Izikhundla zesondo ezi-7 eziMileyo eziya kwenza ukuba amadolo akho anyikime-ngendlela elungileyo

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• Yintoni isiBheno seSondo esiSigxina, kunjalo?
• Ukuma kwamalungu eSondo ukuba uzame
• Umlenze-up
• Ukuma Oral for Vulvas
• Umda weTheyibhile
• Ukuntywila kwigumbi lokuhlambela nje
• Yogi
• Ndimi Blowjob
• Idada
• Uphengululo lwe

Ukwabelana ngesondo okumileyo kuhlala kuvakala njengeyona mbono ilungileyo kwihlabathi de ube uzama ukuphosa into emngxunyeni ongahambelani nomzimba wakho. Ixesha elininzi, liphela lingomnye wabo "kwabonakala ngathi licebo elilungileyo ngelo xesha" uhlobo lweentlobano zesini.

Ewe, tyhala loo mbono ecaleni, kuba ukuma ngesondo kuyenzeka kakhulu-ukuba nje uyazi ukuba ungayenza njani eyona nto. Ngaphambili, ukuqonda okuvela kuma-sexperts ngendlela yokwenza ukuma kwesondo kube lula, kushushu, kwaye kuyamangalisa kuwe.

Gcina ukhumbula ukuba ukuba awuyiva, ukuba kukho into engamnandanga, okanye, uyazi, udiniwe, ungasoloko usiya ebhedini, esofeni, naphina. Uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo lubulala amathambo (zombini i-clit kunye ne-penis persuasion) ngokukhawuleza kunayo nayiphi na enye into.

Nazi ezinye zezona ndawo zibalaseleyo zokuma ngesondo isikhokelo sokukunceda wenze ubumnandi buze ebomini, endaweni yokufa ekufikeni.

Yintoni isiBheno seSondo esiSigxina, kunjalo?

Xa sisithi "ukuma kwesondo" sihlala sibhekisa kwisini esigqibeleleyo. Into kukuba, ukuze ube ulunge ngokwenyani ngokuma ngokwesondo- kwaye uyonwabele- inyathelo lokuqala kukuphinda uluvo lwakho "lwesini." Ayisiyo yonke into eyabelana ngesondo ekufuneka ingenile kwaye, enyanisweni, xa kufikwa kumba wokuma ngesondo, ngomlomo, ngesondo, okanye ukomisa ngokubanzi kunokuba mnandi kakhulu. Ke phosa umbono wokuba ufuna ukuba yibhanti yerabha, okwazi ukuzimela kwilungu lobudoda okanye kwilungu lomntu (mhlawumbi) ongalinganiyo nawe kwaye uvuleleke ekwenzeni ezinye izinto zesondo xa umile.

"Khumbula, zonke ezi zikhundla ziyasebenza nakwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo. Ungoyiki ukuma phakathi kwaye unike iqabane lakho eyona nto ibalaseleyo kwihlabathi," utshilo uJulieta Chiaramonte, ibhlog yesondo kunye nengcali yokudlala ngesondo. (Idibeneyo: Ezona ndawo ziBalulekileyo zoSondo ngomlomo zeVulvas)

Ngokwenyani, ukuma ngesondo kumnandi (kunye nazo zonke izinto ezingezizo ezabathunywa ebhedini) kuba siyayithanda inoveli. Iyabiliswa kukufuna ukwazi, ukuzama izinto ezintsha, kunye nokugcina impilo yakho yesondo intsha. Kwaye, "isondo esimiyo senza ukuba isondo senzeke kwiindawo ezinokuthi zingenzeki," utshilo uRyn Pfeuffer, umbhali wesondo kunye nobudlelwane kunye nombhali 101 Iindlela Rock Online Dating (Thenga, $10, amazon.com). "Cinga: indawo ezixineneyo njengezindlu zangasese, kwaye ukuba ubelana ngesondo esidlangalaleni, ucinezelwe kwimoto okanye emthini."

Ukuma ngesondo akunakuhlala kuyiloo nto ukuyo, kodwa kulungile ukuba nayo kwimenyu yakho yesondo- kunye nezinye izinto ezimnandi ezinje ngesitulo sex kunye nebhafu yokuhlambela.

