Ngaba ikho ngokwenene into enjalo njenge-Alpha Uterus?

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Mhlawumbi uvile ukuba ukuba uchitha ixesha elaneleyo kunye nabasetyhini abafanayo, imijikelezo yakho yokuya exesheni yonke iya kuvumelanisa. Abanye bethu banokufunga ukuba iyakwazi-kwaye inyani yenza-yenzeka. (Ngaba wakha wasebenza kwiofisi ezele ngabasetyhini? Sinayo!) Kodwa ngaba sikhona isibeleko sealpha esisilawulayo konke xa isiza kukuvumelanisa? (BTW, nantsi into ethethwa lixesha lakho kwiShedyuli yakho yokuSebenza.)

Okokuqala, lonke uluvo lwamaxesha okuvumelanisa kwindawo yokuqala lunobungqina obunqongopheleyo, utshilo uRebecca Nelken, MD, ibhodi eqinisekisiweyo ye-OB / GYN eLos Angeles. U-Nelken uthi: "Iqala ngonyaka ka-1971 xa umfundi wezengqondo uMartha McClintock waqonda ukuba abantu ababhinqileyo abahlala kunye kwigumbi lokulala baphela ngokuya exesheni." Uphando, olwapapashwa kwijenali Indalo, ichaze ngokuthe ngqo ukuba iipheromones zichaphazele iihomoni zabasetyhini ezibangela ulungelelwaniso. Ingxaki kukuba, oku yayingelolingo lwezonyango olungenamsebenzi, "ibiluphononongo lokujonga," utshilo uNelken. Uguqulelo lwehlabathi lokwenyani? Thatha olu phononongo-njengoko kufanelekile kwizifundo ezininzi-kunye nengqolowa enkulu yetyuwa.

Ngaphandle kwesi sifundo, kukho kuphela iingcinga malunga nokuba kutheni i-pheromones yabasetyhini inamandla ngakumbi kunabanye (kwaye akukho phando lucacisiweyo kwiipheromones ngokubanzi, utsho uNelken). Umzekelo, kukho ithiyori yokuba abasetyhini abachume ngakumbi babizwa ngokuba ziinkokheli ngokwebhayisikile, kodwa uNelken uyakhawuleza ukubonisa ukuba akukho phando apho.

Enye ingcaciso eqhelekileyo colloquial kukuba amabhinqa anamandla ngakumbi-bathi, boss-lady uhlobo CEOs-imfihlo pheromones ezinamandla ngakumbi yaye ngaloo ndlela bekuya kuba lowo wonke umjikelo ungqamaniso. Akukho nto ingqinwe ngokwenzululwazi ... "Andikwazi ukucinga ngenzuzo yokuzala nokuba." Kwaye ekubeni akukho hlobo lokhetho lukaDarwin oludlalwayo, uluntu lwezonyango aluzange lufune ukuqhubela phambili ulwazi lwalo kwesi sihloko, utsho uNelken. (Uh, kutheni abafazi befaka imbiza kumanina wabo?)

"Ekugqibeleni, asazi nje ukuba ikhona into efana 'nealpha uterus,' imijikelezo yokuvumelanisa, nokuba ingaba ibonisa impilo, ukuchuma, okanye amandla, utshilo uNelken. Ke kwixesha elizayo xa uqaphela ukuba ulungelelene nomntu ohlala naye, ungacingi kabini malunga noku. Into elungileyo kukuba ungahlulahlula ibhokisi yeetamponi ezinerhafu ephezulu. (Idibeneyo: Kutheni le nto wonke umntu ejongene namaxesha ngoku?)

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