Le Toy yokudlala ngesondo ayimiliswanga njengepeni - Nantsi le nto ibaluleke kangaka

Umxholo

• Ngexesha lokulungela, isini iseyingxaki
• Ngokunjalo, iimveliso zikaMaude azenzelwanga abantu basetyhini kuphela - zibandakanya isini
• Phantse sonke isini siyathengiswa njengemfihlo yezibini ezithe tye kuphela

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Injongo kaMaude ayikokusombulula iingxaki zakho zesini nge-orgasm, kukubonisa ukuba isondo sinokuba lula kangakanani. Kodwa ekuphela kwendlela yokwenza ukuba kube lula kukucinga njengenxalenye yempilo yakho yemihla ngemihla.

Ngaba isondo sinokuba lula? Njengomqeqeshi weetapile (kunye nomhleli wezempilo), ndicinga ngalo mbuzo nanini na xa imeko yezesondo ihlolwe ngononophelo- okanye kufuneka ndihambise izinto kwigumbi lokulala. Yeyiphi indlela ebalaseleyo yokunyanzelisa ukuba basebenzise ikhondom ngaphandle kokubulala i-vibe? Ababonisi lonto Kumabonwakude.

Xa u-"Grace noFrankie "weNetflix bajongana nesondo, baziva beguqukile, kodwa enkosi kwilensi yamahlaya. Ndikhumbula ndijonge isidlidlizi esimfusa- ngokunyanisekileyo - uloyiko. Ukukhangela okukhawulezayo kuGoogle 'kwe-vibrator' kukwabonisa ukuba uyilo lwe-bulbous show alukude kangako kwi-zeitgeist yeithoyi zesini.

I-vibrator ikakhulu zinobukho obupinki okanye obubomvurha obukhwaza, "Ungalibali ukundifihla!" Lo mbala we "sex as taboo" ugxunyekwe kangangokuba nditsho ndibenentloni xa umxholo wesondo ukwiskrini.

Xa umntu endisebenza naye wazisa uMaude, inkampani ebalulekileyo yesini, ndandi… ndididekile. Kodwa ngovuyo kunjalo. Ngaba ndingazihlalela iimveliso zabo kwidrowa yam esecaleni kwebhedi ngaphandle kokuba umakhulu aphakamise isihogo? Uyilo kunye nemibala yabo iyahambelana ngaphandle komthungo kwimagazini yokuphila yaseSweden ngaphandle kokuphakamisa naziphi na ii-alamu- kwaye yile nto kanye yokudityaniswa kobomi bezesondo ababambisene nabo uEva Goicochea kunye noDina Epstein.

Ngexesha lokulungela, isini iseyingxaki

“Siqaphele ukuba akukho mnandi [kwaye kuyaphazamisa] kuninzi lwabantu ukuthenga ezi mveliso. Kufuneka uthenge iikhondom kunye nezinto zokuthambisa kwivenkile ethengisa iziyobisi, emva koko uthenge izinto zokudlala zokwabelana ngesondo kwivenkile ethengisa isondo, into ke leyo ethetha ngokungathanga ngqo kubantu basetyhini 'ubume bakho abubalulekanga,' ”uEva undixelela ngencoko yevidiyo naye kunye noDina. .

Ngelixa isini sisidingo sabantu, amabala enkcubeko kunye neencoko zonyanzelisa ukuba indlela eya kwisini elungileyo ibe nzima kangangoko. Amazwe angama-24 kuphela afuna imfundo yesondo, kwaye yi-13 kuphela kubo efuna ukuba imfundo ichaneke ngokwezonyango. Ke mhlawumbi yiyo loo nto iipesenti ezingama-30 zabafazi beekholeji bengakwazi ukuchonga i-clitoris, ngaphandle kwezibalo ezibonisa ukuba iipesenti ezingama-36 zabasetyhini zifuna ukhuthazo oluzayo. (I-Guardian ikwachaze ukuba yi-35 yeepesenti kuphela yabasetyhini e-UK abanokuthi ngokuchanekileyo babhale i-anatomy yabasetyhini, kwaye nabantu abancinci banokuyenza ngokuchanekileyo loo nto.)