Ukuma kwamalungu eSondo ukuba uzame

Umlenze-up

Uyenza njani: Ukuma ujongane ebusweni, yenza iqabane lakho libambe umlenze wakho phezulu kwaye lingene kwi-astride. Ukuba ukugcina umlenze wakho uthe tye awunakukhathazeka, wugobe emadolweni. Esi sikhundla sikuvumela ukuba ugcine ibhalansi yakho ngexesha lokungena ngokungacacanga, kwaye awunyanzeli iqabane lakho ukuba libambe ubunzima bakho bonke (into enobungqina nakubani na).

Iimfuno: Esi sikhundla sibonakala ngathi sifana nomdlalo bhanyabhanya kwaye sijongeka njenge-acrobatic, kodwa ayisiyonto inzima ukuyikhupha. Isiseko se-OG esime ngesondo. Ilungele ama-adventures afana nesondo sangaphandle. Esi sisikhundla esihle ngaphandle kokungena. Ninokukhuhlana omnye komnye, sebenzisa izandla zenu, kwaye niqhubele umlilo (kwaye igazi liqukuqela).

Uyilungisa njani: Ukwenza umahluko wokuphakama, sebenzisa naziphi na izikhombisi ezizinzileyo onazo endlwini yakho. Izinyuko zinokukhohlisa. Qiniseka ukuba umva wakho ubambene nodonga. Into yokugqibela oyifunayo kukuwa. "Zama ukufaka isidlidlizi kumxube ofana ne-Satisfyer Strong One Vibrating Cock Ring (Thenga yona, $ 40, amazon.com), enokwandisa ixesha lokusebenza ngelixa unikezela ukhuthazo," utshilo uChiaramonte. (Ngakumbi apha: Uyisebenzisa njani iRock Cock -kwakhona kunye nokukhetha ezi-8 zokuzama)

Ukuma Oral for Vulvas

Uyenza njani: Elinye iqabane limi, ngoxa elinye liguqa phambi kwalo. Umamkeli unokuyasaza imilenze yakhe ibe ngu "V", okanye abeke unyawo olunye egxalabeni lomlingane wakhe. Oku kungathatha uhlengahlengiso, ke qiniseka ukuthatha ixesha elincinci lokufumana okusebenzayo kuwe.

Iimfuno: Esi sisikhundla esibhiyozela ukongamela kwabasetyhini kunye nesini. Ngaphezu koko, isondo somlomo siyindlela ethembekileyo yokuba uninzi lwabanini be-vulva babe ne-orgasm. Ngapha koko, uKenneth Play, utitshala wamanye amazwe kunye nomsunguli we-Sex Hacker Pro Series, uthi, "kuba abanini abanobuninzi babo bakhula bephulula amalungu esini ngemilenze yabo ethe nkqo, okanye bemi kwishower, uninzi lwabasetyhini luyi-orgasm ngokulula ngokuthe tye. imilenze. Esi sikhundla siphindaphinda ukuba, ukuba ume ngemilenze ethe tye kwaye eqelelene."

Ungayiguqula njani: Ukuba ukuguqa akululanga kulowo unikayo, bamba umqamelo (mhlawumbi nomqamelo wesini) ngenkxaso eyongezelelweyo. Bamba ezimbini, nkqu! Ukuba oku akukasebenzi kubo, gcina umile. Goba esinqeni. Ukwenza lula ngakumbi, bamba isitulo kwaye uhlale phantsi unike umlomo.

Umda weTheyibhile

Uyenza njani: "Uhlala kwikhawuntara okanye etafileni kwaye bayama. Ukuba nenkxaso yendawo ethe tyaba kunye nokuzinza kunika iqabane eliqhubayo ukufikelela ngokuchanekileyo.Biyela imilenze yakho esinqeni sabo ukuze ubasondeze kwaye ubambelele, utshilo uTaylor Sparks, umfundisi-ntsapho onomdla kunye nomseki we-Organic Loven, enye yeevenkile ezinkulu ze-BIPOC ezikwi-intanethi.

