Iyure Yobugqwirha Yeyona Imbi - Nantsi Into Ongayenza Ngayo

Umxholo

• Ngubani ixesha lokuthakatha?
• Ibangelwa yintoni?
• Ungenzani?
• Ukutya okwenziwe ngodongwe
• Ipop kwi-pacifier
• Jonga imirhubhe
• Cinga ngoxinzelelo lwakho
• Phuma phandle
• Hamba ujikeleze
• Zama ulusu kulusu
• Tshintsha abanonopheli
• Xa kutheni enye into?
• Yise kude

Lixesha lemini kwakhona! Umntwana wakho oqhele ukuba nethamsanqa uguqukile waba ngumntwana ongaxolanga, ongathuthuzelekiyo ongayeki ukulila. Kwaye oko nangona uzenzile zonke izinto eziqhelekileyo ukuzilungisa.

Ukubheja uziva ngathi ukongeza iinyembezi zakho kunogumbe. Ingaba ingaba yileyure yokuthakatha?

Ngubani ixesha lokuthakatha?

Nje ukuba ubelapho, uya kuqonda. Uninzi lwabazali luya kunqwala uvelwano xa ukhankanya ixesha lokuthakatha. Kwaye kungenxa yokuba uninzi lwethu luye lwahlekisa ngenye indlela ukuzola kosana kwezi yure. Ewe, uxolo ukuthetha, kodwa oko kunjalo iiyure hayi yure.

Iyure yobugqwirha ibonakala isenzeka malunga nexesha elifanayo yonke imihla. Cinga emva kwemini, ngokuhlwa, nakwiiyure zokuqala zobusuku: naphi na nge-5 ntambama. Ku-12 ekuseni. Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba lo mceli mngeni (ngokuqinisekileyo iyazolula iintlungu zakho) ixesha ekugqibeleni liyaphela.

Gcina iithebhu kuyo kwaye uyabona ukuba ihlala iqala phakathi kweveki yesi-2 okanye yesi-3, iincopho zeveki yesi-6, emva koko ize iphele ijikeleze inqaku leenyanga ezi-3.

Ibangelwa yintoni?

Ke ukuba iyure yobugqwirha ngumceli mngeni wokwenene kwaye ayingowombali weentsomi, yintoni kanye kanye ebangela oko? Ngelixa kungekho mntu uneempendulo ezichanekileyo, kukho iithiyori ezininzi.

• Zama kwaye uzame. Ngaba itempo endlwini yakho ithatha emva kwemini nasekuseni? Ngokwesiqhelo ezi ziiyure xa abanye abantwana kunye namaqabane besiza ekhaya okanye uchola kunonophelo lwabantwana. Kuya kufuneka ulungiselele isidlo sangokuhlwa kwaye ngequbuliso ukhumbule la fowuni yasemsebenzini ekufuneka uyenzile. Kuninzi okuqhubekayo kunye nokugqithisa kunokuba kuninzi kakhulu kwabanye abantwana. Umjikelo wokukhala unokuba luphawu lokuba umntwana wakho ufuna uxolo nokuzola.
• Ukudinwa kakhulu. Iintsana ukusuka ekuzalweni ukuya kwiiveki ezili-12 ziyadinwa ngokukhawuleza. Xa usana lwakho lugqithisile, i-cortisol kunye ne-adrenaline ikhutshwa kwigazi. Uyakufumanisa kunzima ngakumbi ukuthuthuzela umntwana wakho xa ezi hormone zokuvuka zihamba emzimbeni wabo omncinci.
• Unikezelo lobisi olusezantsi. Uninzi loomama lufumanisa ukuba ukuya esiphelweni sosuku, ubisi lwabo lubonakala lunqabile. Ngokunokwenzeka, oku kuyenzeka kuba amanqanaba ethu eprolactin (ihomoni enceda ukuvelisa ubisi) asezantsi ekupheleni kosuku. Amanqanaba asezantsi eprolactin athetha ukuhamba kancinci kobisi kwaye oko kuyaphazamisa umntwana olambileyo.
• Ukukhula okukhulayo. Ngethuba lonyaka wabo wokuqala, umntwana wakho uya kuhamba kwiindawo ezininzi zokukhula. Ngokwesiqhelo, oku kukhula kuya kuza malunga neeveki ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-3, iiveki ezi-6, iinyanga ezi-3, kunye neenyanga ezintandathu ubudala. Bhiyozela ezi zinto zibalulekileyo kwaye uyazi ukuba, kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, umntwana wakho unokuba fussier kwaye afune ukutya ngaphezulu.

Iyure yokuthakatha ayisoloko iyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokukhulisa abantwana. Ngapha koko, ngelixa abanye abazali banokujongana nemiceli mngeni ngexesha lokuthakatha, abanye banethamsanqa baya kuthi chu ngokutyibilika kwezi yure. Nanku ukukhwela ngaphandle kwe-glitch sonke!

Ungenzani?

Ukuba ungomnye wabazali ekufuneka bephikise lo mngeni, nantsi into onokuyenza ukuze kube lula kuwe nakusana lwakho.

Ukutya okwenziwe ngodongwe

Ukuba umntwana wakho uncancisa, mhlawumbi ungunesi ngokomyinge malunga neeyure ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-4. Ukuba unika ubisi olungumgubo, mhlawumbi uqale ngokunikela nge-ounces ezi-1 ukuya kwezi-2 zobisi olungumgubo lweentsana rhoqo emva kweeyure ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-3 emva koko wonyusa xa kubonakala ngathi basalambile.

