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Umxholo

• Olunye uncumo lusekelwe ekuncamathisweni
• Olunye uncumo lusekelwe kukuthandana
• Kwaye ukwanga okunye kukhuthazwa kukuqhuba kwakho ngokwesondo
• Ngapha koko, ukwanga (kwalo naluphi na uhlobo) ngokucacileyo uziva ulungile
• Umgca wezantsi

Kuxhomekeka ekubeni ngubani owamanga

Abantu bayazithanda zonke iintlobo zezizathu. Sanga ngothando, ngethamsanqa, ukuba ubulise kwaye usale kakuhle. Kukho yonke into 'evakalelwa kamnandi kakhulu'.

Kwaye xa uyeka kwaye ucinge ngenene ngesenzo sokumanga, luhlobo olungaqhelekanga, akunjalo? Ukucinezela imilebe yakho komnye umntu kwaye, kwezinye iimeko, ukutshintshisa amathe? Kuyavela ukuba kukho isayensi ethile emva kwale ndlela ingaqhelekanga kodwa iyonwabisayo.

Kukho iingcamango ezininzi malunga nendlela ukuzanga kwaqala ngayo kwaye kutheni sikwenza oko. Ezinye izazinzulu zikholelwa ukuba ukwanga yindlela yokuziphatha efundwayo, kuba phantse iipesenti ezili-10 zabantu azincamisi kwaphela kwaye zimbalwa kakhulu ukwanga ngenjongo yokuthandana okanye isondo. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba ukwanga yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye kusekelwe kwibhayoloji.

Jonga ezinye zesayensi emva kokumanga kwazo zonke iintlobo kwaye ubone ukuba ucinga ntoni.

Olunye uncumo lusekelwe ekuncamathisweni

Ukuphuza kubangela ukusabela kweekhemikhali kwingqondo yakho, kubandakanya nokugqabhuka kwehomoni yioxytocin. Ihlala ibizwa ngokuba yi "hormone yothando," kuba ivuselela iimvakalelo zothando kunye nokuncamathisela.

Ngokophando luka-2013, i-oxytocin ibaluleke kakhulu ekuncedeni amadoda ukuba adibane neqabane kwaye ahlalisane nomntu omnye.

Abasetyhini bafumana amava omkhukula we-oxytocin ngexesha lokubeleka kunye nokuncancisa, ukomeleza ukudibana komama nomntwana.

Ukuthetha ngokondla, abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukuncamisa kuvela kuqheliso lokuncancisa. Kanye njengeentaka ezondla iintshulube kumantshontsho azo amancinci, oomama babedla - kwaye abanye basakwenza njalo - ukondla abantwana babo ukutya kwabo okuhlafunwayo.

Olunye uncumo lusekelwe kukuthandana

Uyazi ukuba phezulu uziva xa intloko phezu izithende uthando olutsha kunye nokuchitha ixesha canoodling nabo? Eso sisiphumo sedopamine kwindlela yomvuzo wobuchopho bakho.

I-Dopamine ikhutshwa xa usenza into evakala ilungile, njengokuncamisa kunye nokuchitha ixesha nomntu onomdla kuye.

Oku kunye nezinye "iihormone ezonwabileyo" zikwenza uzive ungonwabanga kwaye unovuyo. Okukhona ufumana ezi hormone, kokukhona umzimba wakho uzifuna. Kweminye, oku kunokuba kubonakala ngakumbi ekuqaleni kobudlelwane-ngakumbi ukuba uninzi lwexesha lakho ulichitha utshixa imilebe.

Ukuba uyakwazi ukugcina isantya esingaguquguqukiyo sokumanga emva kwentshukumo yokuqala, ungaqhubeka nokonwabela izibonelelo zala mahomoni onwabileyo.

Usenokuba nolwalamano olwanelisayo ngakumbi. Kwisifundo se-2013, izibini kubudlelwane bexesha elide ezihlala zanga ukwazisa ukwaneliseka kobudlelwane.

Kwaye ukwanga okunye kukhuthazwa kukuqhuba kwakho ngokwesondo

Ayisiyomfihlo ukuba ezinye ukwanga ziqhutywa ngokupheleleyo ngokwesondo kwaye zikude neplato.

Uphando oludala lubonisa ukuba kwabasetyhini, ukwanga yindlela yokwenza ubungakanani beqabane elinokubakho. Ikwadlala indima ebalulekileyo kwisigqibo sabo sokubetha amaphepha.

Abathathi-nxaxheba ababhinqileyo bathi babencinci amathuba okuba babelane ngesondo nomntu ngaphandle kokumanga kuqala. Baye baxela ukuba indlela umntu amanga ngayo anokuyenza okanye ayaphule ngayo amathuba amaqabane abo okufikelela kwisiseko sesithathu.

Kukwabonakalisiwe ukuba amadoda ayamanga ukuzisa iihomoni zesini kunye neeproteni ezenza ukuba amaqabane abo ababhinqileyo amkele ngakumbi ngokwesondo.

Umlomo ovulekileyo kunye nokwanga ulwimi kusebenza ngokukodwa ekunyuseni inqanaba lokuvuseleleka ngokwesondo, kuba bayonyusa inani lamathe avelisiweyo kwaye atshintshisene. Ukutshica okungakumbi kokutshintsha, kokukhona uvulekileyo uza kufumana.

Ngapha koko, ukwanga (kwalo naluphi na uhlobo) ngokucacileyo uziva ulungile

Ungabulela iziphelo zemithambo-luvo emininzi emilebeni yomlomo ngenxalenye yabo ekwenzeni ukwanga kube mnandi kakhulu.

Imilebe yakho ineziphelo zemithambo-luvo ngaphezu kwalo naliphi na elinye ilungu lomzimba wakho. Xa ucinezela ngokuchasene nolunye useto lwemilebe okanye ulusu olufudumeleyo, kuyavakala ukuba kulungile. Hlanganisa oko kunye ne-cocktail yemichiza ekhutshwe ngexesha lokumanga, kwaye unayo iresiphi eqinisekileyo ukukunika konke ukuziva.

Kunye ne-oxytocin kunye ne-dopamine ekwenza uzive uthanda kwaye uvuya, ukwanga kukhupha i-serotonin-enye imichiza yokuziva ulungile. Ikwathoba amanqanaba e-cortisol ukuze uzive ukhululeke ngakumbi, usenzela ixesha elifanelekileyo macala onke.

Umgca wezantsi

Ukuphuzana kuyaziva kumnandi kwaye kuyawenza umzimba ulunge. Inokunceda abantu bazive benxibelelene kwaye bomeleze amaqhina azo zonke iintlobo.

Khumbula nje ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu ofuna ukwangwa okanye ukubona ukwanga ngendlela owenza ngayo. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba ubulisa umntu omtsha, uphakamisa i-peck a bestie, okanye ungena kwi-smooch sesh kunye nomdla wothando-kuya kufuneka usoloko ubuza phambi kokuba wenze i-smooch.

Kwaye ungakulibali ukuziqhelanisa nococeko lomlomo ngomlomo omtsha, ofanele ukwanga.