Iimfuno: "Zimbalwa izinto ezishushu kunokuba ulale etafileni, usasaze imilenze yakho ubekwe kwilungu lobufazi kanye emaphethelweni, kwaye ukuba neqabane lingene kuwe, nokuba kungepenisi okanye ukubopha umtya," utshilo uPfeuffer. "Esi sikhundla sisebenza kakuhle xa kukho umahluko wokuphakama phakathi kwamaqabane. Zizo zonke iintlobo ze-sexy eziza kusasazwa-ukhozi kwaye luvezwe ngoluhlobo." Esi sikhundla sikwavumela ukungena okunzulu kakhulu - ke, ukuba yinto yakho leyo, uya kuyithanda.

Ungayiguqula njani: Esi sikhundla asiphelelanga nje kwiitafile. Nawuphi na umphezulu ovumela imizimba yakho ukuba ilungelelane iya kwenza ngokugqibeleleyo. Esi sikhundla sinokuba sikhulu ngomlomo. Hlala esitulweni kwaye iqabane lakho (umnikeli) liguqe okanye lihlale phambi kwakho. Yenze eyakho, boo.

Ukuntywila kwigumbi lokuhlambela nje

Uyenza njani: Umamkeli ume ejongene nesinki, esebenzisa inkxaso. Unokuma ngokuthe tye okanye ugobe phezu kwe-sink, nokuba yeyiphi eziva ikhululekile. Umniki ke ngoko ungena ngasemva umamkeli.

Iimfuno: Kulungile, okokuqala, nifumana ukuba nizibukele kwisipili segumbi lokuhlambela eli *abapheki bayancamisana.* Ngaphezu koko, ilungile kwii-sexcapades zikawonke-wonke ze-sexcapades. "[Iqabane lakho] linokubamba isinqe sakho, ukubetha iesile lakho, okanye ukufikelela kwiindawo zakho," utshilo uPfeuffer.

Ungayiguqula njani: Ukuba oku akunakwenzeka, tsiba ukungena. Esi sisikhundla sokulala ngesondo ngomlomo, kokubini kwi-vulva-havers kunye nabanini beepenisi. Awukwazi ukugoba? Ngubani othi isixhaso esinenkxaso ye-sink sisusiwe etafileni, abahlobo? Yiba kuyo.

Yogi

Uyenza njani: Umniki "uthatha iqabane lakhe ngasemva, kwaye mabazibophelele iingalo zabo eludongeni," utshilo uChiaramonte. Kuya kufuneka emva koko "bagobe [umntu owamkelayo] phambili kwaye benze ijika emva kwabo." Umniki kufuneka abonakale ngathi benza "ikati" indawo yeyoga - ke igama.

Iimfuno: "Ayisiyiyo le nto kuphela eyakha umva omangalisayo kunye negxalaba lommkeli, kodwa ijongisa isinqe ngokukuko ukungena kwilungu lobufazi okanye ezimpundu xa bemi nkqo," uyacacisa uChiaramonte. "Cinga [malunga] nokwenza oku yonke indawo: Igumbi lokulala, ikhitshi, ishawa yakho." Kukho okuninzi kokungafaniyo nale. (Eyeleleneyo: Ezona zithuba zigqwesileyo zeshawari ngokwesondo)

Ungayiguqula njani: Owona mcimbi mkhulu abantu abanokuba nawo kwesi sikhundla sisebenza ngokwahluka kobude. "Omabini amaqabane angongeza ukugoba emadolweni ukuze ufumane i-engile elungileyo. Dlala ngokuba neengalo zakho ngaphezulu kwentloko yakho, okanye ngokuthe ngqo emacaleni esifubeni sakho, njengephimpi elibeka kwiyoga," uyongeza. Unokuzisa ezinye iithoyi (njengoko unako nazo zonke isondo), ezinjenge-wand vibrator enje ngeLe Wand (Thenga yona, $ 170, lewandmassager.com), into yokudlala enjengeZumio (Ithenge, $ 115, amazon. com) okanye iFin (Yithenge, $ 85, dameproducts.com) okanye iplagi yempundu. Izinto zokudlala zihlala zisenza yonke into ibe mnandi ngakumbi.

Ndimi Blowjob

Uyenza njani: Ngokufana nokuma ngomlomo kwi-vulva, umamkeli ume ebambelele eludongeni (okanye komnye umphezulu osicaba), ngelixa lowo umnikayo eguqa okanye ehleli (mhlawumbi emgangathweni okanye esitulweni) ukuze abanike isini somlomo.