Kodwa la manani awasebenzi xa kufika ixesha lokuthakatha. Ngexesha leeyure, umntwana wakho unokufuna ukudibanisa ukutya, okanye ondle yonke imizuzu engama-30 okanye ngaphezulu. Ilungile. Banokuhamba ngokukhula ngokukhawuleza, befuna intuthuzelo eyongezelelweyo, okanye bagcwalise isisu sabo sokulala ixesha elide ebusuku. (Ukulala ixesha elide ebusuku? Ewe kuloo nto!)

Ipop kwi-pacifier

Ngaba uqaphele ukuba iintsana ziyakuthanda ukuncanca? Zama ukusebenzisa i-pacifier ukuzolisa umntwana wakho endaweni yokunikela isifuba sakho okanye ibhotile. Ukondliwa kweqela kunokufaka isandla kwimiceli mngeni yeyure yobugqwirha kuba inakho ukulayisha kakhulu inkqubo yokwetyisa yosana lwakho. Ukusebenzisa i-pacifier kukunika ithuba lesibini.

Jonga imirhubhe

Irhasi ebanjwe esiswini somntwana wakho iya kubenza babe lusizi. Qiniseka ukuba uncedo lwakho luyayikhupha igesi ngokubanceda ukuba babhodle ngokumphulula umqolo ngobunono okanye ukubabamba egxalabeni kunye nezisu zabo ziphumle egxalabeni lakho. Isilumkiso sokuthunywa: Gcina ilaphu xa umntwana wakho etshiza.

Cinga ngoxinzelelo lwakho

Ngaba wakha waqaphela ukuba umntwana onomsindo unokuthula ngokukhawuleza xa omnye umntu ebabambile? Yhu, iintsana ziyakwazi ukufunda iimvakalelo zabanonopheli bazo. Ukuba utyhafile, usana lwakho luya kuba noburhalarhume; ukuba uzolile, umntwana wakho uya kukhululeka. Thatha umoya ophefumlayo. Cinga kancinci ukuba unako.

Isifundo se-101 seyure yokuthakatha kukuzikhumbuza ukuba ungoyena mzali ubalaseleyo kolu sana kwaye ungayenza.

Phuma phandle

Ukuba unako, zama ukuphuma phandle. Ngokufanelekileyo yenza uhambo olufutshane epakini okanye nokuba ujikeleze ibhloko. Ukuba ngaphandle kukunika ithuba lokusula intloko, ulibale malunga nemisebenzi elinde wena ekhaya, kwaye ukhumbule ukuba olu sana luhlala luthandeka.

Hamba ujikeleze

Usana lwakho luqhele ukuhamba. Uyakhumbula ukuba ubathwale ngeenxa zonke iinyanga ezili-9? Zama ukuzifaka kujingi kwaye uvumele isindululo sibathuthuzele. Ukuba ufuna ukukhulula iingalo zakho ukuze usebenze, sebenzisa umntwana ophethe umntwana.

Zama ulusu kulusu

Ukusondela kufutshane nosana lwakho kunokusebenza njengekhubalo. Umntwana wakho uya kukhululeka xa esiva ulusu lwakho luchasene nolwabo. Kwaye njengoko ugxobhoza kwaye uphefumlela la mavumba omntwana, mhlawumbi nawe uza kwenjenjalo.

Tshintsha abanonopheli

Musa ukuba neentloni ukucela uncedo. Ukuba uyakhathazeka, okanye ufuna nje ikhefu, cela iqabane lakho okanye ilungu losapho ukuba likuncede. Mhlawumbi kudala belinde ukuba ubuze.

Xa kutheni enye into?

Kakhulu ngeyure yokuthakatha. Kodwa ngaba ukukhala okungapheliyo kunokuba yinto engaphezulu? Kuyaxhomekeka. Ukuba umntwana wakho ukhalela i-3 okanye ngaphezulu iiyure ngosuku, iintsuku ezi-3 okanye ngaphezulu ngeveki, iiveki ezi-3 okanye nangaphezulu ngexesha, unokufuna ukuqaphela i-colic. Ngokukodwa ukuba umntwana wakho ugoba umqolo wabo okanye unyusa imilenze yabo kwisisu sabo.

IColic iqala malunga neeveki ezi-6 kwaye ihlala inyamalala ngenyanga yesi-3 okanye yesi-4. IColic ingabangelwa (kukumangaliswa, ukumangaliswa) lubisi oluninzi. Ukuba unobisi oluninzi kakhulu kunye nokudakumba ngamandla, usana lwakho lunokuthatha umoya omninzi ngelixa lusondla. Oku kuya kubanika irhasi eninzi kunye neentlungu.

I-Reflux (okanye i-GERD yesifo se-reflux sesifo se-gastroesophageal, xa i-reflux isenzeka rhoqo, ibangela ukonzakala kumbhinqo we-esophageal) kunokwenza ukuba umntwana wakho akhale kakhulu. I-Reflux yenzeka apho isisu esicaphukisayo sesisu siphinda senziwe kwisopha. Cinga isitshisa sokuba uvelane nosana lwakho.

Ukuba i-reflux, uya kuqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala etshiza kwaye ebonakala engonwabanga ngayo. Ukubheja kwakho okuhle, ukuba ukhathazekile malunga nexesha elide lokulila, kukunxibelelana nodokotela wabantwana.

Yise kude

Iyure yobugqwirha inoxinzelelo! Usana lwakho ngumntu o-teeny oneemfuno zakhe zentsha ezinokubonakala zinkulu kakhulu ngamaxesha athile osuku. Kodwa qhubeka ... uyazi ukuba unayo le ... kuba nayo iya kudlula.