U-Eva uyayiqonda indlela la mabala amchaphazele ngayo xa sele emdala. "Eyona inkulu kum yayikukucinga ukuba isini sasimalunga nolonwabo lwamadoda, kuba ndicinga ukuba yile nto siyifundiswayo. Ikwavakala ngathi imizimba yethu yabasetyhini inzima ngakumbi kuba asithethi ngayo kakhulu. Kwaye uziva uneentloni ukuphonononga loo nto njengesihloko kwaye uyavuma ukuba amadoda afike kwi-orgasm kwaye abafazi abayi. "

Xa ndimbuza ukuba uthini ngengcebiso kumntwana wakhe omncinci, uthi: “Ndiphulula amaphambili ngaphambili, kwaye bendizixelela ukuba wonke umntu kufuneka azive ekhuselekile, ekhululekile kwaye anelisekile. Ayifanelanga ukuba ibe malunga nomntu omnye. "

Ngokunjalo, iimveliso zikaMaude azenzelwanga abantu basetyhini kuphela - zibandakanya isini

“Iimpawu eziye zavela kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo bezingqalile nangokucacileyo kwabasetyhini. Sonke sinamanqaku afanayo entlungu ngokuthenga ezi mveliso. Ke kutheni le nto bekungekho uphawu olubandakanya isini? "

Ngokwe-2014 yophando olwenziwe yi-FHM, ngoku indoda engasebenziyo, iipesenti ezingama-70 zamadoda zifumene ukuthenga iithoyi zesini zihlazo. “Siyayiqonda into yokuba kukho abantu abathile abangazichongi njengamadoda okanye ababhinqileyo kwaye bonke abantu babelana ngesondo. Sizama ukwenza iimveliso ezimalunga neemfuno zabantu-wonke umntu. "

Oku kubonakala kwimilo ye-vibrator yabo, engeyiyo imilo yeklasikhi yeklasikhi. Kuyinto unobtrusive ngokupheleleyo. “Imilo yenzelwe ukuba uyisebenzise naphina apho ufuna khona, kwaye akufuneki ubengumfazi ukuze uyisebenzise. Asikukhuthazi nabani na ukuba ayibeke yonke indlela ngaphakathi [emzimbeni wabo] naphina, kodwa umbono kukuba ubume be-ergonomic iluncedo kakhulu kuyo nantoni na. Izandla zakho nokuba zintle. ” UDina undibonisa isidlidlizi, esidiliziweyo iinyembezi kwaye singena kakuhle esandleni sakhe, njengelitye eliqakathayo.

Uthi: "I-vibrator ezininzi phaya ngoku ziphakathi kwe-10 ukuya kwi-20 isantya esahlukileyo," ilula le. Nye. Mbini. Ntathu."

Kodwa uMaude akatshintshanga yonke into malunga ne-vibrator. Igcinwe zizinto ezilungileyo- njengokuhlawuliswa nge-USB, ukungangeni manzi, kunye nokuqhuba kwinkqubo yeemoto evavanyiweyo. Abasetyhini abanee-vibrators zabo banokuyibona le buzz. "Ukungcangcazela kunamandla kakhulu, kwaye uninzi lwabasetyhini lukhetha isidlidlizeli esomeleleyo, kodwa izinto zokudlala phaya ezibonisa ukuba zinokoyikisa ngakumbi," utshilo uDina, ebhekisa kwizitshizi ezipinki ezishushu iinkampani ebezipompoza kuzo emarikeni.

U-Eva noDina banethemba lokuba lo mngcipheko uyilo uya kuhlawula. Kodwa, nangaphezulu koko, banethemba lokuba imveliso yabo ingaqala utshintsho. "Kuninzi ekufuneka kwenziwe kwimfundo nakumgaqo-nkqubo," u-Eva uyavuma. "Kodwa kuthi, size kuyo ngekona: Ukuba wenza enye indlela ebhetele - imveliso abantu abaziva ngathi ihanjiswa ngelizwi elinobuhlobo," eliqhelanisa "isondo njengento yemihla ngemihla- [emva koko] singaluchaphazela utshintsho kwaye siqale incoko ezinokuthi zitshintshe umgaqo-nkqubo. ”

Incoko ejikeleze isini kunye nenkcubeko yesini sele itshintsha, ngokukhawuleza. Phakathi kwe #MeToo, abasetyhini kunye namadoda bayancokola, bebonisa indlela iintloni zesini, amabala, kunye nemfundo engalunganga yezesondo ebeke imeko yabo kukhetho lwesondo kwaye ikhokelela kwisini esibi. (Akumangalisi ukuba isayensi ithi isondo esibi sinokuchaphazela kakubi impilo yakho yonke.)