Iimfuno: “Ukuguqa phambi kweqabane elimile eliphethe ilungu lobudoda ukuze sabelane ngesondo lomlomo yenye yezinto endizithandayo kwaye yeyona nto ingena kumkhwa wokuzithoba,” utshilo uPfeuffer. "Kukutshintshiselana okushushu kakhulu, okuvumela ukuba ujonge f * ck iqabane lakho" ngelixa belapha ezantsi. Ukuba udlala kakhulu njengobuso f* cking, umqala onzulu, njalo njalo, esi sikhundla sinokunceda ukunika ucwangciso olugqibeleleyo lwaloo miboniso. Kodwa musa ukuyifumana ijikekile, oku kunokuba kukutshintshiselana ngothando nangokusondeleyo, ukuba yeyona jam yakho. (Idibeneyo: Isikhokelo saBaqalayo kwi-BDSM)

Ungayiguqula njani: Iqabane elimileyo linokuhlala etafileni ekhitshini okanye kwenye indawo, ukuba bakhetha ukungami. Esi sikhundla sinaso sonke isibheno sokuma ngesondo, ngaphandle kokuma. Inokuba yinkohliso encinci kwithambo lomsila (indawo enzima, ouch), ke zama ukubeka umqamelo okanye itawuli esongiweyo phantsi kwento yomamkeli ukuze ufumane intuthuzelo engaphezulu.

Idada

Uyenza njani: KULUNGILE. Ke, esi sikhundla sokugqibela sesabo bahamba phambili ngokwesondo phakathi kwethu - hayi ngendlela ye-acrobatic, kodwa ngendlela yemali. Ngoba? Ngenxa yokuba ufuna isondo swing. Ukuba oku kuvakala kukhulu kakhulu kuwe, ungakhathazeki ngayo.

"Ukutshintshana ngesondo kunokusetyenziswa kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo, kodwa unike ithuba elihle lokujonga iqabane lakho nangona ungathanda ngelixa ungena okanye unikezela ngesondo ngomlomo kwindawo yokuma," utshilo uChiaramonte. Ngokwenene, owamkelayo uhleli kwi-swing (okanye ulala phezu kwayo) kwaye umniki-mali uyangena kubo okanye abanike isondo somlomo.

Iimfuno: Esona sizathu silungileyo sokuba ngumnikazi we-sex swing kungenxa yokuguquguquka kwabo. Enye kukuba ba hella erotic. Nje, ngubani ongafuni ukuba nguSamantha Jones kweso siqendu esinye Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye neSixeko Ufumana phi emva kwayo kwi swing yesithandwa sakhe? Qiniseka ukuba uthenga izinto ezilungileyo. "Nangona ezinye i-sex swings zinokuba nzima, ndikhetha ezilula ezihamba kakuhle kwaye zinokubotshwa ngomnyango onje ngePeepshow Toys Shots Door Swing (Yithenge, $ 35, peepshowtoys.com)," utshilo uChiaramonte. (Nantsi ngakumbi malunga neenguqu zesondo, indlela yokuzisebenzisa, kunye nendlela yokukhetha enye.)

Ungayiguqula njani: "Ukusetyenziswa kwee-swings zesini ezisemgangathweni kunokwenza wonke umahluko kubantu abanobude obahlukeneyo, ubudala okanye ubuchule bomzimba," utshilo uTiana GlittersaurusRex, umfundisi-ntsapho kunye nomseki we-Sex Work Survival Guide, umbutho ongenzi nzuzo okhuthaza ukuphumelela. amalungelo kunye nokhuseleko lwabathengisi ngemizimba. Iinkcukacha zixhomekeke kuwe. Yonwaba ngayo, yiba nomdla, kwaye ufumanise ukuba yintoni esebenza ngcono kumzimba wakho.

UGigi Engle yingcali yesini eqinisekisiweyo, utitshala, kunye nombhali wazo Zonke Iimpazamo zeF F: UkuKhokela kwezesondo, kuThando nakuBomi. Mlandele kwi-Instagram nakwi-Twitter ku @GigiEngle.

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