Kutheni i-LGBT yasekuhlaleni ifumana ukhathalelo lwempilo olubi kunabalingane babo abathe ngqo
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Xa ucinga ngabantu abasemngciphekweni wezempilo, unokucinga ngemivuzo ephantsi okanye abantu basemaphandleni, abantu abadala, okanye iintsana. Kodwa eneneni, ngo-Okthobha u-2016, isini kunye nesini esincinci saye samkelwa ngokusesikweni njengokwahluka kwezempilo liZiko leLizwe kwiZempilo eziNcinci kunye nezahluko zezeMpilo (NIMHD) -thetha ukuba banokuchaphazeleka sisifo, ukwenzakala, kunye nobundlobongela kwaye Ukunqongophala kwamathuba okufumana impilo eyiyo, ngokutsho kwamaZiko oLawulo lweNtsholongwane kunye noThintelo (CDC). (Oku kwenzeke kwiinyanga nje ezimbalwa emva kophononongo olukhulu olubonisa ukuba abantu be-LGBT basemngciphekweni wobuninzi bemiba yempilo yengqondo kunye nomzimba.)
Ngokuvunywa ngokusesikweni njengokungalingani kwempilo yabemi, imiba yezempilo yoluntu lwe-LGBT iya kuba yeyona nto iphambili yophando olungakumbi ngamaZiko ezeMpilo eSizwe (NIH)-kwaye lixesha. Uphando thina yenza bonisile ukuba abancinci ngokwesini bafuna ukhathalelo lwempilo olungcono, umthetho. Abantu abachonga njengabantu abambalwa ngokwesini okanye ngokwesini bajongene nemingcipheko yempilo kwi-HIV / AIDS, ukutyeba kakhulu, imood kunye noxinzelelo loxinzelelo, uxinzelelo, ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi, kunye nokunye okuninzi esingakwaziyo, ngokophando lwakutsha nje Unyango lwaNgaphakathi lweJAMA kunye nengxelo ka-2011 ye-NIH. (Jonga kwakhona: 3 Iingxaki zezeMpilo Abafazi abathandanayo kufuneka bazi malunga nazo)
Kodwa ngoba Ngaba abahlali be-LGBT bakule meko kwasekuqaleni? Esona sizathu sikhulu silula: ucalucalulo.
Abantu be-LGBT abahlala kuluntu olunamanqanaba aphezulu okuchasana kwe-gay banamazinga aphezulu okufa kunabantu abacalucalulo abaphantsi, ngokutsho kophando lwe-2014 olupapashwe kwiSayensi yeNtlalo kunye neMedicine-ukuguqulela kwixesha elifutshane lokuphila malunga ne-12 iminyaka. Ewe, 12. Lilonke. Iminyaka. Lo msantsa ubangelwa ikakhulu ngamazinga aphezulu okubulala nokuzibulala, kodwa namazinga aphezulu okufa ngenxa yesifo sentliziyo. Ngoba? Uxinzelelo lwengqondo kunye nokuhlala kwindawo enocalucalulo kunokukhokelela ekuziphatheni okungenampilo (njengokutya okungalunganga, ukutshaya, kunye nokusela kakhulu) ezinxulunyaniswa nomngcipheko wesifo sentliziyo, ngokutsho kwabaphandi.
Kodwa nangaphandle kweendawo ezinocalucalulo oluphezulu, ukhathalelo lwe-LGBT olunolwazi lunzima ukufikelela. I-NIH ithi abantu be-LGBT yinxalenye nganye yenani labemi elinenkxalabo eyodwa yezempilo. Ukanti kuvavanyo olungaphezulu kwe-2,500 yezempilo kunye noononophelo lwentlalo, phantse iipesenti ezingama-60 bathi abayithathi into yokuzibandakanya kwezesondo njengefanelekileyo kwiimfuno zempilo yomntu, ngokophando olwenziwe ngo-2015 ngu-YouGov wase-Stonewall, umbutho we-LGBT e-UK Kwaye Nokuba ezi nkathalo zezempilo yenza baqwalasele inkangeleko yesini ebalulekileyo, uninzi lwabo alufumani kuqeqesho abaludingayo; omnye kwabali-10 uthi abazithembanga kubuchule babo bokuqonda kunye nokuhlangabezana neemfuno ezithile zezigulana ze-LGB, kwaye nangakumbi bathi abaziva bekwazi ukuqonda iimfuno zempilo yezigulana eziguqukayo.
Konke oku kuthetha ukuba ukhathalelo olusisiseko lomgangatho kunzima ukuza ngabantu be-LGBT. Kwaye xa ujongo olulula luba linyathelo lobuso ngobuso kunye nocalucalulo, kulula ukubona ukuba kutheni benokuthiba kugqirha ngokupheleleyo-yiyo loo nto inokuba kutheni abasetyhini abathandana besini esifana nesabo kunye nabasetyhini abanesini esibini basenokungakwazi ukusebenzisa ukhathalelo lothintelo kunabafazi abathe ngqo. , ngokutsho kweNIH. Ukuba ukhe wafumaniseka "ujonge" kuwe gyno xa uthembekile ngokunyanisekileyo malunga nembali yakho yezesondo, uyaqonda ukuba iingcali zezempilo azisoloko zinenjongo njengoko sinqwenela ukuba zibenjalo. (Oku kukhathaza kakhulu, kuba abafazi abaninzi balalana nabasetyhini kunangaphambili.)
Kwaye olu calucalulo aluyiyo nje ingqikelelo-yinyani. Uphononongo lwe-YouGov lufumanise ukuba iipesenti ezingama-24 zabasebenzi abajamelene nesigulana beve oogxa babo bethetha kakubi ngabantu abathandanayo, abathandana besini esinye, kunye nabantu abathandanayo abathandanayo, kwaye iipesenti ezingama-20 zivile izimvo ezimbi malunga nabantu abadlulayo. Bade bafumanisa ukuba omnye kwabasebenzi abali-10 baye babona inkolelo yoontanga yokuba umntu "unonyangwa" ngokuba yilesbian, gay, okanye bisexual. Umbono othi, i-TBH, ungowokubuyela emva kwimihla yokulila "isiphoso" kwabasetyhini ababenobuganga bokuthintela-ukuba baqhube ngesondo.
Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba senza inkqubela phambili ekwamkelweni ngokupheleleyo koluntu lwe-LGBT (yay ngamalungelo alinganayo omtshato!), Kwaye ingqalelo ye-NIH kuphando kwindawo yezempilo ngokuqinisekileyo iya kunceda. Iindaba ezimbi kukuba, ewe, lo ngumba nokuba ngowokuqala.