Phantse sonke isini siyathengiswa njengemfihlo yezibini ezithe tye kuphela

Kum, njengomntu osoloko ekwinkqubo yokungafundi ngcamango yesondo njengendawo yamadoda, indlela yokumema kaMaude iyonwabisa kuba yindlela efundisa ngokungacacanga ngayo.

Izinto zokuthambisa ezimbini zikaMaude, enye ye-aloe esekwe kwi-organic kunye nenye i-silicone ($ 25), zibhotile ezingenampazamo. (Njengoko uEva noDina bandibonisa ikiti yabo, iinkumbulo ezifanelekileyo zokuphinda-phinda zivuke. Elinye lamava endinawo nge-lube, ibhotile yokucinezela yeplastikhi yayityibilikisiwe kwaye igutyungelwe ngothuli emva kwayo.) Ikwajongeka njengokuthambisa, ukuze uyishiye ngaphandle ebhedini yakho.

Iikhondom zabo ezingenamakha (i-12 yeedola ezili-10) zikwipakethi yebhotolo, oko kuthetha ukuba uyazi ukuba leliphi icala indlela eyiyo phezulu (rim ngaphandle!) xa uyivula-bendingazi nokuba iikhondom zinendlela elungileyo. Kwaye ithambile, i-silicone vibrator ($ 45)? Ewe, ubume abuqinisi umbono wokuba ndifuna ipeni ukuze ndonwabe.

UEva noDina bacebisa ikhithi yokuhamba endaweni yokuthenga into nganye. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukukwazi ukuthenga yonke into ngaxeshanye ngamava aphambili eMaude. Kodwa ngaba ukwenza ukuthenga ngesondo ngokulula kwenza ukuba isondo ngokwaso kube lula?

Ekugqibeleni, kuxhomekeke emntwini. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngumntu ngamnye. Injongo kaMaude ayikokusombulula ingxaki yakho nge-orgasm ethenjisiweyo njengezinye iinkampani. Endaweni yokuba, bakubonisa ukuba isini yinxalenye yempilo yakho yemihla ngemihla, hayi ukuma kobusuku obunye.

"Umbuzo osele uphendulwe uninzi lwethu ngulo:" Ngaba uza kuyenza indawo yokuba abantu bancokole nabanye? Ngaba izakubakho indawo yokuququzelela kunye nemfundo? ’U-Eva uyandixelela. “Siyathemba ukuba siza kufika apho, ukuba olu phawu luza kuba ngumalusi waloo nkcubeko. Asifuni ukuba kufuneka usimamele, kuba sikholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba xa inkampani evelisa umxholo, ihlala ivakalelwa ngathi izama ukuthengisa into kuwe. Ke asifuni ukuthatha i-engile. Sifuna nje ukuba ngabaququzeleli abanikezela ngeqonga lokuba abantu babenezo ngxoxo apho singasoloko sikhokelela khona. ”

Zonke iinkampani, nakweyiphi na imboni, zithengisa indlela yokuphila - abavelisi bezinto zokudlala ngesondo abakhululwanga kuloo nto. Kodwa indlela yokuphila uninzi lweshishini lokudlala ngesondo elinikezela ngokutyhala ibali lesondo elilula-kodwa-lokuzingca. UMaude, ngokusebenzisa i-unisex, uyilo oluncinci, wenza okwahlukileyo. Ngokuyila, ngokunikela ngesidlidlisi esingeyiyo eyendalo okanye emfusa, ngokubeka phambili ubudlelwane babantu endaweni yomdlalo wokugqibela-bayazichitha iindibano ezazikhe zalungisa ukuthanda kwabantu ngokwesondo.

Ukwabelana ngesondo ayisiyonto nje emnyama, yexesha lokutya okanye amava okuza. Yinxalenye yemihla ngemihla yempilo-ntle, kwaye eyona ndlela yokufumanisa ukuba isini sisebenza njani ebomini bakho kukutyala imali ngokwakho.

UMaude uqalise nge-2 ka-Epreli 2018 kwaye uza kubonelela ngeekhondom, iintlobo ezimbini zokuthambisa, isidlidlizi, kunye nekhithi "ye-quickie". Iimveliso ziya kufumaneka kwi-gemaude.com.