Ubungakanani bempahla yinani nje, kwaye nabu ubungqina

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Sonke siyawazi umzabalazo wegumbi lokunxiba elingenakuphepheka: ukubamba inqwaba yobukhulu, ngethemba lokuba enye yazo iyakulingana kwaye ekugqibeleni ihambe iphoxekile. Akukho nto iphazamisayo njengokulinganisa okungahambelaniyo ezivenkileni. Iithegi zobungakanani kudala ziyimfihlakalo kuba abantu ngokuqinisekileyo abangeni kubungakanani obufanayo-bonke, kwaye asifanelanga sonke ngokugqibeleleyo kwiisayizi ezahlukeneyo. Iifoto ezingaqhelekanga zeli bhinqa ziyangqina ngokwenene ukuba kutheni ubukhulu bempahla bungenamsebenzi.

Ekuqaleni kwale nyanga, uDeena Shoemaker wabelane ngeposti yakhe kuFacebook ngelixa ezama iimpahla ezintandathu ezahlukeneyo ezimlingana kanye ngendlela efanayo. Ukubanjwa? Zonke zahluka ngobukhulu ukusuka kwisihlanu ukuya kwishumi elinambini.

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Ubhale wathi, "Hayi, andiyithengisi iblukhwe yam; ndinethambo nje lokuba ndikhethe." Ayisiyonto nje le nto uShoemaker anamava kuyo ngokwakhe, kodwa ukwasebenza njengomcebisi kumantombazana angekafikisi. Kwiminyaka yabo, iithegi zobungakanani zithetha yonke into kubo - kwaye ngandlela thile i-Shoemaker kufuneka ichaze ukuba kutheni ingakhathali.

"Ndiphulaphule intombazana engenakubalwa indixelela malunga nokutya kwabo okutsha kunye nefashoni [yokunciphisa umzimba]. Ndibe namantombazana ekhala ezingalweni zam kwaye bendibuza, 'Ukuba bendilulusu, ebeya kuhlala?' Ndiye ndacebisa amantombazana ebengazityi ukutya. Ndiye ndabamba abanye bephosa yonke into ebebeyityile. "

Ngokwenyani, ayingobafazi kuphela abajongana nale nto kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ngakumbi malunga nokuba sempilweni kunye nokonwaba kunokuba bangene kubungakanani obuthile.

Umenzi wezihlangu usishiya nomyalezo onamandla:

"Ubukhulu obushicilelwe ngaphakathi kwempahla yakho buxhomekeke kwincasa yobuqu yeshishini lefashoni kwaye iguquguquka ngokukhawuleza. Yeka ukukholelwa [kwimigaqo] yentlalo malunga nokuba ungubani kwaye kufuneka ube yintoni."

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