngokukhawuleza ngalo lonke ixesha usabelana ngesondo, cinga ngokuthetha nogqirha. Banokukwazi ukukuyalela amayeza okanye bacebise ezinye iindlela zonyango.

Ngokuchaseneyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ungabi namava e-orgasm okokuqala xa usabelana ngesondo, nokuba uyajola.

15. Okanye ungafumanisa ukuba incanca yakho ayisebenzisani

Unokufumanisa ukuba awukwazi ukufumana okanye ukugcina i-erection firm ngokulingeneyo ukungena. Nangona ungaziva uneentloni okanye ukhathazekile, yazi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha i-erectile dysfunction (ED) ayiqhelekanga.

I-ED inokwenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, ezinje ngoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Kwaye kuba eli lixesha lokuqala ulala ngesondo, unokuziva uxhalabile kakhulu.

Ukuba u-ED uyaqhubeka, unokukufumanisa kuluncedo ukuthetha nogqirha malunga neempawu zakho.

16. Okukhona ukonwaba ngakumbi, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba uye kwi-orgasm

Kungenzeka ukuba ube ne-orgasm xa ukhululekile emzimbeni wakho, iqabane lakho, kunye namava xa uwonke. Xa ukhululekile, uya usamkela ngakumbi isishukumiso sesini. Kwelinye icala, kunokwenzeka ukuba uve iimvakalelo ezonwabisayo kuwo wonke umzimba wakho. Kwaye, kuyo yonke ikhosi yesini, ezo mvakalelo zinokwakhela kwi-orgasm.

17. Ii-Orgasms ayisoloko iyinqaku, nangona kunjalo

Sukuyifumana ngokungalunganga-ii-orgasms zilungile! Zenza amaza okonwaba emzimbeni wakho zikwenza uzive ulunge ngokwenyani. Kodwa ukuba ne-orgasm akusoloko kuyinto yesondo. Okona kubaluleke kakhulu kukuba wena neqabane lakho nobabini nikhululekile kwaye ngokulinganayo kumava eninawo.

18. Ukuba ufuna into, yitsho

Musa ukuyihoxisa iminqweno yakho. Ukuba unemfuno ethile kunye neemfuno, qiniseka ukuba uxelele iqabane lakho- kwaye kungenjalo. Kubalulekile ukuba uvule kwaye uthembeke malunga nento ongathanda ukuba yenzeke okokuqala xa usabelana ngesondo ukuze amava abe ngawona angcono.

19. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze nantoni na ongonelisekanga yiyo

Hayi ayikho. Isingxi. Ukuba kukho into ongakhululekanga ukuyenza, awunyanzelekanga uyenze. Iqabane lakho alinalo ilungelo lokukunyanzela okanye ukukunyanzela ukuba ube neentlobano zesini-kwaye kungenjalo. Kwaye oku akusebenzi kuphela kwixesha lakho lokuqala - oku kuya ngalo lonke ixesha ulala ngesondo.

20. Ungayitshintsha ingqondo yakho nanini na

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uqhubeke nokwabelana ngesondo ukuba awusakhululekanga okanye awunamdla. Unelungelo lokutshintsha ingqondo nangaliphi na ixesha. Kwakhona, iqabane lakho alinalo ilungelo lokukunyanzela okanye ukukunyanzela ukuba uqhubeke nokwabelana ngesondo ukuba awufuni.

21. Elona "xesha lilungileyo" kuxa uziva ulungile kuwe

Unokuziva uxinzelelo lokulala ngesondo msinyane kunokuba ukulungele ngokwenene. Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba nguwe wedwa onokugqiba xa ufuna ukulala ngesondo okokuqala. Ukuba ixesha liziva lingasebenzi, kulungile. Lindela ide izive ilungile kuwe.

22. Nokuba "wonke umntu uyayenza" okanye hayi "kuyaphikiswa."

Yikholwa okanye hayi, wonke umntu unjalo hayi ndiyayenza. Izinga labantu abalala ngesondo liyehla. Ngokutsho kolunye uphando lwe-2016, iipesenti ezili-15 zeMillennials azizange zilale ngesondo ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-18 ubudala.

Kwaye idatha evela kumaZiko oLawulo lweNtsholongwane kunye noThintelo zibonisa ukuba okokuqala. Umndilili wobudala namhlanje, ukusuka kwiminyaka eli-16 ubudala ngo-2000.

23. Ukwabelana ngesondo akuhambelani nokusondelana okanye uthando

Ukwabelana ngesondo, njengokusebenza, ngumsebenzi womzimba - kwaye akukho nto. Ayifani into efanayo nokusondelelana, uthando, ukuthandana, okanye iqhina leemvakalelo. Indlela ojonga ngayo isondo, nangona kunjalo, inzima ngakumbi. Abanye abantu banokulala kuphela kunye namaqabane abo abathandayo, ngelixa abanye besabelana ngesondo ngaphandle komtya.

Ngamanye amagama, kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ukhululekile kwinto yokuba ulala ngesondo, kwaye omnye umntu angabelani ngexabiso lokuziphatha okanye leemvakalelo onokuthi ulubeke kumava.

24. Umphefumlo wakho awukho semngciphekweni, kwaye awuyi kubotshelelwa kuloo mntu ngonaphakade

Abanye abantu banokuba neenkolelo ezinamandla malunga nesondo. Abanye abanako. Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, awuyi kuwukhubaza umphefumlo wakho ekulalaneni ngesondo, kwaye awuyi kubotshelelwa ngonaphakade kwiqabane lakho. Ekugqibeleni, isondo yile nto-isondo. Ngumsebenzi oqhelekileyo, osempilweni ongachazi okanye omisele imigaqo yakho yokuziphatha okanye yokomoya.

25. Ukuba ubelana ngesondo nomntu onxibelelana naye rhoqo, amandla anokutshintsha

Wena neqabane lakho nobabini ninokushiyeka nibuza imibuzo emitsha, enje ngala: "Kufuneka sikwenze oku ngalo lonke ixesha sibonana?"; "Ngaba isondo sihlala sihlala kanjalo? ”; Kwaye "oku kuthetha ntoni kubudlelwane bethu?" Ezinye zeempendulo zinokuba nzima, kodwa njengoko uthetha ngale micimbi, qiniseka ukuba uhlala uvulekile kwaye unyanisekile malunga neemvakalelo zakho.

26. Ixesha lakho lokuqala aliseti ithoni kwisini onokuthi ungabi naso

Into emnandi ngesondo kukuba ngamava ahlukileyo ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukuqala kwakho ukulala ngesondo akunakuphila kulindelo lwakho, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba okwesibini, okwesithathu, okanye okwesine kuya kuba njalo. Uhlobo lwesini onokuthi okanye ongayi kuba nalo luya kuxhomekeka kwiqabane, kwinqanaba lamava, ukuzimisela ukuzama izinto ezintsha, nokunye okuninzi.

27. Ukuba amava akho okuqala ayisiyiyo le uyifunayo, ungahlala uzama kwakhona

Ukuqala kwakho ukulala ngesondo akufuneki ukuba kube yinto eyenziwayo ngaphandle kokuba ukhetha njalo. Ukuba amava ayiyiyo le nto ubuyifuna okanye ubuyilindele, ungahlala uzama kwakhona-kwaye kwakhona, kwaye kwakhona, kwaye kwakhona. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, njengoko isitsho intetho: Ziqhelanise nokwenza ugqibelele.