Uhlala njani uVenus Williams phezulu kuMdlalo wakhe

Umxholo

• Ukuchonga ukuKhathalela kwakho okungathethiyo
• Zithathele Ngokunzulu Iimbono Zokuqala
• Dare ukuseta imida
• Joyina uluntu oluxhasayo
• Phinda uchaze iiNjongo ezingafezekisekanga
• Uphengululo lwe

UVenus Williams uyaqhubeka nokumenza uphawu kwintenetya; Ngokukhuphisana kwibala laseLouis Armstrong ngoMvulo, wabopha nje uMartina Navratilova kwirekhodi le-Open Era yase-US evulekileyo yomdlali obhinqileyo. (BTW, uye wadlula kumjikelo wokuqala.)

Kuba uVenus ebelawula ixesha elide (iminyaka engama-25, ukuba ichaneke), ilizwe liyabazi ubuchule bakhe be-tennis. Kodwa amashishini oshishino lukaVenus ayinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bakhe. Utata wakhe, uRichard Williams, owayezimisele ukuqeqesha uVenus kunye nodadewabo uSerena kwitennis, naye wayefuna ukuba bakhule babe ngoosomashishini, ngokuka INew York Times. Bobabini benza, kwaye amashishini kaVenus abandakanya i-V-Starr Interiors, inkampani yoyilo lwangaphakathi, kunye ne-EleVen, uphawu lwempahla esebenzayo ayidlalayo ngelixa ekhuphisana. Njengembaleki, ufumene ukuqinisekiswa, kubandakanya ubudlelwane obude kunye neAmerican Express egxininisa indima yakhe njengomnini weshishini elincinci. (Eyeleleneyo: Ilayini eNtsha yokunxiba kaVenus Williams yaphefumlelwa yiPuppy yakhe ethandekayo)

Ngokungafunekiyo ukuthetha, uVenus yingcali xa kuziwa ekujonganeni neenjongo. Ngethamsanqa, naye uthanda ukwabelana. Uthi: "Ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba okukhona ndifunda, kokukhona ndithanda ukunika iingcebiso," utshilo. Sisebenzise ngokupheleleyo xa sincokola nembali egameni lobambiswano neAmerican Express. Apha ngezantsi, iindlela zakhe eziphambili zokuthatha intenetya, ishishini, kunye nobomi.

Ukuchonga ukuKhathalela kwakho okungathethiyo

"Ukuzinyamekela kuyimfuneko. Andicingi ukuba ukuxakeka kuyisingxengxezo sokungazikhathaleli. Kuhluke kancinane kumntu wonke, kwaye kufuneka ufumane oko kukuthi. Ndicinga ukuba izinto ezilula ezifana nokutya okunempilo zibalulekile. Kuyacaca ukuba, ukuzilolonga yindlela yokuphila kum, ikwabhekisa kwindlela ocinga ngayo, ukukwazi ukuba neengcinga ezisempilweni nokuzithemba kubalulekile, kwaye kubalulekile ukuzinakekela esikuthanda ukungakukhathaleli. (Ezinxulumene: Ukuzikhathalela ngokwakho kuKwenza njani indawo kwiFitness Fitness)

Zithathele Ngokunzulu Iimbono Zokuqala

"Ukuqala njengomnini weshishini, ndinqwenela ukuba ngendazile ukuba ukuthi 'hayi' okanye ukunika ukugxeka okwakhayo akuyikhathazi imvakalelo yomntu. Ngamanye amaxesha xa uqala ubudlelwane beshishini ngonyawo olunye kwaye uzama ukutshintsha kamva kwi, kunokuba ngumngeni. Kufuneka uqale ngonyawo lwasekunene kwaye ukwazi ukudala ubudlelwane apho unokuthi ngamanye amaxesha 'hayi' kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uxelele abantu 'heyi le asiyondlela ilungileyo.'

Dare ukuseta imida

"Ndicinga ukuba abantu abaninzi bathi, 'Kulungile kubalulekile ukuba ube nokulingana ebomini,' kodwa ndicinga nje ukuba ubomi ngokwendalo abukho semgangathweni. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ungadala njani ibhalansi ngaphakathi ekubeni ungabikho-mali. Xa ndisithi 'ewe' kuthetha ukuba ndingayenza, xa ndisithi 'hayi' kuthetha ukuba andinawo amandla okwenza njalo. ndinexesha elininzi, ke kufuneka ndizenzele ixesha elincinci. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ndizobe umgca entlabathini. " (Idibeneyo: Ibhalansi yoBomi-yoBomi yinto, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo awunayo)

Joyina uluntu oluxhasayo

"Ukuqala, abazali bam ngokuqinisekileyo babengabacebisi bam. Babethetha umhlaba kum. Ndikunye nabo, ndinesiseko esiqinileyo-kodwa ukuba awunayo, unokufuna inkxaso. Njengokuba usiba mdala, uya qaphela ukuba kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokucinga. Kufuneka ufune kungekhona nomcebisi kuphela, kodwa uluntu olunengqondo efanayo oluhamba kwicala elinye.

Phinda uchaze iiNjongo ezingafezekisekanga

"Ndingatsho ukuba isitshixo sokuqala sokuhlala ugxile kukuzama ukufumana into onomdla kuyo. Ukuzenzela imiceli mngeni kunye neenjongo zakho kunokukunceda uhlale ugxile kuba xa ufikelela kuzo uziva woyikeka. Kwaye xa ungazenzi , ayisiyonto imbi leyo, oko kuthetha nje ukuba kufuneka ubeke iinjongo ezintsha kwaye uzame amacebo amatsha."

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