Usixelele: UJamie wokubaleka uMama kaDiva

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Ukubaleka uMama weDiva ekuqaleni kwaqala kwiminyaka emibini eyadlulayo njengelog yobuqu yoqeqesho lwam kunye namava omdyarho, ukuze ndibe nokubukela inkqubela yam yobuqu ekuhambeni kwexesha. Ndikhethe igama lebhlog ngenxa yothando lwam lokwenza indlela yokuphila esempilweni kunye esebenzayo, hayi eyam kuphela, kodwa neyosapho lonke. Ndifuna nokubandakanya indlela yam enesibindi endiyibonisa ngayo kubomi bemihla ngemihla nangaphandle kwendlela (cinga ukubaleka kweziketi, iikawusi eziphakamileyo emadolweni, iibhanti ezinemibala eqaqambileyo kunye ne-mascara ebalekayo ... ngokoqobo). Khange ndicinge ukuba omnye umntu angade afunde ukungxama kwam.

Ngoku ibe yindlela yam yokudibanisa nabanye abagijimi kunye noomama abavela kwihlabathi lonke, njengoko sifunda omnye komnye indlela yokulungelelanisa intsapho, umsebenzi, kunye nokuphila ngendlela enempilo kunye nesebenzayo. Ndiyakonwabela ukwabelana ngezinto endizithandayo kunye namava am, kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba abanye oomama baya kubona ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuzinika ixesha yonke imihla. Njengomama osandul’ ukutshata wabantwana ababini, ukulungelelanisa yonke into kuye kwaba lucelomngeni ngakumbi. Ndiyaqhubeka nokugxininisa ukuba kunzima ukuzingca, kodwa akunakwenzeka, kwaye wena nabantwana bakho niyakuzuza kuko. Emva kokufumana uqhawulo-mtshato kwangoko kulo nyaka kunye nokuqala kwesiqalo sam esitsha nabantwana bam, ndisebenzise ukubaleka kwam kunye nokwenza ingxelo kwiibhlog zam njengonyango lwam. Ukuphuma kunye nenkqubo yenkxaso endiyifumene kuyo zombini ziye zaba yintsikelelo enkulu ebomini bam. Kwaye ngaphandle kwezithintelo endinazo, ndiyakholelwa ukuba ibhlog yam indincedile ndakwazi ukuziphendulela kwiinjongo zam ebesele ndizibekele unyaka-njengoko sele ndiyigqithile injongo yam yokubaleka i-marathons elishumi elinambini kulo nyaka.

Ukongeza, mna nabantwana bam ngoku sijonga iimveliso kunye neenkonzo ezijolise kwiintsapho ezisebenzayo. Sijonga yonke into ukusuka kwizixhobo zokubaleka ukuya kukhetho lokutya okunempilo ukuya kwimpahla yabantwana kunye nezinto zokudlala ezizodwa. Unokude uphumelele into okanye ezimbini kwenye yeendlela zethu ezintle.

Yima ngokubaleka uMama kaDiva xa ishedyuli yakho exakekileyo ivumela kwaye uqokelele inkuthazo ekhawulezileyo, thatha ezinye iingcebiso malunga nokulinganisa ukuba ngumama kunye noqeqesho, kwaye ujonge iimveliso ezimnandi kwaye ezizodwa- kufanelekile!

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